The Wit and Wisdom Newsletter

The  Real Coaching Co

Summer Surprise Special
No 44

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Greetings! 
 
Did you ever have one of those hair-brained schemes as a child on how to make money quick?  You know the sort of thing - making rank rose petal perfume and thinking you can take on Guerlain?  Or making sulpherous-tasting pop with your Dad's Soda Stream and trying to sell it to the neighbours?
One enterprising Boy Scout, when I was a child, begged his dad's bike shed from him, and we went around the neighbourhood with a wheelbarrow collecting unwanted books.   We all created a shed "library" where you had to pay 1d to loan a book.  People came.
The money raised bought a child's slide projector and once again 1d got you in to see Popeye projected on an old sheet, in the kid-crammed hut; a comical commentary with sound effects provided by our Scout hero. A cup of juice and biscuit were extra.
  I remember to this day my spell-bound delight of sitting in the dark with muffled giggles and the sense that soon we would be rich beyond our wildest dreams clutching a Quality Street tin full of old pennies the size of troll's eyes.
 

Childhood Dreams

 

Do you have a crazy idea that  might just  work? 
 
Maybe it's the credit crunch creating this make-do and mend mentality but I got to thinking of alternative money streams.  Today I came up with the idea of writing a science fiction story where a set number of words were limited to each human being per lifetime. You couldn't waste them, as they were finite.  You literally had to choose your words carefully.  Some sold theirs to others more voiciferous.
The big heads and braggards were forced into stunned silence unable to encapsulate their message with clarity; self awareness thrust upon them to think before they spoke.   The meek and intelligent ruled the earth able to make their point powerfully and with élan.
Stick with me there is a point to all this.
 

Boring Meeting


 
Take the Bore Out of the Boardroom or How To Speak Up And Influence Meetings

Sometimes it doesn't take a get-rich-quick scheme to teleport you into success.  Many of my clients are doing just that by finally mastering the art of self expression, of believing in themselves and having the confidence to speak up when at work.
Timidity and self containment are not prized qualities in the commercial world (unlike in my sci-fi story) as the Big Noise gets all the attention and more likely, the promotion too. Quite often those with measured and considered views are looked over as the meeting monopoliser dominates.
One of my clients has been made a manager since coaching has helped overcome her fear of speaking up in meetings.  Another has received recognition and has felt an increase in gravitas since he has come off the sidelines and became a main contributor to the office meet and is now considering going for a higher position.  He now realizes his own potential within.
Another is increasingly impressing their bosses with their cool analytic comments which once they were terrified to share.
Could you be incubating unforeseen possibility?  How long are you prepared to leave your most saleable assets on the storeroom shelf?
You could always book a 30 minute session (on me) to start to unlock your inner goldmine. caroleann@realcoachingco.com
 
By the way do think my science fiction story has best-seller potential?

 

The Return of the Yellow Brick Road Coaching Package
 
For those of you on a budget and who want to make some real, rapid and rip roaringly significant changes in your life get booked now onto the Yellow Brick Road coaching programme.
I am offering 6 x half hour sessions for £199 and this year I am adding one extra session without charge (you save £45 in total).  Take 2 sessions a month for 3 months plus your one on me and I will guarantee to move you along a fast track to your goals.
 
Book now and let's get the heart, home, brain or the nerve that you are looking for.
Email me caroleann@realcoachingco.com and put Yellow Brick Road in the subject line.
Limited to 5 places only.

Yellow Brick Road

 


 

 
 
Procrastination
 
Probably one of the most common issues people come to coaching with, procrastination is one of those things that afflicts us all to some degree at some point.  Some people say it's "laziness" that stops them doing what they want to do; change jobs, change their bed linen, change partners etc.  But I'm not buying that.
We're only lazy when we don't want to do something for some hidden reason. 
If your best friend was to call and offered you free tickets to your favourite football team followed by front row tix to Bruce Springstein at 02 then entrée to the after show party you would see how easy it is to go from sofa to 60mph in nano seconds. 
Or if you were given a shopping weekend in Paris on an open credit card with George Clooney on your arm?  Are you telling me there wouldn't be scorch marks across the Axminster?
Laziness and procrastination are polite spins on avoidance and denial which always comes back to the F-word - fear. 
Fear of responsibility, completing something, judgment, being accountable, taking control, owning up - in short - fear of being an adult.
If I'm talking your language as you sit there wondering whether to have another coffee, sandwich, look on Facebook or some other distraction technique to avoid doing something meaningful, then why not book a 30  minute trial session on me and let's see if we can go from stuck to stuck-in? caroleann@realcoachingco.com In the meantime have a giggle at this
 
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Quote of the Month

 

"Obstacles don't have to stop you.  If you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up.  Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it" -

 

Michael Jordan.

 

Enjoy the sunshine

 

Your coach

Carole Ann