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Issue 27 - Apr 2011

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Month of the Military Child
Flat Daddy® documentary film
I'm Already Home.Again as an eBook
Connection ideas for your children
 
I'm Already Home... Again
I'm Already Home... Again
 
The Road Home
The Road Home
 
Pocket Flip Tips
Pocket Flip Tips
 
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Elaine Dumler
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Item_1Month of the Military Child

Dear Newsletter Buddies,

 

Ok, we're late again with this issue! You must be getting used to that by now. We're still focusing on the connection with our children this issue because we should be connecting with them every month, not just during specially allocated months. On down you'll find at least 6 awesome ways that families have helped children get through the deployment time apart. Find a couple that will work for your family and have fun. As always, feel free to email me and tell me what works for your family and we can share it with others too.

 

We have lots to tell you about this month including a brand new documentary film coming out all about Flat Daddy® and how you can go to the premier, the exciting news that "I'm Already Home...Again" is being released in eBook format within weeks and the promotional pricing that will accompany it on BOTH the print and electronic copies. So read on... 

Item_1Flat Daddy® Documentary is making the rounds

Flat DaddyTwo filmmakers, Betsy Nagler and Nara Garber have created a wonderful documentary about the advent of Flat Daddy®, how it got its start, and the impact it has on families. They came here for two days to interview me and use some of the information they gleaned to set the foundation for the families they worked with. Finally, after working diligently on it, they told me that it had been accepted for screening at the GI Film Festival in Washington D.C. on May 13th! This is the initial screening preceding the official premier of the film. If you and/or your friends and family are in the D.C., Virginia, Maryland area or are stationed at bases/posts in that area you are invited... and encouraged... to attend. In the months to come the film will be making the rounds to other geographic areas for screenings and we'll keep you posted of the schedule. Here is the information about the film and it's screening in D.C.:


As military families across the United States continue to endure the repeated deployment of loved ones to Afghanistan and Iraq, many have attempted to fill the void with "Flat Daddies" and "Heroes on a Stick," life-sized cardboard cutouts of their husbands, wives, parents and children serving overseas. Using these two-dimensional surrogates as a connecting thread, Flat Daddy® tells the stories of four such families, from suburban Minnesota, the Bronx, Las Vegas and rural Maine.  Each presents a unique perspective on the effects of deployment on those left behind; together, they weave a nuanced narrative of the challenges military families face in post-9/11 America, and raise important questions about the sustainability of the country's all-volunteer military as combat operations enter their tenth year.


Time, Date and Location: Friday, May 13, 3:30 - 5:10pm, U.S. Navy Memorial, 701 Pennsylvania Avenue, NW, Washington, DC 
Tickets: $12


Our listing at the GI Film Festival website, where there's a short trailer: http://gifilmfestival.com/schedule11/attachment/film-2011-flat-daddy-movie

Item_2Release of I'm Already Home...Again as an eBook

Many people have asked over the past months when my books will be available in eBook format for downloading in Kindles and iPads. That is happening as we speak! The first book, "I'm Already Home...Again" is completed and waiting set up in accounts on all the eBook platforms. It should be ready for you to purchase and download within two weeks. I'll send out another email pertaining to just that release date. It will be offered at a special introductory price in all formats. Another promotion we're running to coincide with the eBook release is that for 2 weeks in May only, we will be offering BOTH I'm Already Home...Again and The Road Home - in print format only - at a full 50% discount for all quantities over 20 books! This has never been offered before and applies only to the copies we have on hand right now. After we reserve our orders for Army Wife Network's Field Exercises programs for this year, we'll have only 696 copies of I'm Already Home...Again and 948 copies of The Road Home available for this special promotion. This is the perfect time to consider your unit upcoming deployment and reintegration schedules and preorder for those events because these quantities won't go far. Are you in charge of an FRG? These books make great resources. Feel free to pass along this information to others you know who would benefit from the special pricing on these resources. In an upcoming email we'll tell you those purchase dates, and you'll need to call us here toll free at 866-780-0460 to secure this price.

Item_2Connection Strategies for Children:

 

1. Assemble a craft box with everything they need to be creative. It can be as simple as a shoe box. Then you'll be ready when the "crafting bug" hits.  Here are some of the things you may want to include: 
 
 

  • Construction paper
  • White copier paper
  • School glue
  • Scissors
  • Felt
  • Glitter
  • Ribbons
  • Paintbrushes
  • Paint
  • Stickers 

2. Get a large, clean empty jar (about a quart size). For every day that your serviceperson will be gone, place one colored gumball or your favorite candy in the jar. Then, beginning the day after he/she leaves, have the child take one from the jar every day. As the level of gumballs goes down, the closer it is to Dad or Mom coming home.

 

3. Make a place mat with your child. Use drawings, photos of you together, stickers or just shapes. Have it laminated and you can have dinner "together" at every meal.

 

4. Before you leave, video yourself reading your child's favorite story. Do one for each child. When you are gone, playing the video will be a special time your child has with you.

 

5. Give each child a different color or type of envelope that only they can use to send a letter to their parent. It's fun and it makes it easier for the deployed parent to locate a specific letter they want to re-read.

 

6. Make a picture button-like the kind that people wear to athletic events, conventions. Most award shops and elementary schools have the equipment available. Get a picture of the soldier and put a note under the picture that says, "I'm proud of my_______(Dad or Mom)." Your child can wear it to school.

 

7. Work through your FRG and develop a "Teen Social Gathering" once a week or month strictly for teens to discuss, vent and socialize with others going through the same thing.

 

8. Ask your teenager to remember the events that are special between him/her and the deployed parent. On Valentine's Day, a woman from the unit had a recruiter in the area go in uniform to her teenage daughter's school and deliver roses from her dad since it is their special holiday.

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