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February 3, 2010

In the Mood For Love


Heart & Hands

Same old grind.

Works for your coffee, but not your sex life.

We offer some novel ideas to heat up what may have cooled down over the past year. Just in time for Valentine's Day.

  

  • Be sure. Body confidence is sexual gold. The sexiest thing any woman can do is take control. It makes extra pounds, wrinkles, and anything that interferes with the pleasure of the moment magically disappear.
  • Practice flirting. Send sexy texts. Hide love notes where they will be found, unbutton a few buttons, be a tease. 
  • Surprise him. Put on some sexy lingerie and wait for him. Don't let him touch you, dominate and lead him to the bedroom.
  • Be a little bad. Fireman fantasies are encouraged.  Nurse Betty can wear high heels in non-emergency situations.
  • Set the stage. Make sure you have the evening to yourself, turn off your phone, clear the clutter, dim the lights and burn some candles.
  • Change the scenery. If you always do it in the bedroom, plan to use the living room instead. Have a duvet and some pillows handy.
  • Talk. Instantly raise the temperature in the room by whispering something unexpectedly sexy in his ear. Telling him what you enjoy and why is a sure-fire way to better sex, time and time again!
  • Don't touch! Delay touching the one place he's desperate for you to touch for as long as possible. Then offer him only the faintest touches until he can't stand it any longer.
  • Do a little strip-tease. It doesn't have to look professional. Move seductively in front of him and slowly take off your clothes. Don't allow him to touch either, this will turn him on even more.
OhMiBod
  • Try some toys. We recommend OhMiBod. Its audio integrated microchip allows the OhMiBod ipod massager to vibrate to the beat and rhythm of your music while you listen.
Have a very Happy Valentine's Day!
 
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I'm Your Man
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