Greetings!
Re-gifting, if done in a thoughtful way, makes the person you're giving to happy, and saves you money. I often find new, unused items in my clients' homes. "Is this something you will use," I ask. What I usually hear: "No, it was a gift." If it's nice, I suggest re-gifting, but if it's tacky or impractical, donate it! Here are some suggestions for an appropriate way to re-gift.
Re-gifting works well if it's a new item that YOU might have actually bought for someone. Some examples of re-gifts are: picture frames, kitchen items, candles, holiday decor and photo albums (this decade!).
You must know who the gift came from. It's critical that you do not give the gift back to the giver! You also do not want to give the gift to anyone who is in the same circle of friends as the giver.
Do not re-gift in the original gift wrap/bag. The wrapping must be fresh and thoughtful. And, this eliminates the risk of leaving a gift tag on that was addressed to you. (I once received a rumpled gift that was not addressed to me! How thoughtless!)
Consider swapping some of your re-gift items with a friend who also has re-gift items. Or, host a small gathering of friends and do a re-gift gift swap. (You get to choose one of your friend's re-gifts -- for yourself or to give as a gift!)
In closing...
Anything that would not make a thoughtful gift should be donated. If a re-gift item is still in your possession within 1-2 years, donate it.
May you receive all of the gifts you've been wishing for, and may you have a happy and prosperous holiday season!
Merry Christmas! Happy Hanukkah!
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