John S. Gordon - Business and Personal Coach
"You have the greatness and the power.  I just help you turn on the switch."
MARVELOUS MONDAYS
  December 7, 2009 -  Issue 47

Calm Leaders

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LEADERSHIP INSPIRATION
In issue 42, we talked about Cesar's Way and the essential role of being "calm" as a leader.  My question this week is how does one remain calm in the midst of a "crisis", argument, financial problem, or employment problem?  Or when other circumstances seem chaotic. 

Lao-Tzu in the 26th verse of the Te-Ching (written 2500 years ago) suggests that we can carry serenity with us and choose to be centered and choose not to let circumstances or others control our feelings or cause us panic or anger or unrest.  By doing so, we do not let others or circumstances "control us." 

One way to stay centered during such a "crisis" is to stop thinking and start breathing and empty out any judgments. 
 
Does this sound like a way to achieve a freedom that perhaps we have not known - namely not to let others or circumstances control our feelings.

EXERCISE
This week, I invite you to make a commitment to put this way of being into practice so that you are ready the next time such a situation comes up.  Perhaps posting the following affirmation on your door or mirror might be approriate. 

 "I have the ability to stay poised and centered regardless of what goes before me".
   - Wayne Dyer from "Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life"

I'd be delighted to hear how this practice works for you. 

World at Rest Image

"The still is the master of unrest.
Realizing this, the successful person is
poised and centered in the midst of all activities;
Although surrounded by opulence
He is not swayed
 
Why should the lord of the country
Flit about like a fool?
If you let yourself be blown to and fro,
You lose touch with your root.
To be restless is to lose one's self-mastery."


 - 26th Verse written by Lao-Tzu



REVISED:  JOHN'S BIO
John Gordon is the owner of several businesses and a family law practice, which is the 3rd oldest (1881) Kansas City based law firm. He coaches business owners, executives, entrepreneurs and professionals.  He also coaches persons in career transition or who are considering retirement.  He is also a personal coach.  John is an Eagle Scout and a tenor in a gospel choir. He and Frances have 4 children.
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John S. Gordon
Business and Personal Coach

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