The Coach's Wife September 2007 Newsletter
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Tell About Your Victories!
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Each week, every contest has a winner, and the one who got beat ("loser" is not in a coach's wife's vocabulary!). No matter what is on the scoreboard, there are wonderful victories that coaches' wives experience. Let's encourage each other! Write your personal victory to carolyn@thecoachswife.com. We will print as many as we can in the next newsletter.

For Example:
· Nancy Toney is 72 pounds lighter after 2 years of hard work. Her husband Gordon lost 66 pounds. They have a new lease on life.
· Susan and Jim waited a long time to have a successful pregnancy, and Jim voiced his strong desire for a son. But you should see how proud Jim is on the sidelines after the games holding and adoring his baby girl Jaidyn!
 
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Sometimes We Forget
Balls in the AirIn our daily routine, coaches' wives and husbands often go separate directions. He starts a load of laundry, makes the lunches and the coffee, gets the paper, and leaves before dawn for a long commute and 12 hour workday.  She wakes the children, fixes breakfast, dresses for work, drives carpool, and works 9 hours. He goes by the bank, and fills the car with gas and hopes to help with bath time and homework if he gets home in time. She prepares the meal, seeks meaningful conversation with each child, and catches up with bills and correspondence. Okay, I realize this is not a realistic division of duties, but we can dream. The point is: we have so much on our own plate that we each concentrate on our own needs. The other day I read:

Can you imagine praying for the right side of your body and not the left? If the right side is not sustained and protected and if it falls, it's going to bring down the left side with it. The same is true with you and your husband. If you pray for yourself and not him, you will never find the blessings and fulfillment you want. What happens to him happens to you and you can't get around it.

The quote comes from The Power of A Praying Wife by Stormie O'Martian. The chapters are short. Reading one each day, and praying for your husband through this busy season will bless you in ways you can't imagine now. I have read my copy at least three times, and always marvel at the creative insights I learn, and the tenderness that results.
Who is Margaret Moore? Margaret Moore

The Appalachian State Mountaineers won national acclaim in Week 1 by defeating No. 5 ranked Michigan. The stunning victory was on everyone's lips over that weekend and has spilled into the sport pages.

 

Everyone is asking, "How did this happen?" Everyone, except maybe one person: the coach's wife, Margaret Moore, because she has been beside her husband Jerry for over forty five years.  Read about Margaret in Chapter 12 of The Coach's Wife.

 

Chapter 12 is titled Greatness in the Making because the secret ingredient for a coach to reach his goals is the loving support of his wife. And the same is true for her to reach her goals. That's what a Championship Marriage is all about. The coach's wife is out of the spotlight- thank goodness!-but it is safe to declare her as the most important ingredient in a coach's recipe for success. Just ask Jerry Moore.

 

"The last time I got this much attention, I got fired at Texas Tech," coach Jerry Moore said in the midst of six more hours of interviews Monday.
 
I don't think I ever worked any harder in my life than I did those five years at Tech. I put my family second. I made a lot of mistakes." Moore learned a different approach helping Ken Hatfield at Arkansas.
 
At Appalachian State, he boots assistants from the office following practice. Coaches' families come to the office for dinner on Sunday nights, a break from work.
 
It's about family and perspective now.
 
(Dallas Morning News September 4, 2007 by Chuck Carlton)

 

Coach Moore was my husband, Randy Allen's receivers coach at SMU in the late 60's- early 70's.