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Greetings!
This month's Inspiration newsletter is about perspective; it is about the way we
view the world and how that creates our reality. It has taken me a long time to
realize that our view of reality is unique to each and every one of us. I have
come to appreciate that our experiences in life create the filter or lense
through which we see the world.
This became even clearer to me recently, while I was
suffering from a sore back. In an attempt to relieve my discomfort I went to
several practitioners. I visited a chiropractor, an
osteopath, a massage therapist, an acupuncturist and a Reiki practitioner (I'm
not a hypochondriac, just someone who believes in many healing modalities).
What was so interesting to me is that each of them saw my problem through the
eyes of their particular modality. Each explanation was based on what they saw
from their particular perspective, training and education. In my opinion none
were absolutely wrong or absolutely right. Their view came from their
experiences in life. I found this to be a very interesting example of
perspective. And finally, my back is feeling better.
Below you will see four photos of one
of my favourite places to visit in Ottawa called Hog's Back Falls (officially
known as Prince of Wales Falls). The photos are all taken at virtually the same
place and yet they all look very different. One was taken in the summer, one in
the fall, one in the winter and one in the spring. This is another great example of how the same
thing can look totally different depending on your perspective.
And finally I would like to add a
special thanks to my daughter Hailey for being such a fantastic editor. Hailey
reviews and edits all of the material I write and does a great job. An editor
is somewhat like a magician or alchemist as they take a bunch of words loosely
put together to communicate a concept or a story and then transform it into a
great piece of prose so that it flows, makes sense and is easy to read. In
this, the age of the Internet, there is much opportunity to share your written
ideas and stories with others. So, if
like me, fear of not being a good enough writer is holding you back from
sharing your written work with the world, then find an editor to assist you.
Check out Hailey's redesigned and
updated website at www.haileyeisen.com and don't hesitate to contact her for your editing or writing needs.
Love and Light,
Jeffrey Eisen
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Perspective
Life is not as it is, but rather how we see it. How are you
seeing your life right now? As we look around at the world, we tend to see all
that is wrong as opposed to all that is right. Why is that? Perhaps it is
because our view of the world - that which has been handed down from generation
to generation - is based on a negative perspective.
Maybe it's time to rethink our point-of-view so we can begin
feeling better about the situations and people in our lives and in the world
around us. One of the greatest lessons I
learned through my journey of self discovery is that my perspective of the
world is not my own. (Or at least it didn't use to be). The way I saw the world
around me, my perspective, had been inherited from conditioned beliefs that
were passed along to me from parents, peers, siblings, elders, education, books
and religion.
I came to realize that my experiences in life, seen through
my conditioned beliefs, where what created my reality. The good news is as I
began to change my outlook my reality began to shift.
Perspective can be defined as, "a mental view or outlook."
So, where did your mental view, of yourself and the world, come from? What
external factors contributed to shaping your outlook?
I believe our perspective comes from our experiences, but
many of us have not yet developed the "skill" required to establish our own,
authentic perspective. The skill, to which I refer, is awareness. I believe most of us go through life not really
conscious or aware of what is going on around us or inside of us.
What would your life be like if you woke up and began to
make conscious choices? What would your life be like if you began to see the
world through your own perspective?
The development of higher awareness can take time, but there
is no reason why you can't begin today, honing that much needed skill in order
to create your own awareness. Awareness will allow you to start making choices
and those choices will allow you to change your life.
When you look at something that you think is unpleasant or
bad, take a moment to look deeper and ask yourself why that is your
perspective. Allow your awareness to help you understand why you see things the
way you do.
The world is now on the verge of yet another "crisis", this
one a health situation. We are still reeling from the effects of the global
financial crisis and now we face the possibility of an influenza epidemic. What
is your perspective of this issue? Where has that perspective come from?
I know that in the past, my perspective would have been one
of fear and worry. What happens if I contract this possibly deadly swine flu?
Are my loved ones safe? Should I cancel travel plans?
Through many years of focusing on becoming aware of my
thoughts - I have been able to change my outlook. Today, I choose not to worry about swine flu
because those thoughts only make me feel frightened, concerned and unwell.
While there is still a potential that I could contact this virus, at least I
will not be plagued with worry and fear waiting for something that may never
happen.
I choose more optimistic and happy thoughts. I try to filter
out the negative and fearful thoughts and replace them with thoughts of good
fortune and abundance. In doing so my perspective shifts.
One of the most empowering concepts I have successfully
integrated into my life is: "My thoughts are my choice." True, I still catch
negative and fearful thoughts sneaking up on me, but a keen sense of awareness
has enabled me to stop them and let them go.
It is quite fascinating to take some time and watch the
thoughts that come into your mind. These thoughts shape your perspective. If
negative, gloomy thoughts fill your mind then no matter what lies ahead of you
- a work assignment, an important meeting or a conversation with a loved-one
- you'll see it as impossible, difficult or terrifying. But, on the other
hand, if your mind if full of positive thoughts, that task will appear welcome,
doable and even fun!
The same task or the same world event can look and feel
different, depending on the shape of your thoughts that day. I have discovered,
however that our thoughts are often affected by how we are feeling and how we
are feeling is affected by our vibrational energy. Lower and slower vibraional
energy will put forth more negative, fearful and worrying thoughts, while
higher and faster energy will present happy, positive and optimistic thoughts. .We
do have the power to shift our vibrational energy by using various
shifting and opening techniques that will allow us to alter our thoughts and
thus our perspective at any given time. (You can find a list of shifting &
opening techniques on my website. To view click here)
It is important to note that no one else has the exact same
viewpoint as we do. That is because our point-of-view comes from our
experiences in life, and no one has had the exact same experiences as we have.
We have experienced so many disagreements (and wars) in our
world over the years, because we simply don't comprehend how perspective comes
about. We argue with others assuming they see things the same way we do.
Impossible. The sooner we realize that our perspectives are unique and others
do not see things as we do, the sooner we will wake up to the fact that we will
never truly convince anyone to see things our way.
You may win an argument or convince someone to go along with
your point of view, but you will never get someone to see something completely
from your perspective. We all have our own filters - our own lenses
- through which we see the world.
Only when we figure out that everyone sees things from their
own perspective will we be able to spend more time trying to understand other
people's perspectives and less time trying to convince them that their way is
wrong.
Only then, will we
move to a place of greater understanding and tolerance in our world.
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"The
real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having
new eyes." -Marcel Proust
"If we all worked on the
assumption that what is accepted as true were really true, there would be
little hope of advance." -Orville
Wright
"You see things; and you say, 'Why?' But I dream things that never
were; and I say, 'Why not?" - George Bernard Shaw
"Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact.
Everything we see is a perspective, not
the truth" -Marcus Aurelius
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