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Emily's Intro...
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"Sophie's Rainbow," June 4, 2012 in Avon Lake, OH. |
Summer, sunshine, and special events
How did it get to be June 7? I seriously do not know where the time has gone. It seems I was just putting Sarah on the kindergarten bus, and now school is out! I think I blinked, and she grew two inches and lost two baby teeth. On top of that, she can ride her two-wheeled bike!
And Marie, who will be one year old next week, is on her way to taking those first steps and saying a few words! Seriously??? I feel like I was just announcing my pregnancy. I know I am not the only one that feels this way. But when I do, I force myself to take a deep breath, slow down, and enjoy these girls, because I know too well how fast these precious little kids can be taken from us.
The days keep on keeping on, as time marches on. Earlier this week I sat down to start on a long over-due blog entry. Needless to say, it took me four days to finish it. And just as I was trying to send out the Facebook notice that I had updated the blog, my cell phone started dinging with text message notifications. On June 4, exactly one month before what would be Sophie's ninth birthday, as I was thinking of her and writing about her, many friends were sending me messages and pictures about the rainbows they were seeing in Avon Lake. So I rushed to the front door to look for a rainbow. Sure enough, a huge rainbow was right outside our front door. I went back in to get Marc and Sarah. It was 8:45 pm - no rain, and limited sun, yet still a rainbow! We all got out there just in time to get a picture as it faded away. I love these little (or, big really) signs from Sophie. They keep me going, and give me inspiration, plus an affirmation of the mission of The Foundation, especially when I need them the most. And now is one of the times. For summer is here, and summer is a busy time.
The summer issue is always a special one. It has all the details of our upcoming events and our big "Bash and Dash" fundraiser. It brings happy thoughts as I think of all the people who are dedicating their time, effort, energy and money to our cause. We have a golf outing in Michigan next week, the Race in Ohio in July, and another golf outing this fall here in Ohio in September. So many people are doing so much good for The Foundation, and we are so grateful. I hope you will find a minute or so in your very busy lives to read about our happenings. And if you find yourself wanting to do more, there are many ways to help. We fully realize we can't do what we do without the help of so many. Thank you, and we hope to have your continued support.
Don't blink...I will be writing about Christmas ornaments before you know it!
Forever Chasing Rainbows,
Emily Quayle
SFSF President and
Sophie, Sarah and Marie's Mommy | |
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DIPG Spotlight: Charlie Waller
Meet Charlie...cute, lovable, bright, almost four-year-old son of John and Abby, who met in London, married in Massachusetts, lived in Australia, and now settled in East Lansing, Michigan, with Charlie and their 8-year-old daughter, Esther.
Diagnosed after an April 1, 2011 MRI, Charlie's first symptoms included headaches, a stumbling gait, and double vision, although a CT scan just one week earlier showed no evidence of a tumor.
With the immediate large dose of steroids, Charlie began exhibiting uncontrollable, inconsolable, obsessive-compulsive behavior. Combined with the recommended six weeks of radiation at Sparrow Hospital in Lansing, Charlie's medical regimen began in earnest.
With great community spirit, surrounded by friends and family, both Charlie and Esther were baptized at People's Church in East Lansing, April 10, 2011, the same week Charlie's radiation began.
The effects of the heavy dose of Decadron on Charlie's moods, along with his insatiable appetite, proved challenging for the entire family. Fortunately, a May 9 MRI more than midway through radiation therapy looked promising. By the completion of radiation and a gradual reducing of his steroid dosage, his parents were reporting more "good days," "playing more" and enjoying childhood activities.
By summer his condition, including both mood and mobility, improved greatly, and the family approached summer on an upbeat note. At a June trip to Potter Zoo in Lansing, Charlie seemed to exhibit his true self --- a compassionate animal lover. Riding the pony, touching the snake, feeding the penguins, and "getting up close and personal" with an ostrich were so reminiscent of the Charlie before cancer. Summer also gave Charlie the time to splash in pools, visit with relatives, and enjoy the company of playmates. Abby and John graciously welcomed his "honeymoon" period.
Attending the "Art for Charlie" Art Show, Abby and John's preliminary effort in establishing a non-profit charity in early June, a July Make-A-Wish trip to the San Diego Zoo, complete with balloon ride, and a trip to Beaver Island in Northern Michigan with family from England, Charlie's summer passed quickly and enjoyably.
Beginning a ketogenic diet through a nasal drip at Sparrow Hospital in August made traveling difficult; however summer fun continued when additional family members arrived from England. An unrelated-to-DIPG, viral infection sent Charlie to Sparrow in late August. When the regimented diet became unbearable and meals less than pleasant, it was little Esther who offered words of wisdom about the strictness of Charlie's diet and his ability to enjoy life. At that point, John and Abby slackened on the regiment of Charlie's diet.
With recurring symptoms and an eyelid that didn't fully close, Abby became alarmed. Charlie had another MRI and the tumor appeared stable, but there was an appearance of fluid retention in the ventricles of the brain. With a report of "uncertainty" by another clinician, followed by a report of "stable" by a third, Abby and John applied for Charlie's participation in an advanced imaging study at NIH (National Institute of Health) in Bethesda, Maryland. Since then and a second MRI at NIH, Charlie's tumor is deemed the same size and the same level of activity since radiation. In fact, Charlie was scheduled for another MRI at NIH this week.
John, who is a professor at Michigan State University, is eagerly awaiting summer vacation. Originally, the family considered a road trip with the family to Oregon and the Canadian Rockies, but decided to take Charlie and Esther to visit their godparents in Wisconsin. For now the family is making the most of the great times they are enjoying with Charlie, Esther, and their newly-acquired golden retriever, Boston. The Wallers are thankful for family, friends, and community and the widespread support they have received, including the support from SFSF.
To follow Charlie's story and to read Abby's poignant letters to Charlie and Esther, visit http://www.saxonweb.com/charlie/default.html |
Get on the course, of course!

The Sixth Annual SFSF Michigan Golf Outing is fast approaching --- June 18 to be exact --- and there are still openings for additional golfers. Now in its sixth year, the venue for this year's outing has been changed to Warwick Hills in Grand Blanc. Consistently rated one of the top 100 clubs in the U.S. and home to the Buick Open, the Warwick Hills relatively short course features just 7,127 yards, promoting both birdies and good cheer. Established in 1957, the well-conditioned course features some of the finest putting greens. With a 1:00 p.m. shotgun start, the event includes 18 holes, a cart, driving privileges, hors d'oeurves, awards, and dinner at 6 p.m. Prizes for first through third finishes, as well as "closest to the pin" and "longest drive" will be awarded. Various items will also be raffled. Raffle tickets for a hot air ballon ride will be available for $10 each. See details elsewhere in the newsletter.
The event is again being planned and organized by SFSF's fondly-named, Michigan Connection --- Kathy and Bob Quayle, Sophie's paternal grandparents and Brett and Amy Quayle, Sophie's uncle and aunt. Cost of the event is $175 per golfer or $700 per foursome. For detailed information and on-line registration, visit the SFSF website or contact Bob Quayle at 810.241.8340 or Brett Quayle at 810.252.3053.
Enjoy exceptional golfing and an awesome course while supporting SFSF. Register today. And for those golf enthusiasts whose schedule fills early, remember to keep in mind the First Annual Ohio Golf Outing at Mallard Creek, Sept. 15. |
Best of the West...AGAIN!!!

SFSF has re-captured its first place status in West Shore's live well, "Best of the West" competition in the best charitable race category. This is the third time in the past four years that the SFSF Birthday Bash & Dash has taken top honors. Voting took place at West Shore's Expo at La Centre in Westlake, April 12, where the top three contenders in over 20 categories showcased either their event, product, or business.
Manning the SFSF display and "working the floor" were SFSF Board members Andrea Bucci and Marc Quayle, along with SFSF supporters Maureen Dando and Connie Massie. The SFSF representatives distributed SFSF information, offered SFSF store items, and provided visitors with "rainbow" Jolly Ranchers to savor as they cast their votes for SFSF.
The event provided SFSF with some welcomed visitors, especially Elena Schodowski of Gamma Delta Sorority at Cleveland State University, whose interest was piqued by Andrea Bucci. (See related story).
SFSF welcomes its readers and friends to come to the Fifth Annual Bash & Dash at Walker Road Park, July 4, and witness what warrants this three-peat honor. |
Freedom has its life in the hearts, the actions, the spirit of men and so it must be daily earned and refreshed - else like a flower cut from its life-giving roots, it will wither and die.
~ Dwight D. Eisenhower |
SFSF celebrates its youngest fundraiser
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Frank Miklaski, with a stuffed giraffe which once belonged to Sophie, and was a "welcome to the world" gift from Aunt Emily. |
SFSF announces its youngest fundraiser, Francis Joseph Miklaski of Frisco, TX. Little Frank, son of Charly and Dawn Miklaski, Emily's brother and sister-in-law, challenged friends and family, just a few weeks prior to Dawn's expected due date, to guess the actual birth date and time, weight, and length through an on-line baby pool, www.bebepool.com.
The intricate and no-fee pool assigned points for each of the exact guesses, along with plus and minus points for proximity to the actual numbers. Each person participating paid a $5.00 entry fee, with half of the total fees collected earmarked for SFSF and the other half to the winning entry. There was no limit to the number of entries each individual could make for each $5.00 "bet."
Francis Joseph, namesake of Emily's dad, arrived on April 17 (yes, Dawn's expected due date) at 1:53 pm (CST), weighing in at 9 lbs., 2 oz, 22" in length. Christine See, a friend of Dawn's family and an employee of Dawn's father, Paul Heffernan, had the winning entry. (See http://bebepool.com/heffyd). Christine generously donated all of her winnings to SFSF. With the 38 entries and others who entered the pool making additional donations, Little Frank, was responsible for adding $235 to SFSF's coffers. SFSF thanks the Miklaskis for their innovative fundraiser and welcomes Frank to the world of SFSF supporters.
When announcing the winner, Charly said, "We are very proud that the first thing our new baby boy did in his short life was help raise money for one of our favorite charities." |
SFSF grants approach $285,000
Since March 1, 2012, the Foundation has helped 13 families and awarded $12,900 in grant money, bringing the total amount of family grants awarded to $220,928. The grand total donated by SFSF, including donations to The Cure Starts Now ($37,000) and St. Jude ($25,000), is $282,928.
Every month, the SFSF Grant Committee approves applications for financial assistance for families of children with brain cancer. The children of the families who received grants in March, April and May, 2012 are:
- Ava, age 5 - DIPG
- Gaites, age 15 - craniopharyngioma
- Brayden, age 5 - glioblastoma
- Nolan, age 16 - glioblastoma
- Ethan, age 10 - anaplastic astrocytoma
- Anonymous, age 13 - ependymoma
- Nathan, age 5 - astrocytoma
- Charlie, age 3 - DIPG
- Jorel, age 1 - ependymoblastoma
- Jordan, age 18 - pilocytic astrocytoma
- Anonymous, age 6 - pilocytic astrocytoma
- Erica, age 17 - medulloblastoma
- DeVante, age 10 - DIPG
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An awareness event confirms rainbow's meaning
In effort to promote awareness and fulfill one mission of SFSF, Board Secretary Susie Miklaski spoke at the Riverview, MI, Relay for Life Luminary Ceremony at Young Patriots Park, Saturday, May 18. Two years ago, Susie spoke at the evening event, focusing on the lessons Sophie learned, and taught, during her short time here on earth. At this year's ceremony Susie spoke about the lessons learned from Sophie's passing, emphasizing her rainbow...and just how meaningful it has become to The Foundation, and how it has been a sign to those who continue to do her work. The DJ "got the message" and chose to play "Somewhere Over the Rainbow" as participants circled the pond for the ceremonial silent walk amid the lighted, memorial bags.
Two days later, Susie received this email from a Relay participant:
"... It was really amazing to hear the story about the rainbow at the Relay. The reflection from the lights shining on you made the colors of the rainbow on the back of the stage. I thought it was ironic. Also, just another sign that she is with you." |
This nation will remain the land of the free only so long as it is the home of the brave.
~ Elmer Davis |
SFSF establishes Ambassador Program
Due to an overrun of the 2012 SFSF Annual Appeal, SFSF has over 200 extra brochures. In an effort to extend the database, increase donations, and spread awareness, SFSF is asking for help in distributing and sending the remaining appeals, by establishing an "Ambassador Program." Those who are able and willing to send brochures to friends, family, and co-workers, (who are not already in the SFSF data base) or who are able to place brochures in appropriate public areas should contact Board President, Emily Quayle, for additional "Ambassador" information.
To date, extra brochures have been sent by Riverview High School's EGAD Club in Michigan, placed in the lounge at Encana Oil and Gas in Dallas, TX, and have been distributed in several doctor's offices in the Cleveland area. Ideas for places of distribution, as well as additional new mailing addresses will be greatly appreciated. |
SFSF volunteers work IX Beer Fest
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Board members Andrea and Dan Bucci, and SFSF supporters Jim and Kristin Stobe work and "enjoy" the Beer Fest. |
Nine SFSF Board members, along with seven volunteers, poured beer at the IX Center in Cleveland during the International Beer Fest. The two-day event was manned by different volunteers who worked two-hour sessions in return for a stipend to their charity of choice. Twenty volunteers from the same group guaranteed each 20-man group a $200 donation; the 16 SFSF volunteers will reap a bit less, but the event was a fun evening for all. Offering their time and services were SFSF Board members: Kelly and Mike Bova, Dan and Andrea Bucci, Shawn Green, Michelle and John Polinko and Emily and Marc Quayle. Volunteers and friends included: Connie and Mark Massie, Kristin and Jim Stobe, Matt Smith, Mark Skaggs, and Joe (Wally) Bilgen. SFSF drinks to their effort and service! |
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And the race is on!!

Plans are well underway for The SFSF Fifth Annual Birthday Bash & Dash. Walker Road Park will be rocking on the Fourth of July as more than 1000 expected participants will be running, walking, playing, eating, and enjoying the festivities to commemorate the birthday of Sophie Quayle and honor her memory. The event is always a perfect way to begin celebrating the birthday of the USA and a great effort to establish freedom from pediatric brain cancer.
Race Committee Chairperson, Michelle Polinko continues to solicit corporate sponsors, gifts-in-kind, raffle prizes, goody bag items, donations, and of course, registered participants and volunteers. Contact Michelle to offer any of the above.
Early registration, $25 for those over 11 and $20 for those 10 and under, closes June 17. Late registration will run until the morning of the race with an only-one price of $30. On-line registration closes on June 29 at 9:00 a.m. (EST). Early registrants are guaranteed a T-shirt, a goody bag, and a wrist band, for under-10, for participation in the kids' activities. Activities include: face-painting, bounce houses, sidewalk art, kids' crafts, etc. Late, under-10 registrants will receive a wrist band; T-shirts will be on a first-come, first-served basis until the limited supply is gone. New this year is the "runner-in-spirit" category for those who can't be in Avon Lake on the 4th; a $20, early-registration (by June 17) guarantees a race T-shirt.
An early packet-pickup will be held at Veteran's Memorial Park in Avon Lake, at The All American BBQ, on June 29, 4 p.m. to sunset. Only 110 parking passes for Walker Road Park will be available for a suggested $5.00 donation, on a first-come, first-served basis. All other race participants must park at Holy Spirit Church (Walker and Lear Rds.) and ride the shuttle to the park. The last shuttle will leave Holy Spirit at 8:30 a.m.
In addition to the kids 'activities, there will be silent auction items and Chinese raffle items for the adults, as well as a 50-50 raffle. New this year will be a raffle for a hot air balloon ride for two; tickets are $10.00 each. The SFSF Awareness tent will feature the work of The Foundation as well as newly-supplied SFSF items for purchase.
All registered participants who raise $100 or more will receive a SFSF dri-fit T-shirt and also be entered in a drawing for an iPod shuffle. Random goody bags will contain door prizes.
Race volunteer coordinator Tru Pace is busy enlisting the help of Race workers. Anyone who wishes to help should visit the on-line sign-up to select a "job" and a time slot. According to Tru, "Many hands make for light work."
Register early. Be a SFSF fundraiser. Celebrate the 4th with meaning and compassion. Visit the SFSF website for additional information. |
You have to love a nation that celebrates its independence every July 4, not with a parade of guns, tanks, and soldiers who file by the White House in a show of strength and muscle, but with family picnics where kids throw Frisbees, the potato salad gets iffy, and the flies die from happiness. You may think you have overeaten, but it is patriotism.
~ Erma Bombeck |
SFSF Supports International DIPG Registry
SFSF's latest $10,000 donation to TCSN (The Cure Starts Now) will help to fund an International Diffuse Intrinsic Pontine Glioma Registry which has recently been established by a TCSN grant. The registry is currently being established to provide a "comprehensive database of clinical, radiologic, and pathologic data linked to bioinformatics repository of molecular data of patients." In simplest terms, the registry will be somewhat of a clearing house of information, providing and classifying data on the treatment, condition, development, and records of DIPG patients.
Diffuse intrinsic pontine gliomas (DIPG) comprise 80% of all brainstem gliomas and no effective chemotherapeutic regimens are currently available. Establishing an international registry will hopefully, "lead to a better understanding of this disease and lead to the development of more uniform and effective therapies."
The project includes: recruiting DIPG patients, providing a repository of treatment data for those registered, developing a repository of existing molecular data that can be linked to patient information in the registry, and establishing collaborations among investigators, leading to a better classification and more effective treatment of patients with DIPG.
The long-term goal is to "establish and maintain a highly collaborative, international, hypothesis-driven research infrastructure that can support a wide spectrum of interdisciplinary and translational projects in DIPGs for all investigators."
SFSF proudly supports the establishment and continuance of this registry .The primary investigator is Mary Ann Fouladi, M.D., medical director at Cincinnati's Hospital Medical Center. To learn more about the grant to create the registry visit http://www.thecurestartsnow.org/research/grants/

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Gamma Delta Sorority pledges to support SFSF
While attending the West Shore Best of the West Expo on April 12 at La Centre in Westlake, Elena Schodowski, founder of Gamma Delta, casually stopped at the SFSF display. Intrigued, Elena struck up a conversation with SFSF Board Treasurer Andrea Bucci. The more the two talked, the more enthusiastic Elena became; so enthusiastic about the work and mission of SFSF that she brought the idea of making SFSF its philanthropy to her sorority sisters at Cleveland State University. The Gamma Delta women loved Smiles For Sophie Forever too, and voted to pledge their financial and physical support to The Foundation. Marketing Committee member Marc Quayle met with the women in May, providing greater details how Gamma Delta could be actively involved. Besides helping and running The Bash & Dash this year, the sorority will also be helping out at Avon Lake's All American BBQ, June 29, where SFSF will have a display.
According to its Facebook page, "Gamma Delta is a sorority of women who represent themselves as being courageous, strong, and confident....formed by the founding mothers in hopes of making new friends around campus, with the hopes of going national. With a 'Do better!' motto, Gamma Delta women are truly a strong representation of great things about Greek life." SFSF welcomes the women to its ranks.
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Gamma Delta sorority sisters at Cleveland State University. |
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Kids really do, do the darndest things
 | Taryn Wilson, along with her little sister, Finley, takes advantage of the unseasonably warm May weather to set up a SFSF popsicle stand. |
Six-year-old Taryn Wilson, good friend and former classmate of Sarah Quayle, moved from Avon Lake this winter, but she hasn't forgotten Sarah and her sister Sophie. Now a resident of Cranberry Township, PA, Taryn set up a popsicle stand in her front yard on that warm Sunday, May 20, to raise money for Smiles For Sophie Forever. While her brother, Mac, helped "man" the stand, their mother Amy shared Sophie's story with customers in their new neighborhood. Taryn was inspired not only by her friendship with Sarah, but also by her mother, a friend of Emily's and avid SFSF supporter. When Amy told Taryn that she would be participating once again with the SFSF team in the St. Jude Marathon this December, Taryn decided to plan her own fundraiser. Taryn raised $7.00 at her popsicle stand, and is now busy being in charge of the Wilson Family's fundraising for the SFSF Birthday Bash & Dash on July 4th, in which Taryn and Mac will both participate. Taryn has plans for selling lemonade this summer. SFSF is grateful for the efforts of the Wilson Family.
Princess Tea Party
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Princess Caitlyn Wingeart sets the Tea Party table for her birthday guests. |
Seven-year-old Caitlyn Wingeart celebrated her birthday with the heart of a true princess, graciously asking her five guests to donate to Smiles For Sophie Forever instead of bringing a present to the Tea Party. A resident of King George, VA, Caitlyn's guests were all her first-grade classmates. Ironically, Caitlyn's mother Karen was a classmate of Sarah Smith, Emily's sister, for 12 years in Trenton, MI, their hometown. Karen, Emily, and Sarah were all on the Trenton Swim Team at Trenton High School, back in the days.
The Wingeart family members are not strangers to works of giving and compassion. Caitlyn's sister had a "no-presents" birthday party for her seventh birthday also, requesting that donations be made to the local SPCA (Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals). Karen was an anonymous bone marrow donor in December, setting more of an example to Caitlyn. After checking out "Sophie's website," Caitlyn discovered that she and Sophie liked many of the same things, so choosing SFSF for her charity was an easy decision. While Caitlyn and her guests enjoyed tea sandwiches, decorated cupcakes and take-home buckets, and signed a SFSF Board, their parents made donations. In addition to the $40 Karen sent to SFSF, other parents made on-line donations. SFSF appreciates the kindness of the Wingeart family and wishes Caitlyn much happiness in the coming year.
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The United States is the only country with a known birthday.
~ James G. Blaine |
Annual Appeal adds meaning and money to SFSF
The SFSF appeal, like the March weather in the Midwest came in like a lamb, and left like a lion, with SFSF reaping the lion's share. To date, the appeal has added $11,133 to the SFSF treasury, surpassing the 2011 total of $8,145. Assembled on March 17, by several SFSF volunteers, this year's appeal featured a rainbow theme (what else?!), emphasizing a greater interpretation to the meaning behind the colors of Sophie's rainbow.
SFSF thanks all those "with love in their hearts" (RED) who make possible "the fruits of our labor" (ORANGE) to bring "sunshine and smiles" (YELLOW) and give the "hope of spring" to victims of pediatric brain cancer (GREEN) while subduing the "sadness and sorrow" (BLUE) of a monstrous disease, promoting "the passion" (PURPLE) in our purpose. SFSF will be forever chasing rainbows.
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Avon Lake's All American BBQ ---
A Perfect Prelude to The Bash and Dash
SFSF volunteers will be on hand at the first-ever, city-sponsored All American BBQ, at Veteran's Memorial Park, in Avon Lake, Saturday, June 29, 4 p.m. until sunset. The SFSF booth will offer an early packet-pickup for the July 4th race; sell newly-stocked SFSF merchandise; accept late race registrations; and offer first-come, first-served parking passes at Walker Road Park for race day for a suggested $5.00 donation. A special event for kids in tow will be a "Color A Rainbow for Sophie" page for a $1.00 donation. The colored rainbows will be on display at The Bash & Dash. Adults can buy a raffle ticket for an Uppercase Living, metal beverage bucket, complete with Fourth of July picnic supplies, a much-needed item for holiday celebrations and/or a SFSF hot air ballon ride raffle ticket. (See detailed information below.)
Local vendors, businesses and organizations will man individual booths, touting their wares and wishes. Several food concessions will be available offering burgers, hot dogs, cotton candy, ice cream, watermelon, and drinks. Fitch's Farm market will offer fresh produce and home-grown specialties.
Admission is free; food and activities are for a fee. SFSF encourages participation in this first-ever "Perfect Prelude to The Fourth." |
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