I believe
that one of the most difficult things to do is to stand alone and not follow
the crowd. It must have been very difficult for the great inventors and
innovators of our time. They must have been under such extreme pressure to
conform to the beliefs and expectations of society, while trying to break free
from these in order to accomplish something different and unheard of. Can you
imagine how Christopher Columbus felt when he decided to set sail to find the
New World? He was told he would perish off the end of the earth and that he was
foolish for attempting such a careless feat. And yet here we are in Columbus's
New World. His courage provided us with so much opportunity. And what about
Thomas Edison when he was asked how it felt to have failed 10,000 times in
trying to invent the light bulb. He turned this scepticism on its head when he
responded: "I have not failed, I have just found 10,000 ways that won't work."
Of course, he went on to successfully invent the very light bulb which allows
us to enjoy the luxury of light in the midst of darkness, today.
I attended a
Paul McCartney concert recently and it reminded me of the courage it took four
young men from Liverpool, England to play music that was unheard of and
scandalous at the time. And, there we
were sitting with thousands of other fans, both young and old, applauding the
musical phenomena that came from having the courage to stand alone.
So much of
our world today would not be as we know it, if it weren't for the courage of a
few who chose to take the road less travelled. You would think, with all that
has been accomplished as a result of this courage, more of us would feel
comfortable taking risks in our own lives.
But, I have
found that this is not the case. Despite all the progress that has been born
from innovation, many of us are still too afraid to strike out our own path as
Columbus did. Why do you think that is?
Fear is one
of the most debilitating deterrents that prevents many people from going
against the crowd. But do you think it is possible that there is more fear in
the world now than there was in the days of Columbus, Edison, Galileo and
Einstein? I don't think so. Our world has always been full of fear. Fear has
been handed down from generation to generation for as long as man has existed.
Yet some people have had the courage to overcome that fear and have gone on to
invent, discover or innovate those things which we sometimes take for granted
today. They rose above the naysayers and the fears of the day so they could
move forward, sticking relentlessly to their beliefs. They had the courage to
stand alone and as a result, we benefitted.
Are those
courageous innovators and inventors really any different from you and me? Did
they have some God-given talent or skill that we do not have? Or were they
simply more brave; less afraid to take a risk? What would your life be like if
you were willing to follow your own dreams and aspirations, rather than keeping
your head down and following the crowd? What wonderful things would you bring
to our world if you let go of your fears? Take some time to reflect on what it
would be like to have the courage that Abraham Lincoln, Martin Luther King,
Nelson Mandela and Mahatma Ghandi had. It was Mandela who said: "I
learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over
it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who
conquers that fear." Is it possible that deep down we are all brave and
courageous; that we have the capacity to do great things. I truly
believe so.
While it is
much easier to be a follower rather than a leader, choosing to be a leader
feels much more rewarding in the end. We all have the capacity to lead if we
choose to do so. In order to join the ranks of Columbus and Edison we must
first let go of the opinions and judgements of others. Be prepared to stick to
your own beliefs no matter what others say. Then, we must find within us the
faith and trust needed to not give up. Even the possibility of falling off the
end of the earth did not keep Columbus from setting sail to find the New World.
Edison too demonstrated determination and faith, by trying thousands of times
to accomplish what he'd set out to do.
I truly believe that the courage
to stand alone on the road less travelled rarely comes from our mind, but
instead from some place deep within. Often those who have had the courage to
stand alone have done things that were totally contrary to accepted beliefs and
even logic itself. And yet they persevered with great resolve, always believing
strongly in what they were doing. I am sure many of them did have doubts along
the way, as most of us do, but they did not allow any trepidation to get in
their way. They forged ahead as something deep within spurred them on. I truly
believe we all possess that inner knowing, drive or passion. If only we could
connect to that part of ourselves and, as Mandela said, "conquered the fear
that holds us back," I'm sure it would be much more crowded on the road less
travelled.
When you do connect
with your inner passion you will find that what you are doing may take effort,
but it will not feel onerous or hard. You do it because you want to, not
because you have to. There is something that drives you onward despite the
obstacles that get in your way. How else could Edison have tried so many
different ways to invent the light bulb before achieving success? That inner passion is the deep sense of
knowing that often transcends our logical mind. It is what will allow us to
remain diligently focused on what we believe in and not give up until we
succeed. But so many people don't ever find that inner spark, or if they do
they ignore it or let their mind talk them out of doing something about it.
And, as Wayne Dyer says: "they die with their music still in them." Don't be
one of those people. Find your music and play it loudly to the world.
Are you ready to muster the
courage to stand alone and move forward toward what you know is right for you?
Are you ready to ignore anyone who says: "you're crazy," "you'll never do that,"
"you don't have what it takes," "what makes you think you can succeed where
others have failed," "you're not smart enough to do that," or "that's never
been done before"? Where would we be if the great innovators, discoverers and
inventors would have listened to the naysayers and fear-mongers? What would we be
living without today, if it wasn't for the few who had the courage to stand
alone on the road less traveled? How many amazing and unthinkable things could be
accomplished if more of us had the courage to join them on that road?