Be a good friend to someone - I deliberately don't say 'have a good friend'. Be the kind of friend that will be called in the middle of the night to be told 'my mum is dying' because the person at the other end of the line knows they don't need to tell you 'I am scared and I need a friend by my side'. You will know, and you will go. Maya Angelou says, people may forget what you said, or what you did. They will never forget how you made them feel People are attracted to those who make them feel good, or valued, or honoured.

Be present - You cannot attend a wedding, or a funeral, a christening or any get together through facebook, sms, or by phone... Be there for events that matter to people in your life. People don't forget you were there when it counted. Be present in the moment as well. Don't juggle phone and other things when you are talking to people. Focus on the them for that moment.

Be honest-Be the kind of person who can tell your compatriots", I don't agree". Or you are wrong. Or, that colour doesn't highlight your good points. "or, have you considered this perspective". People are drawn to people who can make them better. Read more