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Issue 30

26 May  2011

Greetings! 

 

What happened the last time you spent some time thinking about who exactly you are?  And how is you you are reflected in your leadership?  

 

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Jaki

 

Jaki, Lifecoach. Speaker. Consultant.

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IN THIS ISSUE
WHO IS 'YOU'?
WHICH LEADER ARE YOU?
CALENDAR OF EVENTS
Coaching Moment
  
Leadership Brand
Leadership Brand
       

WHO IS 'YOU'?

 

IDEA TO ACTION QUOTE It is wisdom to know others. It is enlightenment to know one's self - Lao-Tzu    

know yourselfHow well can you set goals, go about life, and have relationships if you don't know who you are or what you want?  The more you find out about yourself and express your authentic self, the more meaning, joy and fulfilment you will have in your life. Being more of who you are leads you to automatically do and have more

When you know yourself you create and experience events in your life rather than merely reacting to them.  You make choices that bring out the best in you, rather than go along to please others. You have a vision, and you work towards realising your vision, rather than stumble from one day to another.  When you know yourself you know where you are headed; you set goals, you are motivated and are in a strong position to determine the best course of action.

How well or how easily can you to answer these questions about yourself?

·         What unique gifts, talents and skills do you bring to this world?

·         How much of your life is inspired by your soul?

·         What underlying semi-conscious motives run your life?

·         What gives you meaning and purpose?

To get to know yourself better, here are a few things to guide you:

1.        Observe and be aware of your moods, reactions and responses to what is happening around you.

2.        Become aware of how these moods and emotions affect your state of mind

3.        Examine how you interact with others

4.        Observe how your environment affects you.

There are many interesting personality tests and evaluations for self-discovery that can help you become more in tune to yourself. Some  have been  intensely researched and are used by organisations to determine career paths of employees at different levels. Some of them are fun and less robust scientifically,  yet can point out things about yourself that you do not usually think about, especially when looked at in conjunction with information you already have from other sources, like what your friends and family say about you.

Here is a fun personality quiz taken from http://personalityquiz.net/foodtests/fruit.htm . Pick your favourite fruit from the following list.

Orange

Apple

Banana

Coconut

Pineapple

Pawpaw

Mango

Cherry

Black grape

Peach

Custard apple

Pear

Nowclick hereto see what that means, and how closely it describes you.  You can take the analysis further to see what blind spots you should be aware of given the person you are.  For example, if you are frank and outspoken, think about your sensitive partner or colleague.  What do they see in you and what does that do for your relationship?

 I find the real value of personality quizzes or tests in such additional introspection.

WHICH LEADER ARE YOU?

IDEA TO ACTION QUOTEIf your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader-John Quincy Adams

 

Entrepreneur attitudeIn 1939, a group of researchers led by psychologist Kurt Lewin set out to identify different styles of leadership. While further research has identified more specific types of leadership, this early study was very influential and established three major leadership styles. Children were assigned leaders with 3 different styles to lead them in an arts and crafts project. Researchers then observed the behavior of children in response to the different styles of leadership.

Authoritarian Leadership (Autocratic): Authoritarian leaders, also known as autocratic leaders, provide clear expectations for what needs to be done, when it should be done, and how it should be done. There is also a clear division between the leader and the followers. Authoritarian leaders make decisions independently with little or no input from the rest of the group.

While it helps for staff to know exactly where they stand, this kind of leadership could mean having a  'when the cat's away the mice will play' attitude among your employees.  Your colleagues and staff will obey you out of fear.  In this kind of regime you can be sure that your business will not run well in your absence as people will be too busy enjoying their freedom from your autocracy. Very likely, even when you are around, they will be using your resources for their own gain.  After all, there must be something in it for them to take your bossiness. Authoritarian leadership can be relevant in situations where there is little time for group decision-making or where the leader is the most knowledgeable member of the group.

Participative Leadership (Democratic): Participative leadership, also known as democratic leadership, is generally considered the most effective leadership style. Democratic leaders offer guidance to group members, but they also participate in the group and allow input from other group members. Children in this group were less productive than the members of the authoritarian group, but their contributions were of a much higher quality. It's a question of quality vs. quantity.

Participative leaders encourage group members to be involved, but retain the final say over the decision-making process. Group members feel engaged in the process and are more motivated and creative. Be prepared to make the time to get these quality inputs, which might look like decisons are not taken quickly.  With this type  of leadership your team will be focussed on the goal, and appreciate each one's contribution to that vision. When you are absent, things still run effectively as everyone has a stake in the outcome.

Delegative (Laissez-Faire) Leadership: Researchers found that children under delegative leadership, also known as laissez-faire leadership, were the least productive of all three groups. The children in this group also made more demands on the leader, showed little cooperation and were unable to work independently.

Delegative leaders offer little or no guidance to group members and leave decision-making up to group members. While this style can be effective in situations where group members are highly qualified in an area of expertise, it often leads to poorly defined roles and a lack of motivation. This approach must be balanced with highly skilled, knowledgeable staff who can make good independent decisions, within clear boundaries.  If you leave too much room for your staff to do whatever they want you will soon be an outsider to your own business.

People practice some elements of all three styles at one time or other, while having a predominant leadership style. Which one are you, and how is it impacting your business?

 

 

 

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