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Lose/Leave Conflict in a Congregation
May 17, 2010
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Leaving, Staying, and Becoming Well Following a Lose/Leave Conflict in a Congregation
By George Bullard at GBullard@TheColumbiaPartnership.org
George Bullard Jan 2010

A major conflict situation has just occurred in your congregation. You are upset. It is impacting your spiritual and emotional well being. It is having a negative effect on your family. What do you do? Do you stay? Do you leave?
 
The most crucial time for congregations is the six to 18 months following a lose/leave incident. This is an incident when some people lose and some people leave. It often involves voting, or the legislative process of the congregation or its board. It is known as an intensity five conflict situation in my book Every Congregation Needs a Little Conflict. Seven intensities of conflict exist. As bad as it is, it could be worse; although on some days that is hard to believe.
 
This article deals with a specific type of lose/leave incident. This is when a senior or solo pastor is terminated by direct or indirect action. [Click HERE to read more and download the article.]
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  • Wednesday, May 19th: Weekly telephone dialogue at 2:00 p.m. Eastern Time
  • This Week: George Bullard
  • Subject: Leaving, Staying, and Becoming Well Following a Lose/Leave Conflict in a Congregation
  • Call Number: 605.715.4900 then access code 954492#.
  • Digital Recordings: Hear digital recording of previous dialogues by clicking HERE.
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Hopeful Imagination Tag LineRegistration and Information at
www.EssentialsConference.info

When: June 25-26, 2010
Where: CBF General Assembly; Westin Hotel, Charlotte, NC
 
Being a leader in church can be difficult. The Essentials Conference offers practical sessions that are sure to help. 
 
For more details and registration information, click
HERE.
Travel Free Learning Resource
Bill McConnell 01How to Never Experience Unhealthy Conflict Again

The typical congregation is unwilling or unable to proactively and positively address conflict before it becomes unhealthy and does significant damage.

As an extension of the work he introduced in his book, Every Congregation Needs a Little Conflict, George Bullard has written a series of articles about 22 ways for congregations to never experience unhealthy conflict again.
  
This material comes in a Personal Edition, Presentation EditionPremium Edition, and Coaching Edition.
 
To learn more and to purchase, click HERE.
TCP Leadership Series Book of the Week
Goatley Book on SomervilleDavid Emmanuel Goatley, executive secretary-treasurer for the Lott Carey Baptist Foreign Mission Convention, a premier international Christian missions agency of African American Baptist heritage, has authored a book on the his predecessor at Lott Carey. David is also president of the North American Baptist Fellowship of the Baptist World Alliance

A Divine Assingment: The Missiology of Wendell Clay Somerville was published this month through Lucas Park Books with Chalice Press. The book is part of the TCP Leadership Series books with The Columbia Partnership.
 
         
 

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TCP Speakers Bureau
Norman Jameson is a Ministry Partner with The Columbia Partnership. He is also the editor of the Biblical Recorder newspaper for the Baptist State Convention of North Carolina. He has extensive writing, editing, communication, marketing, and capital campaigns experience.
George Bullard Jan 2010
Topics Norman can address through plenary and seminar presentations include the following:  
  • Capital Campaigns: Raising Faith While Raise Funds
  • Stewardship Development: Generosity in the Church
You may contact Norman at NJameson@TheColumbiaPartnership.org.
 
To view full Speakers Bureau list click HERE.
TCP Appearance Schedule
Ruben Swint: Capital Campaign Follow-Up Consultation, First Baptist Church, Conway, SC, May 17th.

George Bullard: Attending presentation on relationship networking research report for congregations, Decatur, GA, May 18th and 19th.

Eddie Hammett: Leading Reaching, Keeping event at First Baptist Church, Springfield, VA, May 21st - 23rd.

Bob Dale and Ken Kessler: Leading workshops at Church Leadership event, Raleigh, NC, May 22nd.

View current list of upcoming appearances and events HERE.