The Coach's Wife    February 2008 Newsletter
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Words of a  Coach's Kid
"The fieldhouse is where Daddy lives when he is not at home."
 
A three year old coach's daughter marvels, "The game, Mommy! It's so beautiful!"
Question of the Month for March

Some coaching staffs produce such great friendships and unity. If this has been your experience, tell us how this happens.
 
On the flip side, if you have been part of a fractured staff, tell the symptoms and why you think it was that way.
 
No names nor teams will be mentioned.
 
Question of the Month for April

Do you have a fan who is mentally or physically challenged, and displays true-blue loyalty to your team? 
Tell us about this person so we can celebrate the joy they bring and add to our lives as coaches' wives.
Greetings!
Hope RadebaughHope, from Friend to Friend
February for coaches' wives is a hard time of year. Our budgets are depleted from holiday spending, coaches are looking for greener pastures -or- gasping from getting fired. Some households are fighting the flu, while loading the car to follow basketball games twice a week. At least the recent signing date signaled the end of recruiting. This is the time of year we need some hope and a friend who understands.
 

Hope Radebaugh is a coach's wife of 19 years and currently in her busiest season. Balancing her husband Barclay's team at Charleston Southern University (Charleston, South Carolina) and her son's basketball team, she is also mother to two active daughters. Hope recently authored Gym Rats, a Devotional for the Coach's Wife in November 2007 out of need in her own life. 

" The temptation is to become lonely and discouraged, or bitter toward a profession that allows only half of a day off each week during the season. My main goal in writing this book is that the wives who read it would find encouragement in the fact that they are not alone," said Hope. "It's my hope that they would find strength in knowing that God can meet all their needs."

 

If you are like me, you  look for affirmation and inspiration to be the best wife you ca be. Reading this, you will feel understood and encouraged, friend to friend, by Hope's 65 days of devotionals - just right to carry us through a season. Hope chose the title of Gym Rats because of all the players she has seen through the years that push themselves and persevere by hanging around the gym. She knows we can only be God's gym rats when we "hang around" His presence in His word and in prayer.

 
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 AFCWA- A very sheek 20 year old 

 

AFCWA conventionIf your husband coaches football, consider teaming up with him for a fun-filled four days next January 4-7 in Nashville, TN. The American Football Coaches Association is a membership of coaches from high school though Division I who mix, study and socialize. In 1989, the wives who attended with their husbands organized to become the AFCWA, thus the 20 year old birthday party this past January in Anaheim, CA.  Learn more at www.afcwa.org. Margaret Moore, featured in The Coach's Wife (page 158) and the September 2007 newsletter, is the current president. I am honored to serve as the programs chair on the Board of Directors.
A Love for All Seasons

Book HeartAs a new coach's wife, I had two toddlers, little time  and very little money. A friend told me about someone who would teach me the Bible, one-on-one for an hour weekly, for free.  Though the toddlers are now grown, my friend and teacher Janet continues to send me reminders of God's Love, friend to friend:
 

I John 3:1 "How great is the love the Father has lavished on us." We can't do anything to earn His love. God loves us because of who He is- not because of you or me. It is a gift. We can't earn it or deserve it. We don't need to perform for it. "God is love" 1 John 4:16. His love is unchanging. We may not always feel God's love but it is always there. We are unconditionally loved and have a choice to respond to that love and know it and rest in that love or not. If we believe that God loves us unconditionally then our lives will be an expression of that love.

 

Romans 8:38-39 "For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord."



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