Unravel Frustration
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We are living in very new and incredibly different times. So, it is not that unlikely that frustration may pop up in ones life now and again. When "something" triggers our sense of frustration, it is human nature to automatically feel "bummed" ... however, what may actually be happening is we are being "twittered" on shifts occurring around us.
One simple and effective option we have available to deal with frustration is not to deal with it at all. Acknowledge it, let it be, and move on! In some cases this may not be an option, but more often than not, it is. This is why I encourage you to really think about the options you truly have when frustrations make a cameo in your life.
Beating ones head against the wall squanders our time and energy, and can be potentially harmful! Incessant stabs to control the uncontrollable are futile. Hope can be bottomed out, and daydreams are a doohickey not to be counted on or abused. However, knowing what we can change and what we cannot, and knowing when to fence-sit empowers us to pursue and accomplish the unthinkable. Non resistance opens us up us to conserve energy when the evidence tells us there is simply nothing else for us to do. Adopting a quiescent presence provides us with the "serenity to accept the things I cannot change" - at least at this moment.
We have little, if any, control over what other people do. However, we do get to choose the course of action that we pursue. So it stands to reason that a very viable and available option is to avoid futile endeavors! And by gradually broadening our range of talents, pursuits, and amplifying our pizzazz for life we just might indirectly influence others by example.
You can spend many lifetimes trying to change the world, or you can connect to the greatness within you and change the world around you in an instant, simply because you are here.
Individuals who choose to pursue a course that perpetuates viable unravelings aren't immune to frustration. However they have looked at "the" situation, felt the discomfort, and moved on only to discover creative answers.
Life is not meant to be lived in the dumps. So, the next time you feel futility attempting to present itself or play out; take a breath and consider the tapes playing on and on in your head, then say "thanks for sharing, but no thanks" and walk on by!
"My recipe for dealing with anger and frustration: set the kitchen timer for twenty minutes, cry, rant, and rave, and at the sound of the bell, simmer down and go about business as usual" ~Phyliss Diller~
© by Mary Kay Buttery
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