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| One Journey Consulting | August 2010
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Greetings!
The dog days of summer... I love this time of year, the lazy, hot afternoons that stretch well into the evening, the sounds of kids' laughter as they squeeze every last moment of joy out of their school vacation. And although I love the long days of summer, I know the crisp September air is right around the corner. And September brings transitions.
What transitions are you facing this year? Perhaps you are launching a young adult into the world for the first (or final) time. Or you are re-evaluating your career, and whether it still satisfies, or if it's time for a change. Maybe you are ending a marriage and thinking about dating, or wondering how to rejuvenate a 25-year relationship that's still solid, but a little bland.
Or perhaps, like many of us in mid-life, you are just feeling a little "blah", and wondering "is this all there is? What's next for me?"
Whatever your transition, wherever you are in your life's journey, we here at One Journey Consulting are committed to supporting you. In fact, we view the disruption of transition as a tremendous opportunity for personal rejuvenation and rediscovery. Transitions can be powerful, life-altering experiences if we approach them with intention and curiosity.
So, if you are curious about how you might create the next phase of your life intentionally, with passion and purpose, join us for one of our course offerings this fall. We look forward to seeing you.
Renee and Di |
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Upcoming Services from One Journey Consulting
If you have reentered the dating scene or are considering it, we invite you to join us for the Journey of Dating* series on Wednesdays (September 15 and 29, October 13 and 27, November 10 and December 1) from 6-7:30pm. This is a great opportunity to learn from others, share your experiences and discover new strengths and approaches.
In September, the Journey of Divorce programs return and will run for six consecutive Thursdays, September 23 through October 28. For those divorcing or newly divorced, Base Camp (5:30-7:15pm) offers support, information and coaching to help you get 'unstuck' and gain control over your emotional roller coaster. And Trailblazers (7:30-9pm) for Base Camp alumni, continues the journey of personal growth and strength.
What's Next: Designing the Second Half of Your Life* meets September 25, October 23 and November 20 (plus four teleconference calls). Are you facing a mid-life transition- children going off to college, career change or re-entry, divorce or new relationship? Or just those midlife blues and blahs? If so, this unique series will help guide you to (re)discover your passions and reinvent the next phase of your life.
And save the date for the NH Women's Fall Retreat coming up November 5-7.
*All welcome. You do not have to be separated or divorced to attend these workshops. |
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 'Are You Dating?' by Meg Gehan
Ah, the dreaded question every divorced person loathes. It's right up there with 'Did you know (your ex) is engaged/pregnant/married?' or 'How about I set you up with my friend's cousin's neighbor?'
Dating after a divorce or break-up creates a vast range of emotional responses. Some people jump right back into the scene, not wanting to miss an opportunity or waste another moment alone. Others avoid the activity, wary of another broken heart or rejection. While others dance between embracing their singleness and wondering what is possible. Sort of like watching a movie standing under the exit sign- wanting the thrill and experience, but ready to flee if there is too much horror or lack of plot.
I've confessed previously that dating unnerved me and I haven't intentionally ventured into the social scene in over a decade (or even this century!). In other words, I didn't know what movies were playing, or even how to get there. However, this summer, I vowed to take a few steps in my journey. I bought a ticket and took at seat in the theater.
I joined an online dating site and went on two dates with a very nice man and had a decent time with easy conversation and laughs. Yet when he asked to see me again, I stalled. A third date? I just couldn't do it.
The next day I woke in tears. Guilt and anxiety consumed me and I struggled to get through my day. Friends called me round the clock to see how my date was, but I couldn't muster the enthusiasm to discuss it. They didn't understand, nor did I. After all, my husband had left two years ago and successfully moved on to other relationships. Why couldn't I?
That question continues to plague me. Maybe it's because my divorce isn't final yet, or I have work to do on me, but I'm still under that exit sign (okay...the lobby and sometimes the parking lot). Since I also don't want to miss the opportunity for something entertaining and positively life changing, I plan on figuring it all out (at September's Journey of Dating workshop) so I can be ready to take a seat for the next available show! |
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About One Journey Consulting
One Journey Consulting is a coaching and
consulting practice dedicated to personal renewal and rediscovery, particularly
through the experience of divorce and other significant life transitions.
Services include weekly workshops, one-day seminars, individual coaching and
weekend retreats. For more information, visit www.onejourneyconsulting.com.
One Journey Consulting 75 Claypit Hill Road Wayland, Massachusetts 01778
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