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In This Issue
Waiting
Shrimp Dinner Successful
Digging Deeper
December Ministry Schedule
Altar Guild Schedule
Decorating for Christmas
Anniversaries
December Birthday's
News from the Diocese
A Christmas Story
Website Read Around the World
Joke of the Month
Taize' Services
Christmas Service Schedule

Waiting

 

 

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Dear Friends,

 

As Americans, we hate to wait. Here instantaneous is the desired action, not waiting. We have instant mashed potatoes along with many other packaged foods of which we just add a liquid then put it in our microwaves and voila! We have food to eat. We have fast food restaurants where we don't even get out of our cars. We drive up to a window and someone hands us our meal. We have satellite television on which 'breaking news' no longer means local news, but anywhere around the globe. Even better, we can go to chat rooms and web sites all over the world with a click of the mouse on our computers. Want to talk to someone on the phone? We no longer have to go to a phone, now phones travel with us wherever we go.

 

So why in the world would any of us want to participate in a season that is all about waiting? We who have become so use to having what we want at our finger tips are called by the Church to slow down and wait. Wait for a baby that was born over 2000 years ago to be born again? Wait to sing Christmas carols? None of this makes any sense in our world where faster is better.

 

In fact, waiting is usually seen as a sign of incompetence. Whenever we have to stand in line to go to a movie, have our purchases rung up at the cash register, sitting in the waiting room at a doctor's office or in traffic jams; our first thoughts usually are "Why is this taking so long? Someone must not be doing their job right or we wouldn't have to wait." The idea of waiting can actually drive up some people's blood pressure to the point of anger. Where do you think the term 'road rage' got its name?

 

Being in a hurry all the time can mean that we live our lives at such a rapid pace that we miss out on the most salient meanings of life. For example, most babies take nine months to be ready to be born. A woman doesn't get pregnant in the morning and give birth at noon. No, it takes time for the human body to grow and form into an independent being that no longer needs the protection and nurture of the mother's womb. It also usually takes that long for the parent or parents to get ready to receive a new member into the family. As the commercial says, "A baby changes everything."

 

For Mary of Nazareth, her baby changed the world. Just think about it. Mary the Mother of God had nine months to prepare for the birth of the Son of God. She had nine months to contemplate the arrival of God literally into her life. Not only that - she had nine months to ponder being the Mother of God and all that would entail. The responsibility of nurturing, teaching, and loving the soon coming Messiah must have weighed heavily on her young mind, while at the same time having to defray the mocks and looks given to unwed mothers in those days.

 

The sheer fact that a young woman barely in her teens carried the Son of God within her own body and was chosen to be the Mother of God is awesome indeed. How many of us could have gone through what this young Jewish woman did on a daily basis? Yet, scripture tells us that Mary did it gladly! Mary waited upon the Lord and the Lord blessed her. It is Mary's example of waiting that we follow in four weeks, instead of nine months.

 

This is why Advent for many of us traditionalists is so wonderful, because Advent is all about waiting. It is a time set aside to be still and remember that God is God. It is a time to wait upon the Lord for the revealing of His Son Jesus in the vulnerable form of a baby. It is a time when waiting is looked upon as a good thing. So in this time of waiting, may we who so easily get caught up in the rush of life; take time out to stop and wait upon the Lord. Perhaps He will reveal Himself to us in a deeper way this Advent if we will but be still and know that God is God.

 

Have a Blessed Advent!

 

Alice Marcrum+, Rector

Shrimp Dinner a Great Success!

 
A special thanks goes to all who helped make the November All You Can Eat Shrimp Dinner such a huge success! This year's November Shrimp Dinner broke the attendance for last November's Shrimp Dinner. This is AWESOME!!!
 

For those who didn't make it, don't despair there are four more Shrimp Dinners coming up in this season.  The next Shrimp Dinner will be held on Saturday, January 19th from 5pm until 7pm. We will be serving the same delicious menu that has made these dinners so popular.

 

So come on down with your family, friends and neighbors for the best deal on the Island. Peel & Eat Gulf Shrimp, scrumptious cornbread, grandma's baked beans, chilled coleslaw, drinks and a "make your own" ice cream sundae bar. And, even better, children 12 and under eat for FREE!

 

For your convenience here is a schedule of the upcoming All You Can Eat Shrimp Dinners.

Schedule of Dinners Yet to Come:

  • January 19, 2008
  • February 16, 2008
  • March 29, 2008
  • April 19, 2008
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    Digging Deeper
     

    IN  SEARCH  OF  OUR  KNEELING  PLACES

     

     

    In each heart lies a Bethlehem,

                an inn where we must ultimately answer

                            whether there is room or not.

    When we are Bethlehem-bound

                we experience our own advent in his.

    When we are Bethlehem-bound

    we can no longer look the other way

                            conveniently not seeing stars

                                        not hearing angel voices.

    We can no longer excuse ourselves by busily

                tending our sheep or our kingdoms.

     

    This Advent let's go to Bethlehem

                and see this thing the Lord has made known to us.

    In the midst of shopping sprees

                let's ponder in our hearts the Gift of Gifts.

    Through the tinsel

                let's look for the gold of the Christmas Star.

    In the excitement and confusion, in the merry chaos,

                let's listen for the brush of angels' wings.

    This Advent, let's go to Bethlehem

                and find our kneeling places.

     

     

    From Kneeling in Bethlehem by Ann Weems

     

    Sunday Ministry Schedule for the Month of December 
    Date       Chalice/Acolyte       Reader/Prayer     Usher
     
    Dec. 2   Susan S./Pat McI.      Patsy Logan   Bonnie & Rob
     
    Dec. 9   Morrey/Ellie B.            Susan S.       Bob Bunting
     
    Dec. 16  Bob B./Susan S.         Morrey N.     
     
    Dec. 23  Pat McI./Judy H.        Dott Bellows   Ellie & Bob
     
    Dec. 24
    (7:00 PM)
    Dec. 24  Ellie & Bob B.              Ellie B.
    (10:00 PM)
     
    Dec. 25 
     
    Dec. 30  Susan S./Judy H.        Pat McI.
      
     
    Altar Guild Schedule for December
     
    Dec. 2 Dott Bellows
     
    Dec. 9 Paula & Patsy
     
    Dec. 16 Betty Goodacre
     
    Dec. 23 Roxie & Judy

    Decorating for Christmas

     
     
    On Saturday, December 22nd we will be making the greens to decorate the church for Christmas at 6 PM to ? We will have pizza and desert, coffee and cold drinks. Bring your snippers and loppers to cut up the greens.
     
    On Sunday December 23rd please stay after church and help to decorate our whole church. We need bow makers and green carriers. Many hands make light work, there will be a job for everyone.
     
    Betty Goodacre, Altar Guild Directress
    December Anniversaries
     
     
    Richard & Ruth Firestone

    December Birthdays

     
    Birthdays
     
    Dec 2    Elaine Hastings
    Dec 12  Judy Michie
    Dec 16  Arthur Keillor
    Dec 20  Jim Marcrum
    Dec 27  Patsy Logan
     

    News from the Diocese of SWFL

     
     
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    Bishop Lipscomb requests release from vows

    November 21, 2007 - 

    Bishop John B. Lipscomb announced Tuesday his intention to leave the Episcopal Church to join the Roman Catholic Church.

    In a letter to the diocese, Lipscomb said he has written to Presiding Bishop Katharine Jefferts Schori, asking "to be released from my ordination vows and the obligations and responsibilities of a member of the House of Bishops. I have taken this step in order to be received into the Catholic Church.

    "Through a long season of prayer and reflection Marcie and I have come to believe this is the leading of the Holy Spirit and God's call for us for the next chapter of our lives," he wrote.

    Lipscomb stepped down Sept. 15 after a decade as bishop of Southwest Florida. Lipscomb told his successor, Bishop Dabney Smith, about his actions Tuesday at a meeting at the diocesan office in Sarasota. "On Tuesday, Bishop Lipscomb informed me of a personal decision he and Marcie have made regarding the expression of their Christian faith," Smith said after the meeting. "I am pleased that he and Marcie have found their place of spiritual solace.

    "I value his friendship and wish them well," Bishop Smith said.

    --Jim DeLa

    Open letter to the diocese from Bishop John Lipscomb

    Dear Friends in Christ,

    I have communicated to the Presiding Bishop my request to be released from my ordination vows and the obligations and responsibilities of a member of the House of Bishops. I have taken this step in order to be received into the Catholic Church. Through a long season of prayer and reflection Marcie and I have come to believe this is the leading of the Holy Spirit and God's call to us for the next chapter of our lives. We are grateful to our brother in Christ, the Most Rev. Robert N. Lynch, the Bishop of St. Petersburg, for his openness to our request and for his prayerful support.

    I was blessed to grow up in a Christian home where I was given the gift of a deep love for the Lord Jesus Christ and a reverence for God's revelation of his love and redemptive purpose in the Word written, as well as the Word made Flesh. I was blessed to be brought into the family of the Episcopal Church 40 years ago. I have a deep love for the sacramental life, most especially the Eucharistic sacrifice through which God continues to pour his grace into our lives in the Word that needs no words.

    I will be forever grateful for the opportunities I had to serve this faith community as a deacon and priest. I am most grateful for the opportunity you, the people of the Diocese of Southwest Florida, gave me to serve as your bishop and to participate in the life of the Anglican Communion. You made it possible for me to share in the mission of God that can never be bound by geographical or political barriers.

    I believe God is now calling us to continue our ministry to serve in the healing of the visible Body of Christ in the world. I am convinced our Lord's deepest desire is for the unity of the Church.

    Marcie and I will never have the words to express to you the depth of our gratitude for the support you gave us during my medical leave and for the joyous celebration of the ministry you allowed us to share with you that brings to a close my ordained ministry in the Episcopal Church. We will pray for the continued health and vitality of the Diocese of Southwest Florida.

    The following prayer by Thomas Merton speaks more eloquently than we can find possible at this moment. Marcie and I have experienced an abundance of God's grace throughout our lives, and we continue to trust God in the future, which continues to unfold for us:

    My Lord God, I have no idea where I am going. I do not see the road ahead of me. I cannot know for certain where it will end. Nor do I really know myself and the fact that I think I am following your will does not mean that I am actually doing so. But I believe that the desire to please you does in fact please you. And I hope I have that desire in all that I am doing. I hope that I will never do anything apart from that desire. And I know that if I do this you will lead me by the right road, though I may know nothing about it. Therefore I will trust you always though I may seem to be lost and in the shadow of death. I will not fear, for you are ever with me, and you will never leave me to face my perils alone.


    John B. Lipscomb, D.D.

    A Christmas Story

     
     
    If you have kids, I know you can relate to some of these.  Thank you A.J. Bassett for sending this one to us. 
     

    My husband and I had been happily married (most of the time) for five years but hadn't been blessed with a baby.

    I decided to do some serious praying and promised God that if he would give us a 

    child, I would be a perfect mother, love it with  all my heart and raise it with His word as my guide.

    God answered my prayers and blessed us with a son.

    The next year God blessed us with another son.

    The following year, He blessed us with yet another son.

    The year after that we were blessed with a daughter.

    My husband thought we'd been blessed right into poverty.  We now had four children, and the oldest was only four years old.

    I learned never to ask God for anything unless I meant it.  As a minister once told me, "If you pray for rain, make sure you carry an umbrella."

    I began reading a few verses of the Bible to the children  each day as they lay in their cribs.  I was off to a good start. God had entrusted me with four children and I didn't want to disappoint Him.

    I tried to be patient the day the children smashed two dozen eggs on the kitchen floor searching for baby chicks. 

    I tried to be understanding...

    when they started a hotel for homeless frogs in the spare bedroom, although it took me nearly two hours to catch all twenty-three frogs.

    When my daughter poured ketchup all over herself and rolled up in a blanket to see how it felt to be a hot dog.  I tried to see the humor rather than the mess.

    In spite of changing over twenty-five thousand diapers, never eating a hot meal and never sleeping for more than thirty minutes at a time, I still thank God daily for my children.

    While I couldn't keep my promise to be a perfect mother - I didn't even come close... I did keep my promise to raise them in the Word of God.

    I knew I was missing the mark just a little when I told my daughter we were going to church to worship God, and she wanted to bring a bar of soap along to "wash up" Jesus, too.

    Something was lost in the translation when I explained that God gave us everlasting life, and my son thought it was generous of God to give us his "last wife."

    My proudest moment came during the children's Christmas pageant.  My daughter was playing Mary, two of my sons were shepherds and my youngest son was a wise man. This was their moment to shine.

    My five-year-old shepherd had practiced his line, "We found the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes."

    But he was nervous and said, "The baby was wrapped in wrinkled clothes."

    My four-year-old "Mary" said, "That's not 'wrinkled clothes,' silly. That's dirty, rotten clothes."

    A wrestling match broke out between Mary and the shepherd and was stopped by an angel, who bent her halo and lost her left wing.

    I slouched a little lower in my seat when Mary
    dropped the doll representing Baby Jesus, and it bounced down the aisle crying, "Mama-mama."

    Mary grabbed the doll, wrapped it back up and held it tightly as the wise men arrived. My other son stepped forward wearing a bathrobe and a paper crown, knelt at the manger and announced, "We are the three wise men, and we are bringing gifts of gold, common sense  and fur."

    The congregation dissolved into laughter, and the pageant got a standing ovation. "I've never enjoyed a Christmas program as much as this one," laughed the pastor, wiping tears from his eyes.  

    "For the rest of my life, I'll never hear the Christmas story without thinking of gold, common sense and fur."

    "My children are my pride and my joy and my greatest blessing," I said as I dug through my purse for an aspirin.

    Our Website Read Around the World!
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    Saint Raphael's website went "live" about two years ago now.  Since that date, the number of "hits", people finding something on our site that they were searching the Internet for, has steadily increased to where it is today at approximately 500 hits per day!  Actual "readers" on the site, folks who actually open the article they find from a "hit" has grown to about 60 per day. 
     
    We use sophisticated marketing statistical tools to track what all these people are finding and reading on our site so that we can continually add content that more and more Internet "surfers" will want to read.  As one would expect, most readers on our site go to our home page, and then then to our Leadership page!  From the Leadership page they access Rev. Alice's sermons and Bishop Ochola's writings.  Rev. Alice's sermons are read or listened to over 225 individual times per month!  The single most read of her sermons is the one titled, "What Does it Mean to be Baptized?" Bishop Ochola's writings as a whole are read about 50 times per month.
     
    Our readers come from around the world.  While by far the greatest number of readers are located within the USA, others come from places like Canada, Ghana, the Philippines, India, the Czech Republic, Japan, Viet Nam, Australia, the Netherlands, China, etc.  All in all, over 450 readers from 50 or more different countries around the world log on to our site each month for at least a brief visit!  Plus nearly 100 visitors a month come from the US Military Internet system; we don't know if these are from within the borders are from far off bases were our men and women are stationed.
     
    Share our site, www.saint-raphaels.org, with your family and friends.  You don't want them to miss out when the rest of the world is already here!
      
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    Christmas Present

    It was the day after Christmas at a church in San Francisco. Pastor Mike was looking at the nativity scene outside when he noticed the baby Jesus was missing from the figures.

    Immediately, Pastor Mike turned towards the church to call the police. But as he was about to do so, he saw little Jimmy with a red wagon, and in the wagon was the figure of the little infant, Jesus.

    Pastor Mike walked up to Jimmy and said, "Well, Jimmy, where did you get the little infant?"Jimmy replied, "I got him from the church."

    "And why did you take him?"

    With a sheepish smile, Jimmy said, "Well, about a week before Christmas I prayed to little Lord Jesus. I told him if he would bring me a red wagon for Christmas, I would give him a ride around the block in it."

    Taize' Services 

     
    The Taize' services are being held weekly on Tuesday evenings, at 7:00. Bring a friend or two for this beautiful, contemplative service.
     
    There will be no Taize' service on Christmas Day. We encourage you to come to one of our Christmas Eve or Christmas Day services. 
    Christmas Services Schedule
     
    Christmas Eve:
    7:00 PM      
    10:00 PM
     
    Christmas Day:  
    10:00 AM
     
    Christmas Cookie Recipe

    White Christmas Cookies

    1/2 c Butter or regular margarine
    1/2 c Shortening
    2 c Sugar
    4 Eggs; beaten
    4 c Flour; sifted
    1/8 ts Ground nutmeg
    1/8 ts Ground cinnamon
     
    Cream together butter and shortening; gradually add sugar, beating until light and fluffy. Beat in eggs. Sift together flour, nutmeg, and cinnamon; stir into creamed mixture (dough should be stiff). Store in covered bowl in refrigerator overnight. Roll dough very thin, using floured pastry cloth on board and rolling pin. Cut in star shapes. Place 1 to   1 1/2" apart on greased baking sheets. Bake in 350 oven 10 to 12 minutes or until crisp and straw-colored. Remove from baking sheets and cool on racks.

    Get 'em while their hot!