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October 17/18 New Moon Libra
October 2009


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leaning over  Happy Halloween!
  Happy Celtic New Year!
 
Autumn is my favorite time of year and October is my favorite month.  This is the time when the veils between worlds are thin and many people honor their beloved dead.  For many cultures it is also the New Year. 
 
I went to see a Rocky Horror Picture Show extravaganza at Skyline College, which was a fundraiser for their theatre department.  It had a live show on stage and props for the audience.  My favorite parts were singing "Let's do the time warp again!" at the top of my lungs with the entire audience and creating rain with water pistols during the rain storm scene.  I was a bit wistful for a good old fashioned water balloon and pistol fight outside in the hot sun.  The live show was creative, well acted, and detailed.  It was a lot of fun.  To find one near you go here. Rocky Horror Picture Show Search
 
We've been having wonderful autumn weather, hot during the day, cool at night.  More leaves are turning red and gold and then becoming crispy underfoot.  I find myself wanting to be outside all the time. 
 
 
I am still having a Lightning Fill In The Blank Tarot Special.  It ends October 29th. 
 
May you have the time to enjoy the colors and offerings of Fall.

Akasha



 
New Moon Libra Oct 17th/18th
 
Moon in Libra is mostly about finding harmony and balance in one's life.  Libra is the scales of justice and equality.  She usually can perceive all the different perspectives of a situation or issue and seek an integration of all these sides into a whole.  Unfortunately, it makes it very difficult to make a decision. 
 
When there are many options, more often than not, to Libra, all of them are equally good, bad or middling.  The Libran energy can be very frustrating to us as it doesn't help us choose.  This is why I recommend for the waxing part of this moon for you to reevaluate your deeper motivations.  People tend to make decisions based on their values and priorities.  If you are clear on what these are, then you can make a choice that will further you along on the path you'd like to travel, even if all choices are equal or not so pleasant.
 
Take time to find your center and set your intentions for the rest of the year, not only for what you want to accomplish in your life but also in your relationships.  How do you want existing ones to grow or fade.  What brand new relationships would you like to attract?  If you carve out the time to do that now at the beginning of this new moon, it will save you time later as opportunities present themselves. 
 
I remember one woman talking about how you can focus all you want on creating the perfect relationship or community from the heart but if you don't know your own heart you'll get lost.  This is a classic lesson of Libra moon; finding the balance between your own needs and the needs of others.  It is like the airline instructions say, if the oxygen masks come down, put your mask on first, then help others; you can't help anyone else if you can't breathe.  The same is for our heart.  Libra represents the guidance that helps us make sure our heart is taken care of while we help others. 
 

 



The Dance of Balance and Focus
 
I learned in martial arts training, that to have balance you must have focus and to have focus you must have balance. I have found that it is a basic universal principle that can apply to all things.  If you flit from one thing to another without purpose, you don't really go anywhere.  If you concentrate too much of your attention and time on one goal, everything else in your life goes into disarray or disintegration. 
Try this experiment.  Stand on one leg, look all over the room with out focusing too much on anything.  Notice what it is like to try and keep balance.
Next, while on one foot, focus on a point in front of you and perceive the difference in keeping your balance.
Now stand on your other leg and over exaggerate trying to maintain balance by flailing your arms, wobble wildly back and forth while trying to keep your eyes focused on one spot.  Be careful of your neck and back while doing this.  How is it different?
--Now stand weight evenly distributed on both feet, hands calm at your sides.
Take a few moments and look forward and down.  Notice your energy wants to dive.  Now focus forward and a little above your line of sight.  Notice how your energy wants to lift.
 
In martial arts, where you focus is your aim; it is where you will kick or hit.  For instance, when breaking a board.  If your focus is on the board, you won't break it, you will just hit it and bruise your knuckles.  If your focus is the wall or person behind the board then you will punch through it because that is not what you are aiming at.  
In life, finding your focus entails choosing how you want to feel in life, figuring out what you want to accomplish in order to support that, and determining the measurement for when you have achieved that accomplishment.  This is where focusing forward and up is critical, because it makes it so much easier to fly.
 
Here is an exercise for finding your vision. 
 
First, what would be the best scenario for your successful life?  Think big.  Write or draw or sing this.  I recommend using crayons to help access your child self easier.  You don't have to know specifically what it will look like.  I suggest starting with how you want it to feel.  i.e. happy, respected, productive, healthy, etc.  Then bring in the types of colors or sounds or textures that symbolize those feelings to you. 
 
Second, create even bigger than what you just envisioned.  Try and make your first scenario twice as big and spectacular.  Again draw or write or sing this. 
 
A third time, can you make it even more spectacular than before?  If you can go three times bigger, write, draw or sing this into being.
 
Next, take your favorite things of all three and create a word picture, or collage, sculpture, or song compilation (sound collage).  Put it where you will see it or play it often.  If it is visual make sure it is placed a little above your line of vision.  If it is a sound collage make sure and look up as you listen to it.  This is your point of focus, your vision, and your muse.
Balance comes into play once you have created your focal point.  Balance is the combination of near and far.  It is what is happening right now that you need to do to survive and it is what you are aiming for in the future that is your desire. The dynamic of balancing the two is what keeps you moving forward.  If you stand on one foot, you will notice that when you achieve balance you are not standing still.  Your foot is making constant micro-adjustments with your foot bones, which is why it is not a solid bone but many small pieces of bone. 
 
Balance is an active state of being.  Think of a see saw.  When I get on a see saw with someone of close to my weight, I like to first play with going up and down.  Then I like to try and keep the other person up.  I also like to be kept up and struggle and struggle to get down.  After awhile my desire evolves into finding that point of equilibrium where we are both at equal height suspended in air and see how long we can stay there.  Then we might go through the cycle all over again.  All of these states are a part of achieving balance.
 
Balance enables you to keep a soft focus of both the long and the short term at the same time.  It supports you in taking the leap of faith to follow your ambition while honoring your need to eat, sleep and be safe.  But without a vision to focus on it is hard to keep that balance.
It is the same with focusing on a vision.  Your partner is your spirit/child self.  Some times they jockey for weight, and other times you, as in your mind/emotion/body do.  On one side is the practical/here and now; and the other is the spiritual knowing and hearts desire reaching towards one's future aspiration. 
Your vision is always changing as well.  As you journey towards your goals, you will find opportunities you did not know existed, you may realize your objective isn't what you thought it was, or you could be knocked off your trajectory by life itself.  Just like an airplane must constantly keep readjusting it's course to maintain it's flight path, you need to set times to re-evaluate your vision and adjust for these changes. 
Balance and focus partner together on the dance floor of life.  Whether the music is fast or slow, even or bumpy they will keep you steadfast and moving forward on your life's journey. 



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