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Dealing with the Nagglies: Those Pesky Things that Zap your Energy and Creativity
You know nagglies when you see them--they're impossible to avoid. They're those little things that never seem to get done. Those pants you bought six months ago but never hemmed, the books you can't remember to return to the friend who lent them to you, that stuff in the bag in your closet that you need to take to Goodwill--they're all nagglies. Nagglies nag at you, taunt you, drain your energy and pull you down in subtle ways. Because they never seem to get done, you chide or even berate yourself over them. Nagglies are an arch enemy of your creativity because they distract you from your creative goals.
Identify Your Nagglies
Get a notebook and go from room to room in your house listing the nagglies. Don't forget your office and even your car too. Nagglies will be easy to identify if you ask yourself how long a particular task has been waiting to be done and how many times over the last two weeks you've said to yourself, "I've just got to take care of that, finish that, etc."
Build Momentum by Taking Care of One or Two Nagglies
Pick out either the nagglie that's bothered you the most or one that's easy and fast to take care of, then do what needs to be done. You'll jumpstart the process of ridding yourself of your nagglies if you feel a sense of accomplishment. Tackling the next nagglie may not seem quite so daunting, and before you know it, you'll be on a roll.
You might also try taking care of all the nagglies in one room before going on to the next--this worked for me!
Build in Some Rewards
OK, it's a silly game, right? But just as kids can be coerced with rewards, so can you. Find a way to treat yourself as a recognition of your progresss in the war against your nagglies.
Enlist Help
Are you really going to hem that pair of pants yourself? Take them to a tailor and spend the $10-15. Getting rid of energy drains like this is well worth a little monetary investment, and it frees up your time and energy to focus on the nagglies that no one else can help you with.
I've still got some nagglies to wrestle to the mat, but I have a tail wind now. I hope you'll give some thought to whether you have nagglies that are bogging you down and distracting you from your creative goals. Getting rid of them might just energize you too!
Until next month,
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