CONTACT INFORMATION
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Email:ADODINewYork@aol.com
ADODI New York Inc.
P.O. Box 7417 JAF Station
New York, NY 10116-7417
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DONATIONS: ADODI Vision Fund
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ADODI New York is a self sustaining organization with non-profit sponsorship and as such depends on the support of Brothers and allies like you as committed partners in realizing our vision.
May we suggest a donation to our VISION Fund by becoming
A Friend Up to $50 Donation
A Supporter Up to $100 Donation
An Advocate Up to $250 Donation
A Protector Up to $500 Donation
A Patron Up to $1,000 Donation
A Sustainer Up to $5,000 Donation
A Keeper of the FLAME Up to $10,000 Donation
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-ADODI - THE SIX PRINCIPLES
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SPIRITUALLY GUIDED Seeking guidance and becoming grounded in the Divine Energy that unites and center all our spirits.
HONESTY, OPENNESS AND CLARITY Communicating thoughts and feelings in a sincere and concise manner. This principle also speaks to the need of developing good listening skills as well as awareness of our body language.
SENSITIVITY TO FEELINGS Acknowledging another person's feelings or point of view with or without necessarily agreeing with it.
CAREFRONTING Reaching out to support and assist each other in a caring and effective manner.
RESOLUTION Establishing a realistic sense of closure of issues pertaining to our individual and collective purpose.
THE FIVE A's: ACKNOWLEDGE, APPRECIATE, AFFIRM, ACCEPT, ACHÉ
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HABARI GANI? (What's The Word?)
Greetings ADODI Brothers,
Peace and blessings! ADODI New York chapter's upcoming "2nd Saturday" gathering is Saturday, Janaury 10th, 2008 from 4:30PM to 7PM. For our new brothers receiving the Habari Gani e-Newsletter, the address and travel directions with a travel map aide link are always provided towards the bottom of this e-newsletter. We hope to see you there! AND PLEASE BRING A BRUTHA OR TWO.
The ADODI New York gatherings are a pot luck gathering so feel free to contribute food, beverage, desserts, etc.
Good or not-so-good let us know your thoughts about the Habari Gani e-Newsletter. Please send email feedback regarding the "Habari Gani e-Newsletter" ONLY to ADODINY [at] GMAIL.com
All other inquiries regarding the ADODI New York chapter itself should be sent to ADODINewYork [at] aol.com
Harambee (Let's all pull together)! Aché!
ADODI New York
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Habari Gani and Happy New Year!
My ADODI Brothers,
Habari Gani and Happy New Year! I hope that Life is being kind to you and you are enjoying yourselves. It is my sincere wish that you were able to observe whatever you are celebrating in an atmosphere of love and support with many friends and family around you. Two thousand and eight has been an amazing year, in terms of changes in the fabric of this nation, as well as the development of ADODI National. We can all thank one another for the hard work that went into that accomplishment and encouragement.
Of course, there is still much more work to be done and it is an ongoing task that we are all focusing and working on. My sincere thanks for allowing me to work with each of you, and for your willingness to do this important work that bears no financial or public compensation. With so much desire, drive and determination within us, we can only succeed. This year, our theme for the upcoming retreat will be ADODI WHOLENESS: LIVES OF POWER AND POSSIBILITIES. It appears to me that 2009 will be a "banner year" in the development of ADODI National and you will be the people to make that happen. Keep doing what you are doing and enjoying the results. Know that your efforts are appreciated by many of us who need an organization like this to be the "whole persons" we are destined to be and deserve to be. This will surely be the year that ADODI National takes it place on the map of cultural organizations and receives the recognition it deserves. Know that you helped to achieve that accomplishment with your selfless service to our Black SGL Community. May this be the best year ever for you and those close to you, and may you all experience Health, Happiness, Harmony, Prosperity, Progress and Peace.
Aché! ACHÉ!
Ronald McKay Secretary, ADODI National
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What Are Your Dating Plans For 2009?
 African American Graphics
February's
new, exciting and fun approach will be about dating and relationships. Pssst...it's a secret. You must be there to find out, but come in
January to our ADODI 2nd Saturday gathering...some secrets will be
revealed...
 African American Graphics
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Topic For Saturday, January 10th, 2009 @ 4:30PM: HEALTH 
HEALTH
One of the things that come
to mind when we consider the theme ADODI Wholeness: Lives of Power and
Possibilities is the overall health of same gender loving men of
color. According to the latest longevity
statistics, Black men in American live an average of 70 years, whereas white
men live an average of 73. However, black men who have sex with men man may
live 7.7 years less than their heterosexual counterparts while white MSMs may
live only 0.9 years less than theirs.
This means that--for all our diversity as a people and even though we
live in every part of this country--the color of our skin coupled with our
personal behavior determines that we SGL men of African descent are more likely
to get ill and more likely to die of that illness than our cohorts in the
majority culture.
No one pretends that the
reasons behind the inequality in the health system are easy to discover or that
they're all within our control. Some of them we all know stem from racism and
homophobia, and some are socioeconomic-poor access to medical care, poverty,
bad environment, and lack of awareness. |
In their upcoming edition of
The Black Man's Guide to Good Health, Doctors James W. Reed and Neil B.
Shulman believe good health isn't so much a matter of fate as it is a frame of
mind. Too often, we think about our health only when we become ill. Poor health can destroy not only your body
but also your dreams and goals. Many men
who give all of their spirit and heart to achieving their goals are unwilling
to invest equally in their bodies. But
when they fall ill, their dreams can fall into the dust. By that time,
resurrection is costly-not only in money but also in lost time. To be sick can mean losing one's footing in
the world for a while, and it can mean discomfort and pain as well. To be very sick is to submit to treatments
that can themselves bring discomfort; it is to find oneself in a world of
needles and tubes that have become necessary for one's recovery and cure.
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Men in general and Black men
in particular, are inclined to avoid medical care unless we are seriously ill.
We tend to tough it out, as if admitting to body weakness is to admit to
weakness as a man. But in fact, to
be a strong African American man is to be responsible to those you love and to
yourself. Taking care of you physically and mentally we think is an
essential part of that responsibility.
Oftentimes, bad health is
the result of bad choices. Not
exercising, not eating right, ignoring those early warnings the body sends to
tell us that, unless we pay attention, there's going to be trouble--these are
all bad choices. Prevention is the best
medicine, and early diagnosis is a close second.
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Doctors Reed and Schulman
believe the first step toward becoming an activist for your own good health is
to learn how your body works. Sure,
sometimes what your doctor has to tell you sounds like a foreign language. But keep in mind that learning how your
body works, as well as what's going on when it doesn't work, is learning about
yourself. You're a wonder and a gift,
body as well as soul. And once you know
a bit more about the mechanics of that gift, you'll be more inclined to keep it
running smoothly.
Have you ever wondered what
your doctor sees when he looks into your eyes?
Why not? Or what she hears when she listens to your heart and chest? How
come? Aren't you curious about why your blood vessels can clog, or why normal
cells can turn cancerous? Answers to
questions like these can lead you into a new appreciation of your body. The can also teach you empowerment-empowerment
to take care of your own health.
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In recent decades, African
American men have become empowered to make changes: The Civil Rights Movement
and the Million Man March are but two examples that preceded November 4th.
The time has come for us to become empowered anew. Now the job is to learn about our bodies as
inseparable from ourselves. Learning
that, we can learn to keep our health, even to save our lives. In that way, we'll have taken a first step, a
big step, toward eliminating the inequalities in the American health
system. And in that way, we'll be making
the radical statement that we deserve to live as long as the other guys.
Too often we look to heroes
who aren't like ourselves-super
athletes, super stars, the rich and the famous.
Now it's time for a new hero-an ordinary man who takes care of his own
body. He does so because he respects
himself and believes that he deserves to be healthy. And he does so because he knows that by
staying healthy he can love well and work well, and harvest his own
dreams. You'll meet some of these new
heroic Black men here at ADODI on January 10th. And after you've
finished listening, you might become one of them! ACHE!
ADODI New York
Planning Committee
Question:
- How do we stay healthy in
light of our circumstances?
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POST- 21st Annual LGBT Community KWANZAA
Close to 300 people gathered for the 21st Annual Black Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) Kwanzaa Celebration, which was held on Saturday, December 27th, 2008 in the Michael Lerner room at the LGBT Community Center. The celebration was the culmination of a day of activities which included an African market, a cultural program and a Karamu or community feast.
Below are pics from the event. Click On Any Of The Pics To Read The Whole Kwanzaa Story at GBMNews.com |
![KWANZAA [mother & daughter]](http://ih.constantcontact.com/fs065/1101859413381/img/86.jpg?a=1102366205565)
ADODI's Own Eugene Howell Lighting The Candle Representing The Kwanzaa Principle Ujima (oo-JEE-mah): Collective Work and Responsibility
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Another ADODI Brutha, Our Dr. John "Martey" YoungLighting The Candle Representing The Kwanzaa PrincipleUjamaa (oo-JAH-mah-AH): Cooperative Economics
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Members of the Akoben Drumming Circle
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THE AFRICAN DIASPORIC FAMILY TOGETHER!!!
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~ 23rd Annual ADODI National Summer Retreat ~ "ADODI Wholeness: Lives of Power and Possibilities"
Wednesday, July 15th - Sunday, July 19th, 2009

We invite all same gender loving men of African heritage to our 23rd Annual ADODI Retreat: "ADODI Wholeness: Lives of Power and Possibilities" Wednesday, July 15th - Sunday, July 19th, 2009 At The White Eagle Conference Center in Hamilton NY |
Early Bird Cost is $595 if paid in full by 4/15/09. Then $625 by 06/15/09 and $650 thereafter. Includes double occupancy lodging, meals and round trip transportation.
Partial Payments Are Also Acceptable. Any Partial Payments or Payments Made In Full Are Transferable But NON-REFUNDABLE!
Coach Bus Transportation Departs From TheAdam Clayton Powell, Jr. Harlem State Office Buildingat 125th Street and Adam Clayton Powell Jr. Blvd.in Harlem, New YorkThe Bus Departs at 10:00AM on Wednesday. 07/15/09andReturns Approximately 3:00PM on Sunday, 07/19/09. For more information and registration www.ADODIintl.orgFor More Information CallRobert (212) 926-0043Courtney (646) 436-0784 Limited Scholarships Available Contact Paul: paulmsmith [at] yahoo.com |
"ADODI
Wholeness: Lives of Power and Possibilities" is about enriching how we
live our best, whole self. One decision, one action at a time. As SGL
(same gender loving) men of African ancestry, our caring makes us
human, and our crafts and communities make us whole. During the retreat
we will explore the power each of us possesses, and how we share it
with others, the culture we continue to build with our many gifts, and
the communities we strengthen, nurturing the bonds of possibility in
the many ways we do. The retreat includes workshops, daily group
affirmations and African inspired rituals, talent sharing, scheduled
and ad hoc discussion groups and much more -all in a safe, loving
atmosphere exclusively by and for SGL men of African ancestry.
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Please
join us at the White Eagle Conference Center in upstate New York. Be
sure to register early, as space is limited. Bring an open heart and be
willing the have the experience that so many have found difficult to
describe beyond "wow...it was life changing... it was so moving...etc"
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UPCOMING EVENTS FOR ADODI NEW YORK
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Saturday, February 14th, 2009 Regular ADODI Monthly Gathering Valentine's Day Special Event - Stay Tuned 4:30PM to 7:00PM
Saturday, March 14th, 2009 Regular ADODI Monthly Gathering 4:30PM to 7:00PM
Saturday, April 11th, 2009 Regular ADODI Monthly Gathering 4:30PM to 7:00PM
SAVE THE DATE! Wednesday, July 15th thru Sunday, July 19th, 2009 The 23rd Annual ADODI Summer Retreat @ the White Eagle Conference Center Hamilton, New York
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ADODI's HERITAGE(Established in Philadelphia, PA in 1986) IN OUR 23rd YEAR!ADODI, the plural of ADO,is a Yoruba word that describes a man who "loves" another man.More than just a description of partners in Africa, the ADODIof the tribe are thought to embody both male and female waysof being and were revered as shamans, sages and leaders. Who is ADODI?ADODI is a community of men of color who affirm theirAfrican lineage and love of men. Our purpose is to foster andencourage the self-discovery, validation, empowerment andliberation of all members of our diverse community.Where do we meet?Every 2nd Saturday of every month @Audre Lorde Project85 South Oxford Street[between Fulton Street & Lafayette Avenue,next to the church]Fort Greene in Brooklyn, NY4:30PM - 7:00PMA potluck dish is welcomed but not required - An open heart is!DIRECTIONS:"C" train to Lafayette Avenue; "G" train to Fulton Street; D, N, Q, R, 2, 3, 4, 5 trains to Atlantic Avenue/Pacific StreetBuses: B25, B26, B38 or B52 to closest stop to S.Oxford Street TRAVEL MAP REMEMBER, EACH ONE REACH ONE!SHARE THE EXPERIENCE:INVITE AND BRING ANOTHER BRUTHA TO OUR GATHERINGS!
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