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Winter/Spring 2011
Vol 3, Issue 1
In This Issue
New Mindfulness Course Starting in Bethesda
Featured in the Washinton Post: New Year's Romance Resolutions
Rheumatoid Arthritis Patients Talk About Using IFS
Featured by NBCWashington.com: The Health Benefits of Relationships
Fun Photos You've Never Seen of the Brain
New Mindfulness Course Starting in Bethesda

Experiential Mindfulness: Build Emotional Intelligence Using Self-Leadership 

 Mindfulness Center

 

 

I am pleased to partner with The Mindfulness Center in Bethesda to offer my six-week course on Self-Leadership.  

 

Below is the course summary. See the full-color tri-fold brochure here.  

 

 

Self-Leadership is the closest thing to having a
control panel for your mind. 
 

Register today and join the course that can show you how.

 

YOU'LL LEARN HOW TO... 

  • Use mindfulness to rewire your limbic system and produce emotional, physical and
    cognitive changes
  • Be centered even during bursts of activity or distraction from the outside world
  • Deal with negative, overwhelming or "bad" feelings
  • Grow your self-esteem
  • Lead your emotions instead of emotions leading you
  • Use feelings together with rational thoughts to make smarter decisions
  • Find a valuable resource in your least desirable traits
  •  Go beyond simplistic strategies to manage pain or moods

Human Tree croppedHOW IMPORTANT IS EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE?

Emotional intelligence is about self-awareness, self-control, and the ability to keep your feelings in harmony with you and others. How competent you are at decoding and directing emotions correlates with your success in every kind of endeavor and has a major impact on your health.

The truth is that feelings control our behavior even when we think we are acting rationally. It's almost as if our emotions and thoughts sometimes have a mind of their own! While we try not to "lose our mind," our emotional brain naturally runs on autopilot much of the time. This can cause us to lose control over important outcomes in life.  

Mindfulness, or the practice of listening to your mind's activities, gives you access to the executive "You" in your brain. Self-leadership is a practice, developed in mindfulness psychotherapy, that teaches you how to interact with the natural multiplicity and polarities within your complex mind to create order and balance.

With Self-Leadership, you can build your emotional intelligence to steer yourself into better decisions, better relationships, and better health.

THIS CLASS IS FOR YOU IF... 

  • Mindfulness is new to youand you want to learn about it more  
  • You want to add more depth and psychological insight to your practice of mindfulness or meditation
  •  You have tried to change a pattern in your life but keep getting stuck
  •  You want to feel more relaxed in stressful situations and improve your physical health
  •  You want an effective tool to deal with upsets in your marriage or other important relationship (attend alone or with partner)

CLASS SUMMARY FORMAT 

This class is an experiential study of a form of mindfulness practice known as Self-Leadership. Self-Leadership is based on Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS). (IFS is not family therapy, nor does it deal directly with family issues.) Using its methods, you gain a productive way to grow emotional intelligence and respond more constructively to disruptive automatic thoughts, beliefs that interfere with your goals, feelings that are hard to manage or behaviors that you want to change.   

The six-week class will use Jay Earley's book,  Self-Therapy: A Step-by-Step Guide to Creating Inner Wholeness using IFS. Each session will consist of discussion of key concepts from the book and demonstrations. Work between classes will include reading chapters from the book and practicing exercises with a class-partner by phone. The course is not group therapy but will allow you to learn about yourself and share your discoveries at a level comfortable to you.

 

COURSE DETAILS

DATES: April 27-June1, 2011
(Six consecutive Wednesdays)

TIME: 5:30-7:30pm     

LOCATION:  
The Mindfulness Center 
4963 ELM STREET, SUITE 100
BETHESDA, MD  

FEE: $249 prior to 4/13; $299 after 4/13   (includes textbook & manual)

REGISTRATION: www.themindfulnesscenter.com

 

 PRINT THE BROCHURE 

 

Featured in Washington Post: New Year's Romance Resolutions

New Year's ResolutionsI was invited to add my ideas about good New Year's resolutions for couples, along side of well-known media personalities, including Carolyn Hax (Washington Post advice columinst) and Dr. Ruth Westheimer (famous sex therapist and author).   

 

Is March too late to make a new year's resolution? Maybe you can get an early start for next year.  

 

Read article on Washingtonpost.com.  


By Ellen McCarthy
Washington Post Staff Writer
Sunday, December 26, 2010; E10

Rheumatoid Arthritis Patients Talk About Using IFS

Brigham and Women's Hospital 

It has been well established in medical literature that the mind is the body. Traditional practices of treating only the body but ignoring any treatment of the mind for physical conditions is becoming a thing of the past in many specialized medical treatment protocols. 

Brigham and Women's Hospital recently completed a study of patients with rheumatoid arthritis (RA). The study evaluated the patients' blood levels and other physical indicators of the symptoms of RA to see if changes in their mind would create changes in their level of physical pain. The nine-month study ended in December 2010. And while results are not yet published, word through the grapevine is of significant positive results.

The video below is  of study participants who talk about the effects of their use of IFS techniques to change the level of pain in their bodies.

 

Watch this video


The Health Benefits of Relationships
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I was recently interviewed by NBC Washington blogger, Lisa Cleary, for a Valentine's-week piece about the health benefits of relationships. I also had a lot to say about the benefits of singlehood that tend to be overlooked in our couples-geared culture that didn't get included. Nonetheless it was a fun piece to be a part of. Here's a sample:  


"It's not daily doses of Prozac you are walking down the aisle with. Relationships offer us the chance to be happy if we can learn how to flex and move and push where the relationship needs it."

 

Read the full article  

Beauty of the Brain: Fun Photos You've Never Seen
Beauty of the Brain
Ever seen where memories are made? I'm not talking about Disney World. Take a look at these cool micro-images of where all the action happens in your noggin. This is a photo of hippocampus neurons, the part of the brain that sorts memories like an internet search engine and assigns relevancy for later recall. Gaze at this for a while to see how beauty is really in the brain of the beholder.

This image is part of a collection published by Carl Schoonover, a neuroscientist at Columbia University. He collected intriguing images from his research in his book, Portraits of the Mind (Abrams).