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Issue 23

7 April  2011

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Hi,

Who's responsibility is it? See how  accepting responsibility for your life can be  liberating. Also see how you can delegate effectively.

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Jaki
  
Jaki
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IN THIS ISSUE
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY
DELEGATE EFFECTIVELY
CALENDAR OF EVENTS
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY

 

IDEA TO ACTION QUOTE: When you blame others you give up your power to change - unknown.  
Truth

As you point your finger of blame towards someone else, 3 fingers are pointing at you. The measure of responsibility you bear is greater than the other person's. 

When you say 'I made a mistake' you are also saying 'I am open to learning'; I am ready to start over'; I accept myself and I am not perfect'. Pointing a finger at others suggests otherwise: I will not improve myself; I will not look atthings differently; I am not perfect but I will act like I am and no one else is.

The positive living blog suggests these some reasons for taking personal responsibility:

1. There is always a price to pay.

Not taking responsibility can be comfortable. But there is always a price to pay. When you don't take responsibility for your life you give away your personal power.

2. It builds your self-esteem.

Blaming someone else for the bad things that happen creates a victim mentality, and this can lead to low self esteem. It damages many vital elements of your life. Like relationships, ambitions and achievements.

3. It gives yourself the permission to live the life you want.

As you do the right thing consistently, you feel better about yourself. You gain control of what happens, and so it begins to feel like you deserve more in life. This is critically important, because it's most often you that are standing in your own way and in the way of your success.

4. It makes taking action natural.

It is often said that your thoughts become your actions. Without taking responsibility for your life those thoughts  stay on your mental stage and aren't translated into action. Taking responsibility for your life is that extra ingredient that makes taking action more of a natural thing.

5. It helps you be your best self.

According to Brian Tracy "Peak performance begins with your taking complete responsibility for your life and everything that happens to you."

 

DELEGATE EFFECTIVELY

IDEA TO ACTION QUOTEYou can do whatever you want in life. And you must live with the consequences - unknown.

 

Delegting

Delegation is assigning authority to another person to carry out specific job-related activities. It is a shift of decision-making authority from a higher organisational level to a lower one. It allows a subordinate to make decisions.

For delegated tasks to be conducted effectively, the subordinate should have effective coaching to help her develop the skills needed to get the job done. Effective delegation also requires good communication and a high degree of trust between the delegator and the delegatee. You cannot delegate effectively if you keep knowledge and information to yourself.

Delegation is not simply y assigning work to an individual within the duties and responsibilities of his position. Delegation involves the manager giving someone the responsibility and authority to do something that is normally part of the manager's job.

It is also not "dumping." Managers should take special care to make sure that the employee does not think he is trying to "dump" unpleasant assignments on him. If you dump tasks that you do not like employees feel put upon and resentful.  They are unlikely to do the job well.

When you delegate you still have the ultimate accountability for the assignment. That's why it is important for you to establish appropriate controls and checkpoints to monitor progress. Besides, you should give delegatees the appropriate authority to act along with clear expectations including any boundaries or criteria. You should, however, avoid prescribing HOW the assignment should be completed.

In fact, delegation involves three important concepts and practices: responsibility, authority, and accountability. When you delegate, you share responsibility and authority with others and you hold them accountable for their performance. The ultimate accountability, however, still lies with you, on the understanding that:

- Responsibility means setting clear expectations. It also means that you should avoid prescribing the employee HOW the assignment should be completed.

- Authority refers to the appropriate power given to the individual or group including the right to act and make decisions. It is very important to communicate boundaries and criteria such as budgetary considerations.

- Accountability refers to the fact that the relevant individual must 'answer' for his/her/their actions and decisions along with the rewards or penalties that accompany those actions or decisions.

 

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