When attending a business or social event, there is one key word to keep in mind. It applies to several different activities that you will probably participate in at any given event, whether it is a backyard barbecue or a black tie reception.
The word? Monopolize ... as in, don't!
It is human nature to cluster, be it around a fireplace, a kitchen counter, or the water cooler. But have you noticed how people will work their way to a food display, fill their plates, turn, and without taking a step, proceed to cluster together and converse with others as they eat? They monopolize the space around the food, making it difficult for others to enjoy the offerings.
The same thing happens at the bar. Once people have obtained their beverage, whatever it may be, there is a tendency to stop right there and continue their conversation, blocking access for others. Often times people will queue up behind, thinking that is where the line is forming, instead of the roadblock.
The third thing to be aware of? The host! By all means, greet your host, exchange pleasantries and brief conversation, but remember that everyone else at the event is wanting to do the same. If you need to have an in-depth, personal conversation with him, make arrangements to do so at a later date; this is not the time to monopolize his attention!
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Remember...
It's
a simple thing to do but often times forgotten when chatting with others ... step away from the food and drink, people!
You are there to socialize and network, not because the host
thought you were hungry!
Do be sure to say good-bye to your host and express your thanks for the invitation; that is not monopolizing her time, it is good manners. Two brief conversations are much more welcome that one long, drawn-out discourse.
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