If, like me, you're currently single then Valentine's Day and all the hype around it can be quite daunting. Feelings range from being left out, feeling more lonely as you observe everyone around you booking restaurants, choosing cards and buying gifts.... OR, it can be quite liberating and enjoyable - you choose!  Its actually the perfect time to think about you.  What we project is what we attract so we are less likely to find our soulmate if we are moping around feeling sorry for ourselves. And how many people do you know who are buying cards and presents because they feel they 'should'?  For the last couple of years I have spent some time choosing myself a Valentine's Card and posting it! - I know it sounds daft but its actually quite good fun! You get to choose the card that you would really like to receive, to start to tune in to what you want and what you give in a relationship. So I encourage you now to shift your energy around the day, go out, choose a card and post it to yourself.  I've also sent a few to some of my single friends (you'll know who you are tomorrow!), just to bring a smile to their face :) 

For the rest of the weekend, and on the day itself, spend it doing things that nurture your romantic side - watch your favourite rom-com, treat yourself to a few chocolates, indulge in a luxurious bath and start to feel your heart opening up to the possibility of love again.... and repeat this affirmation over and over 'My heart is open to giving and receiving love'.