Charlene Ann Baumbich
Tambourine MeSocial Networking.  OY!
April 2009
Stuff to DO
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TODAY'S MESSAGE
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Dear TwinkleGrammers,
Welcome newbies!  I'm so glad you've joined we sparklers.  Returning TwinkleGrammers, THANK YOU!  Your shining email responses and cheery notes help me carry on.  Sincerely. 

I hope yourlives are humming along, or at the very least, hitting on most cylinders.  As for my life, I've been "caught up" in a few things lately.  As with many, dare I say addictions? (already did!), good intentions blaze the trail, i.e. we eat to survive, but then we can't stop.  Although online social networking presents wonderful opportunities to stay in touch
with, and/or learn more about our own children, make "friends," reconnect with old ones and enjoy the "company" of complete strangers, sometimes it takes on a life of its own.

If you do NOT relate to TODAY'S MESSAGE, you might know someone who needs it, so please pass it along.

HAPPY SPRING!

Charlene's Signature
BUT FIRST, some quick HAPPY NEWS!

Charlene's Feet MY NEW WEBSITE FINALLY LAUNCHED!

www.charleneannbaumbich.com

Fun, fun, FUN!

To celebrate, I'm going to hold a special random drawingFIVE WINNERS!  Each will receive an autographed copy of Don't Miss Your Life!: An Uncommon Guide to Living with Freedom, Laughter and GraceI will draw the winners from emails sent to charlene@charleneannbaumbich.com that include your HONEST reaction to the new site.  Winners will be announced in the next TwinkleGram.  To be eligible, you must put "TG WEBSITE ENTRY" (sans quotation marks) in the subject line.

THIS month's drawing winner (also for a free DMYL), for which you were automatically entered simply by your TG subscription:   Laura from Gainesville TX
Today's Message

I've just about worn out my typing and mouse scrolling fingers this morning.  My back and neck are kinked from hours hunched over the keyboard, craning to see the monitor.  And yet,
before I log off for my lunch break, let me just check one more thing, one more time.  And then, one more. 
 
In fact, between these two paragraphs, I found writing about checking caused me to have to check again.  (Seriously.)  And ... Yup!  Good thing I did, because there appeared two more really interesting items! 

Better whip through the social networking rotation again.  Don't want to miss anything, or be the last one to know.  Maybe someone asked or answered me (e-mail), "friended" or "FANed me (Facebook), followed me (Twitter), responded to one of my travel posts (blog), posted a family picture (Flickr), found me (whatever).  Maybe there's something that will make me laugh, allow me to cry, or hurl me back in my chair all wow!-struck. 
 
In fact, that WOW! thing happened, just this morning!  A friend sent an email encouraging me to check out Susan Boyle on Youtube, so I did.  I sat here watching, mesmerized, cheering, crying.  "Wow," I said through sobs.  Of course I immediately had to "post" the link on Facebook, then keep checking for everyone's reactions.  Turns out lots of folks posted the same link.  As I type this sentence, it's the most viral video on the internet. A phenomena which would not have occurred without all this online social networking.  See!
 
Hm.  One of my "friends" on Facebook got twice as many reactions to the exact same link as I posted.  But who's counting?
 
Engaging in social networking is so much more fun than the pile of work on my desk, or organizing my house.  Or making dinner or doing laundry or ...
 
(one more rotation)
 
OH!  Gotta go.  Just got a phone call.  It was a spur-of-the-moment lunch OUT invitation from a friend.  Need to grab my Blackberry and hit the road.
 
Blackberry rings once during our lunch date.  Wrong number.  If only I could have been STEVE, I'd feel even MORE popular!  I could have friended him on Facebook, too!
 
Okay, I'm back.
 
(True confession:  I didn't write the previous 3-word sentence until after I checked the rotation.  After all, I'd been gone for 1.5 hours.) 
 
LOVED lunch.  As you'll recall, it was with my friend.  Whom I sat across from and actually watched her mouth move as she spoke, heard her voice in Real Time. Watched the waggle of her eyebrows, the way she digs through her handbag.  I listened to our twirling laughter, noted the hesitancy in her voice before she answered that one question--was glad I didn't order her spinach crepes.  They looked good and all, but still, spinach and me ...   I'll spare you the gastric implications of spinach and me. 

Which is another of the Good Things about most of the social networking sites: they don't allow you enough characters to blather on.  Either no details, or one detail.  You pick.  And I assure you, one detail about my gastric implications would not make for a good Tweet.  (I Tweet on Twitter as Twinklechar, in case you want to make sure.)
 
But I digress.  Back to lunch with my friend.  Although she also "does" FB, I wonder:  why hasn't she posted her picture on her FB page yet?  She joined clear back in mid 2008!  (Just checked.)  On March 9, I even posted on her FB wall about her lack of picture (just checked her Wall for my posting date).  And still, no picture!  Actually, she barely engages with her FB membership.  Says she's too busy and doesn't want to get "caught up in it." 
 
Whatever that's supposed to mean.

Right.
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RECENT NEWS:  Anxiety disorders are on the rise.  Wonder why?
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THE POINT:  When you sit across from a friend--look into those wonderful eyes, see the way she smiles, enjoy that awesome connection--and then fret over why she doesn't have her picture posted on a "social networking" page, you are in serious need of a Word. 
 
In an effort to give us (me) some perspective, and to help stop the frenetic rotations, I just went to Bible Gateway to look up some verses on friendship.  I'm especially hungry for something from the Message, a Bible translation written in everyday speak.  Talk to me, Lord.  Seriously, I did this after writing the above.
 
Under the first page of verse listings, which I clicked through and read, I saw a link for "results from Gospel.com" regarding the word "friends," so I clicked on it, now thirsty for yet more Words. 
 
YIKES!  The first thing I saw was this:  a message about how Twitter can be used in "Christian ministry and evangelism." I also noticed a call-out: "Microblogging using Twitter and Plurk."
 
Plurk?  Says there that Plurk is a "broadly similar system also gaining in popularity." 
 
My first instinct:  Better find out about Plurk!  I might need to join!
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Dear Lord,
Help us be wise with our time.  Yes, we long to stay connected with friends and family, those You've brought into our lives.  But keep us mindful who we "friend," and "follow,"  keeping You at the front of all lists.  Help us remember that those around us--those within arm's length and hugging distance--get their due attention, too.  AMEN!
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Because you know you're gonna ... here's the Plurk link.  Maybe I'll see you there.  Maybe not. 

 
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MORE EXCITEMENT:  I recorded the audio version, which is scheduled to release about the same time as the book.  VERY emotional.  VERY exciting.  I FELT VERY VULNERABLE, hearing all my stories OUT LOUD! 
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Just finished taping a video promotional for Stray Affections.  I'm anxious to see it (I hope).  If possible, I'll pass along the link in the next TG.  Or, follow me on Facebook or Twitter--or something.  But remember today's message!!
TwinkleGrammer
Survey Says RESULTS
about Love (or something)

TwinkleGrammers have spoken.  Our just-for-fun survey about Love revealed:

See survey results.  I'll keep the results "live" for at least three weeks.

The only question I left open to typed responses (which you cannot see) reveals that our most popular heart throb is GEORGE CLOONEY!  A few other populars:  Tom Selleck, Harrison Ford, Tom Hanks.  We had one vote each for Shreck, Monk and Keith Urban.  I love you diversified TwinkleGrammers!  Thanks for playing!



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