Greetings!
As July approaches, and many businesses embark upon a new fiscal year in addition to celebrating our country's independence on the 4th of July, I have to pause and wonder how many people could have accomplished so many more things in their life over this past year if a word could have been eliminated from the Spanish language...that word is MANAÑA! The word MANAÑA, the "tomorrow" that never comes! In the Spanish language, there will always be a "tomorrow" which is used too often, preventing so many from accomplishing so many things that would have made their lives so much better. In the English language, there is an appropriate word as well, called PROCRASTINATION! In order to eliminate this terrible deterrent that prevents so many of us from doing so many useful things, one must have "self-discipline." A famous writer, Elbert Hubbard, once wrote that "Self-discipline is the ability to do what you should do, when you should do it, whether you feel like it or not!" Hopefully, as this new fiscal year begins, you will realize that just as self-discipline is the key to success, the lack of self-discipline is a major cause for failure, frustration, under-achievement and unhappiness in life. It causes us to make excuses and sell ourselves short! I'll get more into this subject in the coming newsletters since I feel it is important that you wring all that you can out of life, and enjoy the success, happiness and personal fulfillment that each and every one of you deserves! A good education is an example of what should not be put off until MANAÑA!
Gracias,
John A. Flores, MBA - Author
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Weekly "Dicho con Café"
"Donde hay vida, hay esperanza"
The author's translation is that "Where there is life, there is hope."
Today, with all the struggles that so many people are facing, with the economy as a big reason among many others, we must not lose sight or be discouraged because of obstacles that get in the way. There is an old African proverb that states, "To stumble is not to fall, but to move ahead a little bit faster." Think about this for a minute! Start using those obstacles in your life as a learning experience, and to keep you from repeating the same mistake again. We are all a product of decisions we have made in our life: To go to school or not go to school; to learn a skill or not learn a skill; make a purchase or not make a purchase; the list goes on and on and on. The bottom line is that you are responsible for your decisions and if you make a wrong one, then make another one to correct it. The important thing is not to lose hope for a better future and learn to make the necessary adjustments so that you don't make those same mistakes again. Go back to school if you haven't done so! Learn a new skill if you haven't done it! And, take care of yourself and enjoy a cruise or a trip if you haven't tried it! In other words, pamper yourself once in a while - you deserve it, don't you? Don't let one mistake or a couple of mistakes keep you from accomplishing what you want out of life. Just don't make the same mistake over and over! Remember that "Lo ultimo que muere es la esperanza" or "The last thing that dies is hope." Don't give up! Get up if you get knocked down and, most importantly, remember that whatever you do with your life is "in your hands!" |
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More About John A. Flores
A most interesting and memorable visit that Mr. Flores had in his travels was in South America when he visited a leper colony along the Amazon that was mentioned briefly in an earlier newsletter. As they visited this leper colony, which was snuggled among the vast jungle vegetation along the shore of the mighty Amazon, he and his wife noticed that there were different artifacts that were crafted for sale by the people living at the colony, such as carvings of different animals that lived along the Amazon. They also noticed an elderly lady who had a few items for sale on top of a small table along with other items that were set up along a wall. One of the items was a 20-by-20 inch embroidered cloth, bordered in green crochet. Embroidered in the middle of this cloth was a green, yellow and gold parrot sitting on a brown branch with the words "Recordar es vivir in la Soledad" or "To remember is to live in loneliness." As they looked at the workmanship on the backside of the embroidery, they could see that the stitching was not the best. Frankly, it made the embroidery piece that much less attractive. Mr. Flores asked the lady how much she wanted for her work and she replied, "Fifteen dollars." He thought, "Wow!" For the first time, while visiting a third world country, he did not barter and instead paid the elderly lady the fifteen dollars. He has shown this work at some of his presentations and while most people in the audience would not have paid more than fifty cents for it, today he would not take $1,500 for it! This purchase from the elderly lady living along the Amazon gave him an important point to address in his seminar presentations that help reinforce a very important lesson in life: Mr. Flores may have purchased a rather unattractive embroidery work from this elderly lady, but it needs to be noted that the lady was a resident of the leper colony and was a leper who had lost all of her fingers to this rare disease. Can you imagine how difficult it was to do all the work that was required for her, just to work the needle, thread or crochet needles to do what she did? Can you imagine how difficult could it have been for her to use the stubs on her hand that had replaced her fingers, in order to finish her work? In the colony, the lepers were provided food and a roof over their heads, but they had to fend for themselves if they wished to buy other things such as toothpaste, toothbrush, razors and all those items that so many of us take for granted. The lesson that was taught to Mr. Flores by the elderly woman was that she still had hope in spite of what she had gone through and, in fact, was still going through at this time of her life. She had not lost hope to help improve her own living conditions in the midst of a jungle. Therefore, this message is meant to ask all of you: If an elderly lady can live in the darkest part of South America, in a jungle along the longest river in the world, in a leper colony without fingers, and still not lose hope in improving her life, then why should you, who possess all your limbs, lose hope? Mr. Flores' wish is that one of these days you may have a chance to see this beautiful work of embroidery that gave him a greater meaning to the word...HOPE!
When he's not writing books, Mr. Flores makes presentations to local, regional and national groups, using dichos to motivate his audiences. You can contact him for speaking engagements at (559) 456-0128 or at his personal email at jaflores1246@comcast.net
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Gracias,
John A. Flores, MBA
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