CALENDAR of EVENTS
REGISTER TODAY!!!!!!!
The New Monogamy;
Negotiating Love, Sex and Fidelity
with Esther Perel &Tammy Nelson
Four week Teleclass PART 2
All new material
November and December 2009
Join LIVE on the phone or listen to MP3s NASW AASECT IMAGO CEUs applied for To register go to www.tammynelson.org/ and click on "NEW MONOGAMY"
Explore the way boundaries of fidelity are defined, justified, lived, and negotiated for couples with varying practices of sexual exclusivity.
Esther Perel is the author of Mating in Captivity. www.estherperel.com
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WOMENS GROUP
Psychotherapy on Tuesdays
Daytime womens group
Meets for 12 weeks
in Ridgefield CT office
New Haven group starting soon
call for appointment or more info
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COUPLES INTENSIVES
Live far from Connecticut?
Want to come in for several hours of intensive work on your relationship? On your sex life? Work through years of conflicts? Frustrations? Dont have time for weekly therapy sessions?
Intensives are dynamic and focused on your issues as a couple - they are a proivate session with Tammy, for as many hours as you need.
Call or email for more info
PUTTING SEX BACK IN THE RELATIONSHIP;
Couples Crisis Intervention Meriden CT D and S Associates
December 1st 2009
NASW, PhD, NBCC, CEs available for 7 1/2 hours 8 am to 5 pm for more info go to http://www.dandsassociates.net to register ***************************************
Tammy Nelson teaches full day training to therapists in Washington DC at Mid Atlantic Imago Association meeting this December, Friday 12/12/09 ********************************************** |
Experience THE SHIFT
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Ask "The Man"
A New Monthly Column
brought to you this week by
"Robert"
"What do ordinary men really think about love and sex?"
Robert, our guest columnist, is not a therapist, or a licensed relationship professional. He is an ordinary man, answering the questions that therapists and every day people ask everyday. This month he answers the question,
Pornography - Is it Cheating?
by Robert Lowe I like Porn. It was going to be evident at some point in this column anyway, so I might as well just come right out and say it up front. Maybe, this admission won't be good for my career, my on-line presence, or my brand, but I am willing to take a risk or two for the privilege of writing these columns to help support the important work of Tammy Nelson. For the record, I do not tolerate, advocate, or endorse any pornography that was produced with children or produced using individuals that were coerced in any way. While some may think that pornography is exploitative, and it some cases it may be, I am sometimes left to wonder who is being exploited more egregiously, the actor/actress or the viewer. But that is a topic for my musings at another time. Pornography is just another of the many ways we seek to escape the realities of life. Just like the summer action movies we flock to that gives us a temporary scare or thrill as we get thrown into a larger than life world that is enhanced by a soundtrack that deliberately invokes great emotion, even a run in the mill porn movie will deliver much of the same, but probably with a much cheesier soundtrack. The difference here is that porn excites and titillates us and helps us to experience generalized feelings of sexuality and excitement. But just like the summer action flick, the porn movie is typically a bloated and overdone fantasy and most well adjusted men already understand this quite clearly. Porn can be an effective tool to heighten the sexual experiences between partners, but it is never, ever, never a substitute for actual contact with a living, breathing, sweating, and highly aroused partner. Consuming pornography is really very similar to watching the typical smash 'em up/shoot 'em up movie or even watching football or some other full contact sport. It allows men to temporarily experience their alter ego; the place within men that wants to dominate and control their surroundings to suit their needs or drive to victory through an extremely visual experience. Since men are generally visually dominated beings by nature, porn fits in very nicely with our natural tendencies. But most of us reasonable men know that it isn't real and does not present a reasonable depiction of how women should be treated or what sex should be like in a relationship any more than the shoot 'em up/smash 'em shows how to enact your revenge for a trivial encroachment........
http://www.tammynelson.org/blog/
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The New Monogamy - Negotiating Love, Sex & Fidelity
Four Week Teleclass with Esther Perel and Tammy Nelson REGISTER TODAY
Part 2-all new material - you do NOT need to have attended part 1 to register!
Teleclasses are seminars you attend on the telephone LIVE, or download on your computer at a time that's convenient for you. Earn CEUs or attend for your own professional or personal development. Hear the newest in research and clinical experience, learn skills to apply to your practice, and listen at your leisure at a price that works in your budget, without leaving home.
REGISTER TODAY! www.tammynelson.org classes begin November 17
November 17 & 24 and December 8 & 15, 2pm to 3pm EST
Join LIVE on the phone or listen to taped recording of class
NASW, AASECT and IMAGO CEUs applied for $200 total
Learn how to help couples negotiate the social and sexual boundaries of their relationship, and the strategies they use to protect their intimate bonds.
The course includes didactic material, experiential exercises, clinical applications, and in depth conversations.
Esther Perel, MA, LMFT, is the author of Mating in Captivity, now available in 25 languages. www.estherperel.com Tammy Nelson is the author of Getting the Sex You Want and a licensed psychotherapist. www.tammynelson.org
To register, go to the new monogamy
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Go to http://www.tammynelson.org/blog/ for an ongoing discussion on her blog...
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COMING IN 2010
Sex and Intimacy in DENMARK!
with Tammy Nelson author of Getting the Sex You Want Monday, 3 May 2010 Workshop first day is training for professionals (Step 1), building on the work with sex in the relationship. There will be an introductory paper on 'Imago, sexuality and therapeutic growth' by psychologist and Imago Senior Clinical Instructor Jette Simon. Info www.jettesimon.com Tuesday 4.maj - Wednesday 5th May 2010 Place Imago Center Funen, Vestergade 38, 2.th., 5000 Odense C Price Training for Professionals Monday, Sek. 1500th Workshop for couples, 2 days; Sek. 3900 pr. couple For Imagokonferencen in Copenhagen in autumn 2010 planned Stage 2
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