When we think of service, many of us will think about doing "volunteer work"; but being of service is actually much broader and deeper than that. To be of service is to integrate a focus on "doing for others" into our daily lives. When we begin to consciously set forth on that as a path, we will see the the benefits not only to those immediately around us, but to ourselves, and to the community as a whole.

So what exactly are the benefits and how do we get started? Beyond the positive energy that comes from little helping actions, I can all but guarantee that you will begin to notice how things transform and flourish around as you do service for others.

Doing good for others allows people to remember you in a positive way. Whether you're employed or self-employed, being of service nourishes and enhances relationships which are the lifeblood of a positive and successful work experience.

Regularly doing service teaches our kids that there is more to being a positive citizen of the world than just following rules and getting along with others.

Being of service also creates a culture of community and mutuality - when you are helped by someone else, you will be more likely to reach out to them in the future when they need assitance.

 

Getting started with doing more service can be very simple. Take a look at the ideas below and see how some of them might fit into your life.

• Think first about what special gifts and qualities you have to offer another person. Do you speak more than one language? Are you good with computers? Are you helpful in resolving conflicts? Do you like doing physical work for exercise? Look around you. Think about where you could offer: translation help, computer troubleshooting, mediation, home repairs, or moving help.
  

• Do you occasionally go through slow times at your job or school? Where can you offer assistance to a coworker or classmate without first being asked? Helping out others during slow times makes the time go by quicker and passes the positivity around!
  

• What about teaming up to do some service? Bring the family out for a volunteer day once a month or get a group of friends together to do a project for a neighbor or for your town. You don't even have to seek out predetermined volunteer events, simply look around, see what's needed, and make a phone call to offer. 

• One important tip that makes a difference in offering to help: be very specific in your offer. Instead of saying, "let me know if you need anything" you can say, "Sounds like writing your resume is stressful. I'm pretty good with resumes; would you like some help with it this weekend?" Being specific shows you are serious about helping.

• Shifting your routine slightly to include even very small actions of service can make a big difference. What little things do you see around you that could make an impact somewhere?