The Habari Gani e-Newsletter
 from the ADODI New York Chapter
(Affirming the Lives of Same Gender Loving Brothers of the African Diaspora)

"Habari Gani" in the Swahili African language means
 "What's the word?" or 
"What's the news?"
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Habari Gani and Happy New Year!
What Are Your Dating Plans For 2009?
TOPIC: Health
Post-LGBT KWANZAA
23rd Annual ADODI National Summer Retreat (2009)
Upcoming ADODI NY Events
About Us... ADODI's Heritage
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  -ADODI -
THE SIX PRINCIPLES

SPIRITUALLY GUIDED
Seeking guidance and becoming grounded in the
Divine Energy that unites and center all our spirits.


HONESTY, OPENNESS AND CLARITY
Communicating thoughts and feelings in a sincere
and concise manner. This principle also speaks to
the need of developing good listening skills
as well as awareness of our body language.


SENSITIVITY TO FEELINGS
Acknowledging another person's feelings or point
of view  with or without necessarily agreeing
with it.


CAREFRONTING
Reaching out to support and assist each other in a
caring and effective manner.


RESOLUTION
Establishing a realistic sense of closure of issues
pertaining to our individual and collective purpose.


THE FIVE A's:
ACKNOWLEDGE,
APPRECIATE,
AFFIRM,
ACCEPT,
ACHÉ

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 JANUARY 2009

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HABARI GANI? (What's The Word?)

Greetings ADODI Brothers,

Peace and blessings! ADODI New York chapter's upcoming "2nd Saturday" gathering is Saturday, Janaury 10th, 2008 from 4:30PM to 7PM. For our new brothers receiving the Habari Gani e-Newsletter, the address and travel directions with a travel map aide link are always provided towards the bottom of this e-newsletter. We hope to see you there! AND PLEASE BRING A BRUTHA OR TWO.

The ADODI New York gatherings are a pot luck gathering so feel free to contribute food, beverage, desserts, etc.

Good or not-so-good let us know your thoughts about the Habari Gani e-Newsletter. Please send email feedback regarding the "Habari Gani e-Newsletter" ONLY to ADODINY [at] GMAIL.com

All other inquiries regarding the ADODI New York chapter itself should be sent to ADODINewYork [at] aol.com

Harambee (Let's all pull together)! Aché!
ADODI New York

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Habari Gani and Happy  New  Year!

My ADODI Brothers,

Habari Gani and Happy New Year! I hope that Life is being kind to you and you are enjoying yourselves. It is my sincere wish that you were able to observe whatever you are celebrating in an atmosphere of love and support with many friends and family around you. Two thousand and eight has been an amazing year, in terms of changes in the fabric of this nation, as well as the development of ADODI National. We can all thank one another for the hard work that went into that accomplishment and encouragement.

Of course, there is still much more work to be done and it is an ongoing task that we are all focusing and working on. My sincere thanks for allowing me to work with each of you, and for your willingness to do this important work that bears no financial or public compensation. With so much desire, drive and determination within us, we can only succeed.
 

This year, our theme for the upcoming retreat will be ADODI WHOLENESS: LIVES OF POWER AND POSSIBILITIES. It appears to me that 2009 will be a "banner year" in the development of ADODI National and you will be the people to make that happen. Keep doing what you are doing and enjoying the results. Know that your efforts are appreciated by many of us who need an organization like this to be the "whole persons" we are destined to be and deserve to be. This will surely be the year that ADODI National takes it place on the map of cultural organizations and receives the recognition it deserves. Know that you helped to achieve that accomplishment with your selfless service to our Black SGL Community.
 

May this be the best year ever for you and those close to you, and may you all experience Health, Happiness, Harmony, Prosperity, Progress and Peace.

Aché! ACHÉ!

Ronald McKay
Secretary, ADODI National

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What Are Your Dating Plans For 2009?


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February's new, exciting and fun approach will be about
dating and relationships. Pssst...it's a secret.
You must be there to find out, but come in January to our ADODI 2nd Saturday gathering...some secrets will be revealed...




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Topic For
Saturday,  January  10th,  2009 @ 4:30PM:

HEALTH

African-American Doctor



HEALTH

 
One of the things that come to mind when we consider the theme ADODI Wholeness: Lives of Power and Possibilities is the overall health of same gender loving men of color.  According to the latest longevity statistics, Black men in American live an average of 70 years, whereas white men live an average of 73. However, black men who have sex with men man may live 7.7 years less than their heterosexual counterparts while white MSMs may live only 0.9 years less than theirs.  This means that--for all our diversity as a people and even though we live in every part of this country--the color of our skin coupled with our personal behavior determines that we SGL men of African descent are more likely to get ill and more likely to die of that illness than our cohorts in the majority culture.
 
No one pretends that the reasons behind the inequality in the health system are easy to discover or that they're all within our control. Some of them we all know stem from racism and homophobia, and some are socioeconomic-poor access to medical care, poverty, bad environment, and lack of awareness.
Black Man's Guide to Good Health, The

In their upcoming edition of The Black Man's Guide to Good Health, Doctors James W. Reed and Neil B. Shulman believe good health isn't so much a matter of fate as it is a frame of mind. Too often, we think about our health only when we become ill. Poor health can destroy not only your body but also your dreams and goals.  Many men who give all of their spirit and heart to achieving their goals are unwilling to invest equally in their bodies.  But when they fall ill, their dreams can fall into the dust. By that time, resurrection is costly-not only in money but also in lost time. To be sick can mean losing one's footing in the world for a while, and it can mean discomfort and pain as well. To be very sick is to submit to treatments that can themselves bring discomfort; it is to find oneself in a world of needles and tubes that have become necessary for one's recovery and cure.
Black Power

Men in general and Black men in particular, are inclined to avoid medical care unless we are seriously ill. We tend to tough it out, as if admitting to body weakness is to admit to weakness as a man.  But in fact, to be a strong African American man is to be responsible to those you love and to yourself. Taking care of you physically and mentally we think is an essential part of that responsibility.
 
Oftentimes, bad health is the result of bad choices.  Not exercising, not eating right, ignoring those early warnings the body sends to tell us that, unless we pay attention, there's going to be trouble--these are all bad choices.  Prevention is the best medicine, and early diagnosis is a close second. 
Strong Black Man's Back

Doctors Reed and Schulman believe the first step toward becoming an activist for your own good health is to learn how your body works.  Sure, sometimes what your doctor has to tell you sounds like a foreign language.  But keep in mind that learning how your body works, as well as what's going on when it doesn't work, is learning about yourself.  You're a wonder and a gift, body as well as soul.  And once you know a bit more about the mechanics of that gift, you'll be more inclined to keep it running smoothly.
 
Have you ever wondered what your doctor sees when he looks into your eyes?  Why not? Or what she hears when she listens to your heart and chest? How come? Aren't you curious about why your blood vessels can clog, or why normal cells can turn cancerous?  Answers to questions like these can lead you into a new appreciation of your body.  The can also teach you empowerment-empowerment to take care of your own health.

Million Man March

In recent decades, African American men have become empowered to make changes: The Civil Rights Movement and the Million Man March are but two examples that preceded November 4th. The time has come for us to become empowered anew.  Now the job is to learn about our bodies as inseparable from ourselves.  Learning that, we can learn to keep our health, even to save our lives.  In that way, we'll have taken a first step, a big step, toward eliminating the inequalities in the American health system.  And in that way, we'll be making the radical statement that we deserve to live as long as the other guys.
 
Too often we look to heroes who aren't like ourselves-super athletes, super stars, the rich and the famous.  Now it's time for a new hero-an ordinary man who takes care of his own body.  He does so because he respects himself and believes that he deserves to be healthy.  And he does so because he knows that by staying healthy he can love well and work well, and harvest his own dreams.  You'll meet some of these new heroic Black men here at ADODI on January 10th. And after you've finished listening, you might become one of them! ACHE!
 
ADODI New York
Planning Committee
 
 
Question:
 
- How do we stay healthy in light of our circumstances?

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POST- 21st  Annual  LGBT  Community  KWANZAA

KWANZAA Shrine

Close to 300 people gathered for the 21st Annual Black Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) Kwanzaa Celebration, which was held on Saturday, December 27th, 2008 in the Michael Lerner room at the LGBT Community Center. The celebration was the culmination of a day of activities which included an African market, a cultural program and a Karamu or community feast.

Below are pics from the event.
Click On Any Of The Pics To Read The Whole Kwanzaa Story at
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KWANZAA [mother & daughter]
ADODI's Own Eugene Howell
Lighting The Candle Representing The Kwanzaa Principle
Ujima (oo-JEE-mah): Collective Work and Responsibility


Kawanza 2008 - Dr. Martey
Another ADODI Brutha, Our Dr. John "Martey" Young
Lighting The Candle Representing The Kwanzaa Principle
Ujamaa (oo-JAH-mah-AH): Cooperative Economics


1 - Umoja [Unity
Members of the Akoben Drumming Circle


1 - Umoja [Unity
THE AFRICAN DIASPORIC FAMILY TOGETHER!!!

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~ 23rd Annual ADODI National Summer Retreat ~
"ADODI Wholeness: Lives of Power and Possibilities"


Wednesday, July 15th - Sunday,  July 19th, 2009


White Eagle - Hamilton, NY

We invite all same gender loving men of African heritage to our 23rd Annual ADODI Retreat:

"ADODI Wholeness: Lives of Power and Possibilities"

Wednesday, July 15th - Sunday, July 19th, 2009

At The White Eagle Conference Center in Hamilton NY
 
White Eagle 2 - Lake Across Cottage

Early Bird Cost is $595 if paid in full by 4/15/09.
Then $625 by 06/15/09 and $650 thereafter.
Includes double occupancy lodging, meals and round trip transportation.

Partial Payments Are Also Acceptable.
Any Partial Payments or Payments Made In Full Are Transferable But NON-REFUNDABLE!

Coach Bus Transportation Departs From The
Adam Clayton Powell, Jr. Harlem State Office Building
at 125th Street and Adam Clayton Powell Jr. Blvd.
in Harlem, New York
The Bus Departs at 10:00AM on Wednesday. 07/15/09
and
Returns Approximately 3:00PM on Sunday, 07/19/09.

For more information and registration www.ADODIintl.org

For More Information Call
Robert (212) 926-0043
Courtney (646) 436-0784

Limited Scholarships Available
Contact Paul: paulmsmith [at] yahoo.com
MInd, Body & Soul

"ADODI Wholeness: Lives of Power and Possibilities" is about enriching how we live our best, whole self. One decision, one action at a time. As SGL (same gender loving) men of African ancestry, our caring makes us human, and our crafts and communities make us whole. During the retreat we will explore the power each of us possesses, and how we share it with others, the culture we continue to build with our many gifts, and the communities we strengthen, nurturing the bonds of possibility in the many ways we do. The retreat includes workshops, daily group affirmations and African inspired rituals, talent sharing, scheduled and ad hoc discussion groups and much more -all in a safe, loving atmosphere exclusively by and for SGL men of African ancestry.

White Eagle - Activities

Please join us at the White Eagle Conference Center in upstate New York. Be sure to register early, as space is limited. Bring an open heart and be willing the have the experience that so many have found difficult to describe beyond "wow...it was life changing... it was so moving...etc"

We look forward to seeing you there!
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UPCOMING EVENTS FOR ADODI NEW YORK
Saturday, February 14th, 2009
Regular ADODI Monthly Gathering
Valentine's Day Special Event - Stay Tuned
4:30PM to 7:00PM

Saturday, March 14th, 2009
Regular ADODI Monthly Gathering
4:30PM to 7:00PM

Saturday, April 11th, 2009
Regular ADODI Monthly Gathering
4:30PM to 7:00PM

SAVE THE DATE!
Wednesday, July 15th thru Sunday, July 19th, 2009
The 23rd Annual ADODI Summer Retreat
@ the White Eagle Conference Center
Hamilton, New York



ADODI's HERITAGE

(Established in Philadelphia, PA in 1986)
IN OUR 23rd YEAR!


ADODI, the plural of ADO,
is a Yoruba word that describes a man who "loves" another man.
More than just a description of partners in Africa, the ADODI
of the tribe are thought to embody both male and female ways
of being and were revered as shamans, sages and leaders.


Who is ADODI?
ADODI is a community of men of color who affirm their
African lineage and love of men. Our purpose is to foster and
encourage the self-discovery, validation, empowerment and
liberation of all members of our diverse community.


Where do we meet?
Every 2nd Saturday of every month @
Audre Lorde Project
85 South Oxford Street
[between Fulton Street & Lafayette Avenue,
next to the church]
Fort Greene in Brooklyn, NY
4:30PM - 7:00PM
A potluck dish is welcomed but not required - An open heart is!

DIRECTIONS:
"C" train to Lafayette Avenue; "G" train to Fulton Street;
 D, N, Q, R, 2, 3, 4, 5 trains to Atlantic Avenue/Pacific Street
Buses: B25, B26, B38 or B52 to closest stop to S.Oxford Street
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