Please repeat after me, "Technology is my friend." "I love computers." "Computers are my friends."
We meet via the internet at this moment and yet to us Seniors technology often moves a lot faster than we would like. When our grandchildren definitely need the latest and newest iPhone, iPad, Wii, or Kindle, we wonder what was wrong with the old one.
All of us are able to access vast amounts of information about people, places, diseases, medications, history, current events, etc. from myriad sources in one internet search. What is nowhere to be found by any search engine is maturity and good judgement.
Through their computers our grandchildren can visit any country in the world, read any speech or book, and find references by the thousands, but the ability to use that information comes as it always has, from experience, from trial and error and from listening to those who teach.
With so many distractions and so much information vying for their attention children can look to us to help them set priorities.
The values, attitude, habits and even the activities of our own parents and grandparents were noted and considered by us as children. What was important to them became an issue with us. Did we agree, disagree, question, or just listen? Would we accept their choices as our own or choose another way?
As we grew in experience, judgement and maturity the lessons from our adult mentors replayed in our minds as constant touchstones.
Right now the children we so love are often looking for guidance. When everything is available, if only on a computer screen, nothing is special. By sharing our stories of decisions made, disappointments endured and successes achieved we give them context to inform their choices and choose their path.
Their options may have a different look or texture, but will involve the same choices of faith, virtue and character made by us, our parents and our grandparents. We could never "put old heads on young shoulders" as my sister-in-law often observes and we wouldn't want to. But when the children in our lives make their own choices and find their own way, we Seniors can know we have influenced them by sharing the stories of our own lives.
It is an honor to join with you in this endeavor!