Girl Talk

October 17, 2009

9am CST

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Hey Everybody,

 

  We are on the last day of our 2009 Mayhem Conference here at the Net Church and God has been moving by His Spirit. On Sunday, God had me to start out the conference and the very thing that God has laid on my heart is that we just need to learn how to praise Him just because of who He is not because of what he can do.  It's time to start seeking the face of God and not the hand of God. The second night our speaker Overseer Kenneth Reid came and told us that God desires for us to praise Him before you even receive the blessings of God.  Then, on last night the man of God Pastor Brian Nelson told us that you need to learn how to praise God even if He doesn't give you what you want and to stop thinking that just because you praise God that He owes you something.  You praise Him just because of who He is. I am trying to the tell you it is time to do what matters most and that is for us to seek God with all of our might. Join us tonite if you can at the Net Church for the last night of our Mayhem 2009 Conference.

 

Mercy, Peace, and Blessings

 

Pastor Joel

 

 

 

by Sonya 

 

When Beautifully Speaking was first created it was designed by God to help people understand their purpose, their process, and their potential in Christ Jesus.  This means that beautifully speaking was not designed to make you feel good but to declare to you that God is into you and that He cares about your very existence.  I have had people to unsubscribe simply because they wanted me to write something that was going to tickle their ears, make them laugh, and to entertain their thoughts and their ideas that God only loves His daughters and dislike His sons.  I am not a male basher and neither do I speak or indulge in the idea, simply because how can you as a woman say that men aren't any good, intimidated by you, naïve and down right complex when you are continuously asking, seeking, and praying to God for a man you say is a dog and don't know a good woman when he sees it.  This sounds complex how is it that as women we want men that we love to hate.  
 
I don't know who this word is for but the bible says that you shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free.  I am at a point in my life where it doesn't matter if people don't like what God gives me to preach about, write about, or to do simply because I am not trying to be popular and neither am I trying to be anyone's BFF.  I will not compromise the gospel to tickle your ears but I came to tell you, that God said, 'stop being the chick on the side.'  The bible declares to us that if you are single then your cares are for the Lord.  Then the bible declares that you are to submit to your own husband and seeing that you aren't married then your husband is the Lord.  Are you cheating on your husband?
 
You see we don't like to hear that the Lord is our husband because He is not natural but He is spirit but more real than we know.  But, I don't understand you want Him to pay your bills, buy you cars and give you houses, and then turn around and give you the man that you are begging Him for.  Princess, God is not a butler.  So, I gather that the only reason why you are praying to God on a continual basis about a man instead of a relationship with Him is simply because you are in need of some sexual behavior or you have some pent up sex in need of being released.  Women are praying to God about a man more than they are about His will for their lives. Women are praying to God about a man more than they are for themselves and their children.  A MAN IS NOT A GOAL, NEITHER IS HE A PURPOSE IN WHICH TO PURSUE.

 

How is that you can go to God for and about everything else but not about your need to exchange your body for love.  I don't understand what bible people are reading or maybe that is it people are not reading it.  Worship is a form of intimacy with God.  It means to love on Him, but how can you love on Him and when He tells you to come out of the bed you decide to stay anyway.  Do you know who God is?  He is Sovereign meaning that He has the power to do whatever it is that He wants to do, whether you like it are not.  The bible declares don't worry about who can destroy your body but God who can destroy both body and soul.  Whatever happened to the fear of the Lord?  Because, I believe that if you are truly seeking God that He tells you that there is more to you than climbing a stripper pole, having oral sex, and giving sex to all whom you encounter.  He has to tell you that the man you're sleeping with is not your husband.  That could mean one of two things. One the man you're sleeping around with is already married or two you're not to be in a relationship with that man because in the end it will only amount up to sex and this is not the man that God has for you. 
 
It amazes me that God blesses women with all kinds of avenues to receive healing and deliverance but never choose to do what it takes to stop being the chick on the side.  It amazes me that we as women get out of one relationship and then turn right around and get into another.  It amazes me that we as women keep quoting I know God is going to send me my prince.  We fail to overlook that the prince has already come, He is the Prince of Peace, He is the great I AM, in the bible the disciples was around Jesus and asked Him the question are you the one are shall we look for another.  I declare that as women we are looking for another.  How can we go to church every Sunday, tell men that they are not following God yet we get amnesia when God speaks to us and tell us to stop being the chick on the side.
 
You say Sonya, on the side of what? I am glad you asked; God doesn't want you to be His woman on the side, He wants you to be His only woman.  Why do He have to share you with anyone.  Why, do He have to give you someone, when He is all you need? Stop being on the side of God and be in God; On the side of the bed that you don't belong, on the side waiting for them to call you in the middle of the night.  Having sex on the side are anyway you want to flip it.  Put yourself on the other side of this coin, how would you feel if God never stood by your side when all hell was breaking loose?  What if God decided not to be there for you when He told you to come out of the bed and you refused?  What if God doesn't extend His grace to you?  Come on the bible says, shall I continue in sin that grace may abound certainly not.  Then the bible declares that when you refuse to come out of the bed that this is called, 'a sick bed.'
 
I was praying the other day saying God I don't understand I am trying to help the women of God and show them who they are in You but they seem to be rejecting my efforts.  I said to God if I tell them that are beautiful they enjoy that but if I tell them that your spirit is ugly, foul, and loose then they want to unsubscribe tell me about dotting I's and crossing T's.  I don't understand how we want the hand of God but not the heart of God. We only want to appear beautiful outwardly but the bible says that on the inside we are full of dead men bones. I am not trying to be politically correct I am fighting for the lives of God daughters.  I understand my calling and I know who I am so I am not writing this to get people to like me.  I am not writing this to tell people not to unsubscribe.  I am writing this because I walk in the office of a prophet and I am not shame to say it.  The office of a prophet is to warn you when danger is coming, to guide, and to protect.  I am not asking anyone to agree with who the Lord has called me to be.  I was concern because only a few women listened to Girl Talk, and only a few women come to the conferences and only a few women follow through.  I was concerned about friends who said that they were on my side but in word only and not in heart.  I was concerned about the women who were reading the articles because my heart is to see them come into themselves and into the knowledge of Christ.  But now my prayers have changed God I only want the people who want to live for you for real.  I said God how I can have this many women emailing me and joining the newsletter and only so many of them open them up.
 
Then He made me realize the slogan that He gave me for my ministry and that is when you empower a woman you're impacting a nation.  So my mission now is if one woman changes her life and stop being the chick on the side then, my mission in God has been accomplished.  I am reminded of the woman who was at the well and Jesus told her to go and call her husband.  And, she said to Jesus, 'I don't have a husband.'  Jesus said you are right for you have had five husbands and the one you now have is not your husband.  He came to the well to tell this woman to stop being the chick on the side and that God is looking for true worshipers (intimacy) and they that worship Him must worship Him in spirit and in truth.
 
So today, if one woman stops being the chick on the side then to God be the glory and I did what I was called to do.  I realize that there isn't anything that anyone can do to me because God is with me. So, do what you have to do because I will still being doing God's will.  It's amazing to me that when people see me they say I see you're still in ministry as though it was my part time job.  I want you ladies to know that I use to be the chick on the side but when God came into my room one night and showed me both heaven and hell and then declared to me that I did not create you for this and that I needed to make a decision.  I choose to live for God, still afterwards dipping here and dipping there but when the fear of the Lord came upon me and said if you continue to be the chick on the side then I will allow HIV AIDS  to come your way. You say I use condoms, sweetheart they can break! Oh, don't play no condom can stop God. I will allow the things that I have been protected you from to come in then I realized that my love for God had to become stronger than being the chick on the side.  I can honestly declare to you that my life has never been the same.  He is my everything! I don't regret giving God my mind, body, soul and spirit.
 
I know that we are not in church but I admonish you to make an altar right where you and declare to the devil I have been a chick on the side long enough.  Lord, I repent for staying in things that you have called me out of.  Lord, I repent for male bashing.  Lord, help me to come out.  Lord, I am a wife and I have secretly desired to be someone's chick on the side. Lord, I have been someone's mistress and I want to come out. Lord, I know that the man I am sleeping with is not the one for me.  Lord, I know that I go from man to man from bed to bed exchanging my body for love and I want to stop.  I am not going to beg anyone to do what God has said for them to do but I warn you in the name of Jesus that the time has come for you to stop being the chick on the side.  I can hear someone saying, we are friends we are only talking but God said you have thoughts of and making plans to be the chick on the side.
 
God I thank you for your word today. I pray that someone will give their life over to you today.  Satan take your hands off of them right now in the name of Jesus.  Devil you should have killed them when you had the chance but now they are on the Lord's side.  Hallelujah.  Have your way Jesus.  We love you Jesus.  Oh come on and worship the only God, you owe it to Him. Hallelujah.  We bless your name Jesus. Come on lift up those hands and tell God yes.  Lift up those hands and tell God thank you.  Thank you for keeping me even when I didn't want to be kept.  Will you stop being the chick on the side?
 
Beautifully Speaking,
 
A word from God
If God was speaking to you to day and you want me to stand in agreement with you then email me:
sonya@beautifullyspeaking.com I still feel a praise down in my soul, hallelujah change is coming.