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June 2010 Issue: 3
Dusting for Fingerprints 
Dawn Franks
 
Dear ,
 
Dawn FranksSixteen individuals recently gathered for lunch. You won't be surprised when I tell you there were sixteen different sets of fingerprints in the room.  No, I don't mean the prints at the end of each finger, but rather YOUR Giving Fingerprints.

Yes, you do have your own giving fingerprints - in essence your own style of giving that differs from anyone else.  How different might your giving style be from mine?  How different we are isn't all that important. What's important is recognizing you have your own style. It belongs to you and no one else.

It impacts why you give to some causes and not to others, how often you give, even how you like to be thanked.

Participating in a personalized exercise, the sixteen sorted and prioritized 25 value cards with words that impact our giving decisions.  Each individual did the exercise alone. Lots of aha moments followed.  

In the discussion that followed I was surprised at the impact the exercise had.  Almost everyone in the room found it challenging to filter sorting the value cards through their giving decisions.  In the end several said they now needed to reflect on why they give to some organizations but not others.  Or even why they're still giving to some organizations.

For those of us in the room, understanding how we make giving decisions expanded our view of giving and even our giving options.

Continued...

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Two Pockets... and Change 
Fred Smith

Fred SmithAre some gifts better than others?  Very few of us get the same kind of satisfaction out of giving to operating expense as we do to feeding and clothing a child or building a house.  Why is that?  I've been thinking about it lately.
 
Click here for the article. 
Two Styles, One Philanthropy 
An Interview with Drs. Sasha Vukelja and Larry Anderson
 
Drs. Larry Anderson and Sasha Vukelja and family 
 
Many know Drs. Sasha Vukelja and Larry Anderson as respected physicians and philanthropists, but few realize
how these two dynamic individuals have brought together different operating styles to create a philanthropic partnership of great value.

Click here for their story.
Dollars and Sense 
Family Wealth: Can Our Kids Be Trusted?
Family Wealth - Can Kids Be Trusted? 
What is it like to grow up in a family with wealth? How do charitable interests differ between parent and child? How do we start the conversation about wealth and responsibility with our kids?

Click here to learn how some families are dealing with these issues.
 Look for issue #4 in August 2010.
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