Whatever the reason, positive people seem to live longer, healthier lives - try it and see how it works for you! Here are some tips on how to be more positive: If your self-talk tends to be more negative, it doesn't mean you're doomed to an unhappy and unhealthy life. You can learn to transform negative thinking into positive thinking. The process is simple, but it takes time and practice - you're creating a new habit, after all. Here are some ways to think and behave in a more positive way: · Check yourself. Periodically during the day, stop and evaluate what you're thinking. If you find that your thoughts are too negative, try to find a way to put a positive spin on them. · Be open to humor. Give yourself permission to smile or laugh, especially during difficult times. See humor in everything occurrences. When you can laugh at life, you feel less stressed. · Follow a healthy lifestyle. Exercise at least three times a week to positively affect mood and reduce stress. Follow a healthy diet to fuel your mind and body. And learn to manage stress. · Surround yourself with positive people. Make sure those in your life are positive, supportive people you can depend on to give helpful advice and feedback. Negative people, those who believe they have no power over their lives, may increase your stress level and may make you doubt your ability to manage stress in healthy ways. · Practice positive self-talk. Start by following one simple rule: Don't say anything to yourself that you wouldn't say to someone else. Be gentle and encouraging with yourself. If a negative thought enters your mind, evaluate it rationally and respond with affirmations of what is good about yourself. By recognizing the patters of positive thinking and choosing to be upbeat and optimistic, you enhance the likelihood of health and happiness - spread the word! | 
