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3 part Teleseminar = GETTING THE SEX YOU WANT
For therapists and health care professionals as well as couples and individuals looking to improve their erotic lives Classes begin July 2009 Three sessions - Wednesdays - July 15, 22, 29 12pm t 1pm EST Join Live or listen to recordings - worksheets and handouts included - First 10 registered receive free download To BUY NOW and register go to www.tammynelson.org
The New Monogamy - Negotiating Love, Sex and Fidelity
With Esther Perel and Tammy Nelson Four week Teleclass September 15, 22, 29 and October 6, 2pm to 3pm EST Join LIVE on the phone or listen to taped recording of class NASW, AASECT and IMAGO CEUs applied for To register go to www.tammynelson.org and click on "NEW MONOGAMY"
Participants will: -Explore Explore the way boundaries of fidelity are defined, justified, lived, and negotiated for couples with varying practices of sexual exclusivity.
Esther Perel, is the author of Mating in Captivity. www.estherperel.com
GETTING THE LOVE YOU WANT
Sept 12 & 13 2009 GETTING THE LOVE YOU WANT WORKSHOP FOR COUPLES Two day Imago workshop for couples Saturday and Sunday in Ridgefield CT Recent attendees are saying: "This was an extremely intense, eye opening, and, yes, miraculous, weekend." [email protected] Cost: $795 per couple includes manuals
PAY NOW - DEPOSIT OF $350 WILL HOLD YOUR SPOT -
TELESEMINAR (part 3):
RETURN OF DESIRE; GETTING THE SEX YOU WANT A Teleseminar for Health Professionals With Gina Ogden, PhD and Tammy Nelson, LPC
AASECT, Imago and NASW CEs provided.
October 7 2009: FREE Introduction, Sessions: October 14, 21, November 4, 21 and 11
See www.tammynelson.org to register now!
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THE GRASS IS GREENER
by guest writer Wendy Stragr of GOOD CLEAN LOVE
If ever an expression defined human behavior, it is the notion that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence.
Ovid, an ancient Roman philosopher and poet was perhaps the first when he said that "the harvest is always more fruitful in another man's fields." This sense that life is better for others has perhaps its strongest and most debilitating hold on us as it affects our relationships.
Infidelity, the most cutting breach of trust that we experience in our intimate relationships is rampant. It is so common that not having some form of the experience is uncommon. While the stories of infidelity are as unique as the millions of people who engage in them - our shared human biology, emotional needs and the thinking errors that allow them - are universal.
Humans are not hardwired for monogamy any more than most mammals. The work of David Barash in the Myth of Monogamy is a great primer in understanding why infidelity is more the norm than the exception.
"We are not naturally monogamous. Anthropologists report that the overwhelming majority of human societies either are polygamous or were polygamous prior to the cultural homogenization of recent decades." In a recent study of committed partners, fully 95% of men and 80% of women fantasized about sex with other partners.
Read more of The Grass is Greener...
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TAMMY NELSON ON THE RADIO !
on blog talk radio -
Upfront and Straight Forward with Alan Roger Currie
"Madonna/Whore Complex"
AND Tune in to:
Long Island's radio station WHPC 90.3 FM. Just Relationships with Dr. Duffy airing this July schedule of shows with each Weds date (they replay Fridays 11:00 AM & Sundays 9:30 AM): Wednesday at 330pm July 15 "Understanding Sex Therapy -Part 1" Wednesday at 330pm July 22 "Understanding Sex Therapy - Part 2" WHPC 90.3 FM now Podcasting. To hear or download any show, click on http://itunes.ncc.edu . Click on "Launch Nassau". Look for the WHPC-FM 90.3 Icon, then scroll right to "Just Relationships". Each show replays on Weds at 3:30 PM, Fridays at 11:00 AM and Sundays at 9:30 AM
NEW radio podcast interview! Perspectives on
SACRED PORN & THE EMPOWERING USE OF FANTASY
In this episode, Tammy discloses the path of Sacred Porn.
Discover: When is pornography objectifying or connecting?
When can fantasy increase healing and pleasure?
Francesca Gentille is the Radio Host of Sex- Tantra & Kama Sutra
RADIO HOST: "Sex - Tantra & Kama Sutra"
go to
www.PersonalLifeMedia.com or www.tammynelson.org
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Polyamory (Part I): "When Loving One Isn't Enough"
In my ongoing writing and research for my next book, I have talked to couples who are finding new and unique ways of dealing with long term commitment and sexuality. In this month's news, we have a guest writer - Dr Liz Currin writes about a form of relationship called Polyamory. To some, the following type of relationship may sound challenging, and to others it may be the answer to their questions about long term monogamy. Please note I do not recommend or disagree with anyone's relationship lifestyle. The information below is for your information only. Feel free to write me with questions or comments at [email protected] Polyamory (Part I): "When Loving One Isn't Enough" By Liz Currin, Ph.D. � 2009 Atlanta Area Psychological Associates, P.C. Just what is polyamory? The word comes from the Latin "poly" (meaning "many") and "amor" (meaning "love"). So, polyamory literally means "loving many". Polyamory is also sometimes referred to as "consensual non-monogamy", which gets us to its essence. It is non-monogamy in the sense that practitioners of polyamory are emotionally (and generally sexually) involved with more than one partner at a time. It is consensual in that the individuals involved are aware of this arrangement and agree to it. Polyamory is based on the idea that the legal, emotional, and sexual limits which Western society places on our intimate relationships are artificial and unnecessarily restrictive. Polyamorists believe that there is room in the human heart for deeply loving as many individuals as one desires, so that it's possible to be involved in any one of a number of types of relationships. The possibilities for polyamorous relationships are as varied as the individuals who practice it, just as with those who practice traditional monogamy and serial monogamy (being intimately involved with or married to different individuals sequentially). Again, the essence of polyamorous relating is that it is non-monogamous and consensual. To read the full article and find more info on polyamorous relationships, open marriage, infidelity and more, go to www.tammynelson.org/blog.
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GETTING THE LOVE YOU WANT
WORKSHOP FOR COUPLES
AS SEEN ON OPRAH!
Imago Relationship Therapy (IRT) is a form of relationship therapy innovated by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D. Dr. Hendrix is the author of the Best Seller "Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples." To read more about IMAGO Relationship Therapy go to http:www.imagorelationships.com
Tammy Nelson will lead couples through this breakthrough process of learning about each other and creating a new way to love. Tammy is a Certified Imago therapist, a Certified Imago Workshop Presenter, an Imago Advanced Clinician and the author of "Getting the Sex You Want" Coming Saturday & Sunday September 12 & 13, 2009
Deposit DUE by August 15- REGISTER TODAY!
workshop held in Ridgefield CT
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New TELESEMINAR this Fall!
Part 3 on RETURN OF DESIRE; GETTING THE SEX YOU WANT
A Teleseminar for Health Professionals With Gina Ogden, PhD and Tammy Nelson, LPC
Starting October 2009 - Sign Up Now For a Discounted Price !!!!
Tammy Nelson and Gina Ogden combine their professional expertise in a series of practice-oriented teleseminars that offer comprehensive information about sexual desire, encourage questions among participants, and provide case consultation. AASECT, IMAGO and NASW CEs provided. All sessions meet by telephone from 12:00-1:00 pm.
Cost: $250 (save $50 by registering before September 9)
Oct 7: Couples and Sex Therapy
Oct 14: Religion, Medicine and Media
Oct 21: What Men Want, What Women Want, Who's On Top?
Nov 4:
Exorcising Sexual Anxiety and Fear; Reclaiming Intimacy
Nov 21: Lubes and Vibes-What Works?
Nov 11: The Art and Science of Tantra
to register go to www.tammynelson.org EVENTS page and BUY NOW |
Go to http://www.tammynelson.org/blog/ for an ongoing discussion on her blog...
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