I was approached last month by a young lady (JL) who told me that she hoped every night that she wouldn't wake up in the morning.  She was taking 15 different prescribed drugs to help her with her depression and general health and had given up on the idea of eating, and couldn't sleep at night. Her alcohol abuse meant that she had very little money and she had nothing to look forward to.  She told me that StarChild was her last hope and asked if we could help.  Without hesitation I invited her over to Jersey for a week so that we could see what we could do.

 

I was shocked when she arrived and thought we had taken on a little too much to do in one week.  She looked so much older than her years, had absolutely no appetite, and was obviously extremely tired.

 

We asked the Universe for all the help and guidance they could give us and set to work.

 

Nearly three weeks later, JL hasn't had a drink, she is not just eating but also cooking for herself, she is socialising and having fun.  She is a shining example to us all that with the right attitude and a bit of help, you can achieve absolutely everything.

 

Here's her story Jen's story

 

She wasn't convinced that Life Coaching was the answer for she had heard that it was all about positive thinking and she wasn't feeling very positive.  But, she had had enough of her life the way it was and knew that she needed some sort of help to get her back on track.

 

Here's Jayne's story Read it here

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So many of you have asked if the Practitioner Range of supplements that I stock can be bought locally.  Whilst this is not possible (because it is a Practitioner Range) I have managed to agree with the Company that if you order direct from you will be able to receive them both VAT free and with a 5% discount.

 

To order direct from them you will need to telephone 08453 703803 and quote my account number 9336.

The landscaping of the garden, started late last year, is nearly reaching its final stage.

 

Those of you who haven't been for a while will remember that the garden was getting very sloped and increasingly dangerous.  Even our 'no fear' grandson, walked away from earning money to mow the grass and words like 'You have to be kidding' were often heard.

 

We now have meditation areas, additional decking, a woodland walk, and have planted over fifty new trees.  The additional trees have allowed us to hang out more feeders for the multitude of birds and squirrels that grace our gardens.  The two ponds have been increased to five and form the basis of a wonderful meditation area with running water.

 

We planned the garden so that people beside us could enjoy it, and spend time in meditation, solitude, peace and tranquility.  We hope it will enable people to bring back the joy in their lives.

 

All we lack now is a plan as to how to do it?  If you have any ideas on how we can offer the use of the gaden for people to enjoy then please let us know.  We are open to all ideas.

 

But it does prompt me to remind you that you and your brain/subconscious mind receives over 2,000,000 bits of information per second via the input channels of your fives senses.  If you were to be instantaneaously aware of this external input all at once, you would undoubtedly go insane.

 

Ulric Neisser, a psychologist, says "Our mental machinery knows everything that is going on around us but discards most as unimportant before consciousness is reached."

 

If real terms you only actually process between 5 and 7 bits of information.  What you delete, distort and generalize depends on your own internal filters.  These filters are your rule book and are created through your up bringing, your enviornment, and the signficant exmotional experiences in your life.

The filters are therefore composed of values, beliefs, attitudes, memories, decisions and language.  John McCrone summarises this quite ably "A person is a collection of memories and habits that shape the moment-to-moment flow of the mind."

 

In essence today, you are the sum total of your life experiences, beliefs, values, internal rules, attitudes and memories.

But, it doesn't end there, for some of our beliefs, values, internal rules, and attitudes are those taught to us by our parents and peers from their own life experiences.

 

If things aren't going well for you and you believe you have a really positive attitude, then there is a good chance that your inner (subconcious) belief is in contradiction to your conscious belief.

 

Here's some examples:-

 

If your conscious dream is to have more money, but your subconscious belief is 'that money can't buy happiness' then the chances of your ever having money to play with is not very high.

 

If your conscious dream is to be a well paid artist, but your subconscious belief is that 'artists never make any money'  then the chances of making a living from art is not very high.

 

My mother was responsible for giving me one of her beliefs "Work hard or starve" based on her own experiences of life.  For many years I worked 24/7 and never had room for play.  Subconsciously I believed that if I ever let up and relaxed, I and my family would surely starve!  Took me many years to uncover that belief but once I did I was able to relax and cut down my hours and heh, we never starved.....

 

Our work here at StarChild is devoted to helping you uncover some of your internal filters.  Once you have made a decision to change any aspect of your life, then we are here to help you.  But as much as we would like to be, we are not miracle workers for the responsibility for the change must rest with you.

 

As with the two testimonials, both clients had decided to make a change in their lives.  They took on board the help that we offered and that which resonated with them, they acted upon. 

They changed their internal filters, so that like the computer they were able to dismiss the junk mail - those things that no longer served them in their daily lives.

By changing the filters, and the things they focused on, they were able to accept responsibility for their lives and know that they had the power within themselves to bring about the changes they wanted and deserved.

 

If you want to change any aspect of your lives, make the decision to change and then contact us to find out which is the best route for you.

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