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THE INTEGRITY OF WE

According to a number of philosophers, you and I simultaneously exist in four interrelated domains. The four domains are (a) "I", (b) "You and Me," (c) "Us" (group, i.e. family or work unit) and (d) "We" (community, i.e. neighborhood, organization, nation).

Initially, the charge is to master having integrity in the domain of "I." Being able to give your word and keep it because you said so. "I promise" becomes your challenge. This was pretty much your challenge in growing up, doing your school work and taking care of your responsibilities. This was what college and most of dental school was about - giving your word and keeping it at the level of "I."

In order to achieve what you have achieved professionally, you had to generate a high level of integrity in the domain of "I." Finals, clinical requirements, lab assignments, boards, and all that it takes comes from you as an individual being able to give your word to achieve a result and then accomplishing it. And often in the times of unsupportive circumstances and people.

Once you have developed this level of integrity, intention and wherewithal, you then extended it into the domain of "You and Me." In practice, generating integrity in the "You and Me" domain usually occurs in your early years. You find a front desk that supports you, your intentions and your success. You work well together and figure out how you and she can give your word and keep it. You both set goals, you both make mutual promises, and you both achieve coordinated actions as planned. You develop the capacity to give your word as "You and Me." Once this level of integrity is reached, it is always matched by a certain level of practice success.

However, if the practice is unable to expand its ability to give its word beyond "You and Me," its success plateaus. Basically these are the middle of pack or below practices in terms of financial success. The equation is straight-forward, the higher the degree of practice integrity, the higher level of financial success. The higher level of integrity above "You and Me" is the level of "We."And the higher degree in the level of "We," the more practice success will occur.

For the moderately successful practices, over time they usually add an assistant and/or a hygienist that joins the dentist and the front desk, so a fraction of the total "We" is formed that can give their word and keep it. But other staff members never join this core, so the integrity never becomes full or complete at the level of "We." These are the middle and slightly above practices in their success.

In order to reach the next rung of success, the challenge is to generate and maintain integrity in everyone in the practice. This is where most practices fall short. Only the very most successful practices can make full "We" promises and keep them - where each staff member owns the promise of the practice, where each staff member can promise the other's promise.

Having worked with thousands of practices, it is clear to me the level of success is always consistent with the level of integrity. It's easy to tell when the practice is at the level of a full "We" promise. "The doctor will call you back today," and it happen as promised. The patients are seen on time. The crown is back from the lab as prescribed. All staff is on time for meetings. It's really obvious, you can only achieve the highest level of success when you are able to make and keep a promise at the total level of "We."

What is required to bring the staff and yourself to a level where "We" all can promise and "We" all can keep our word? You won't find it in pearls, scripts, recipes or tips. You won't find it in most of the practice management materials, books and articles. You won't find it in a room in Arizona, Florida or Seattle sitting with hundreds of other dentists. You won't even find it with some sharp consultant, sitting in your waiting room with you and your staff addressing how to improve customer service or deliver better intra-office communication. What is needed to generate an ability to make a "We" promise is authentic leadership, rigorous management, and demanding ownership.

First and foremost, you must honor yourself as your word. You must hold your word as superior ordinate to your feelings, your moods or your circumstances. Nothing is more important than holding yourself to your word - nothing. And then you need to hold your staff to the same demanding standard. Let me reiterate, the higher level you have to collectively give and keep your word as a practice, to make a "We" promise and keep it, the higher level of success you will enjoy. That's it. That's the real secret of success. That's the 'key to the kingdom.' The level of integrity is a direct correlate to the level of success a practice can achieve.

If I were you, I'd be working on generating a practice where each and every person could own the promises of the practices and each other, and do whatever it takes to deliver on keeping these promises.

Dr. Marc B. Cooper
The Mastery Company
MasteryCompany.com



REFERENCES

A Brief History of Everything - Ken Wilber

Landmark Educational Corporation - The Wisdom Course

The Power of Now - Tracy Goss

The Three Laws of Performance - Steve Zaffron


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Dr. Marc B. Cooper
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