Etiquette doesn't pertain only to humans. Many homes have pets, including mine, and I must admit that my two dogs are not exactly well trained. We went the puppy kindergarten route -- twice, in fact, as Toby flunked, but somehow the lessons never stuck. However, both he and his brother Zack are members of our family, and as such, good behavior is expected from both of them, especially around company -- if not, they "bathroom up" until things settle down.   

Here are ten tips for good pet etiquette:

1. Always clean up after your pet! Keeping a supply of plastic bags immediately available should be a priority of all responsible dog owners. According to a recent survey, 47% of non-dog-owning Americans site failure to "scoop the poop" as their number one complaint against dog owners. Should you see another person neglecting to follow through on this responsibility, it is acceptable to cheerfully say "Oh, I have an extra bag if you need one." Hopefully, this reminder will be all that's needed. Remember, you can influence, but not control, the actions of others.

2. In keeping with "bathroom" etiquette, do not allow your pet to urinate on or against someone else's property. It causes yellowing of lawns, damage to plants, and as for the idea of a child playing with a toy, or someone touching a bike ... enough said.

3. Leash your pet when in public. It's not only safer for your dog, it's the law. If your preference is a retractable leash, please pay attention to your surroundings. There are times when it is ok to allow your dog some space, just as there are situations when you need to reel it in. Just because you have a long length of leash (whatever the type) doesn't mean you should always use it.

4. Know your pet's public personality and interact with others accordingly. There is nothing like passing by a dog and hearing the owner say "Now, Sweet 'ums, no biting this time!" I'm sorry, but why is that dog in an area where there are people and other pets?  

5. Refrain from forcing your dog on anyone. "My dog is so friendly, she just loves everyone!" That's great, but perhaps the other dog/person/child doesn't love her back.

6. Have your dog sit before introductions are made. A jumping, squirming dog may be happy and mean well, but can be also be overwhelming to those timid of animals - or simply downright annoying.

7. Some dogs slobber a little. Some dogs drool incessantly. If you have one of these, keep a towel handy. It doesn't bother you but others may not like it on their shoes, clothes, hands, furniture, etc.

8. Just as you would not bring an uninvited guest to an event, don't bring your pet. If he/she is welcome, your host will let you know. When inviting guests into your home, be courteous and alert them to any pets you may have; pet allergies range from minor to serious and forewarned is forearmed.

9. Pets are being allowed to enter more and more public buildings and establishments; it can be fun to take your dog with you as your go about your business. However, keep in mind that many people do have serious pet allergies and a simple brush by will leave pet hair and dander on clothing, which can then transfer to the car and home. Extra consideration in these spaces is appreciated.

10. Service dogs are working dogs; please allow them to do their job unimpeded. Always ask the handler before petting or feeding the dog, and then abide by her response.  

While I have written these tips in reference to dogs, many of them are applicable to other pets. While some may not spend as much time out in public, their activities at home and as they interact with guests are very important -- and something to always keep in mind.