It was apparent that those who knew her thought the world of her. She was applauded, spoken highly of, fondly teased, and praised to the sky. Her talents seemed to be legendary, especially her ability to pull people in, gain their cooperation and assistance, and make things happen.
I was impressed with her credentials and the time, effort and energy she had put into making the event such a success. Upon seeing and hearing the overwhelmingly positive reception she received wherever she went, I found it interesting to watch her.
What I found most interesting was her way of interacting with those individuals she didn't know. Quite simply, she didn't! Numerous times I saw her walk right by people without a glance, let alone a friendly smile or greeting. Several times I saw her walk between (more accurately, push through) two people deep in conversation when there was plenty of room to have walked around them; obviously she had important places to go and things to do.
Having coordinated numerous events myself, I understand how many details there are to keep track of, especially when there is a large crowd. However, I also know how easy it is to look up with a smile, say hello, or even "excuse me" while taking care of pressing matters.
I know I was not the only person at the event that found her behavior not in keeping with her reputation. I watched as those around me, obviously not a part of her circle, were treated as if they did not exist. In turn, they physically pulled away when she passed by, avoiding eye contact or busying themselves elsewhere. It was definitely a case of "people respond to the manner in which they are treated."
My purpose in attending this event was to learn something, to meet new people and to enjoy myself; I accomplished all three. Along the way, my belief in being friendly and courteous to people simply because they share the same space with me was reinforced -- again.
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Remember...
People
watch people ... they pay attention to body language, facial
expressions, greetings, words that are spoken and the way others make
them feel. They also notice those things that aren't done.
The impressions of people who don't know you do matter ... you never where they may lead!
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