Relationship Concepts Newsletter
Help and Hope March 2009
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Happy Spring!
 
New life abounds as I look out my window today. For me, this is the season of hope, renewed energy, creativity and beauty. Let's use this as the impetus we need to grow anew.
 
Wishing for you a year of many blessings,
Patty
Help and Hope in These Hazardous Times 
 
 
Have you ever reorganized a closet or done some serious spring cleaning? You know how most times it gets messier before it gets better? Well, I think that's what's going on in the world today. And this isn't a small re-org that's happening. Life is a bit crazy, and many of us have been affected. Here are some things to think about, some suggestions for staying grounded as we go through this period of cleansing. This is my offering of "help and hope in these hazardous times."
 
1. Stay focused on the future
Just as winter turns to spring, we can be assured that there are better times ahead. When? Who knows. But what if our willingness, as a collective, to imagine a brighter future now brings it to us all the more quickly? What if?
 
Our thoughts are very powerful. For many of us, more powerful than ever before. I regularly hear reports from clients and friends who say, "I had this thought one day, and the next day it happened!" Energy follows thought. This is a time to be sure yours are positive.
 
Take a look; what does your SOUL want to create? How can you, the unique contribution that you are, make the world a better place? I think there are some lessons to learn from our current state of affairs. That is: what's more important - love or money? Spirit or Ego? Have you sold out on yourself, your dreams in any way? Do you even know what your dreams are? Now is the opportunity for new discoveries, for YOU discoveries.
 
2. Avoid getting pulled into the fear conversation
As hard as this may be to do, it is important to remember that fear is a past-based conversation in which there is no faith, no trust in a higher power, no vision for a new tomorrow. We all go there from time to time, and we have a choice whether to stay there or move on.
 
One way to stay out of fear is to be sure that you don't take things personally, whatever is happening to you. Surround yourself with lots of support and let current events help you to think outside the box of your normal paradigm. This is your chance to create a new normal.
 
Blame is a symptom of fear-based reactions, and it's tempting to point fingers at others as a way of trying to feel better. It doesn't work, it's temporary, and it thwarts the solving of problems. Try instead by asking yourself what solution you can bring and what actions you can take to move forward. Action is a powerful antidote to fear.
 
Another way to stay clear is to minimize your exposure to the media and to negative people. All the bad news just begets bad feelings, which begets more bad events. Limit the amount of news you watch and gossip you listen to, turn instead to happier things.
 
3. Let yourself be vulnerable
One thing that happens when the world around us starts to crumble is a feeling of vulnerability. This is good! It's the healthy side of the fear reaction. Authentic vulnerability creates space for more powerful connections with others, a deeper love and a new found clarity. I wonder sometimes if this is part of the lesson this strange era is providing for us. When you have nothing to lose, everything is possible. Learn to embrace this discomfort and it will be your teacher.
 
4. Have compassion and appreciation
Many people are in survival mode, which makes even the best of us act really, well, not very nice. Many companies are in survival mode, too. I regularly hear about new bosses (and even old, formerly friendly ones) who come in and bully their way around, trying to strong-arm their staff into results. The corporate world can be quite an unpleasant place these days. So, be gentle with yourself and others. Have compassion for what people are going through, appreciate what you have and those you love, and be sure to include yourself in that equation. This doesn't mean you condone inappropriate behavior; it does mean that you distance yourself from it by staying heart-centered.
 
5. Let go of the old to make room for the new
The universe is forcing us to let go. So much of what is happening is beyond our control, and yet there is still a lot we can control. Here are two key steps you can take: Simplify, and nurture your creativity. Simplifying will help you create the space for something new to come in to your life, and being in a creative space will teach you to be more intuitive so that you can be easily guided to what is right and next for you.
 
6. Strengthen the bonds of your community
Our relationships are the most important things we have, and they are ever more important now. Not only is emotional support critical at this point in time, so is what we can do for each other. Example: instead of planting a garden for yourself, coordinate with your neighbors to expand what you can create. Help each other around the house. And barter, if possible, as another way to get what you need without spending money. What other ideas can you come up with, to make your community stronger, more effective, and more supportive? Let your creativity come into play here, too.
 
7. Take one day at a time
In the dead of winter, the plant kingdom goes to sleep. There is seemingly no activity on the surface, but there is some below-the-surface growth and repair. We can learn from our fellow earth inhabitants. Now is time for slowing down and re-grouping. Remember to breathe a lot, rest, repair and grow, and take one day at a time. 
 

Upcoming Classes

  
Solo to Soulmate
Unlock the mystery of finding True Love!

Is your love life cause for celebration? Would you like it to be?  

 
May 2009
: Weekend Course, May 29, 30, 31
Location: In-home, East Cobb (120 and Johnson Ferry Road)
 
NOTE: Can't make this classes?
Consider hosting your own Solo to Soulmate! Call for details.
 
 
Soulmate Journey
A monthly gathering for Solo to Soulmate graduates - to support your dating and relationship journey.
 
Meets: The second Monday of every month, 7:00 to 9:00pm, next session: April 13
Location: 5825 Glenridge Drive, Sandy Springs 
 
 
The Art of Relationship Networking 
Learn to improve your networkings skills through a fun, interactive and educational event. For more information, contact Marie Pijanowski at the Center for Social Connections, [email protected]
 
Date: Thursday, April 2 from 7:00pm to 9:00pm 
 
 
Fast Forward Process - The Road to Gold
For entrepreneurs, small business owners, independent contractors, sales representatives. Ensure your success with a powerful vision and a plan for the coming year. Co-lead with Linda Zuk. 
 
Date: Friday, April 24 from 8:30am to 4:30pm
Location: Sandy Springs area
 
 
The Power of Personal Brand
Want more sales, a better job, a promotion, deeper relationships? Learn to use your personal brand!
 
Date: Monday, April 27 from 7:00pm to 10:00pm
Location: Emory Lifelong Learning Center, Alpharetta Campus

Upcoming Radio Shows
 
I'm on again! Below is information on how and when to listen in. Feel free to call in!! The show will be recorded.
 
Exploring the Conscious Life
Tuesday, March 31 at 9:00pm Eastern
 
Coach-a-nomic Stimulus Package
 
Do you need help staying focused on your dreams? Steering clear of fear? Creating a plan for YOUR new future? I'd like to help. And in support of the efforts being made nationally to stimulate the economy, I am now adding a few of my own.
 
1. The Coach-a-nomic Stimulus Package
Mention the CSP and recieve 25% off standard pricing for your next three visits! Available for new and existing clients. Offer good through June 30, 2009.
 
2. Refer-a-Friend Support Program
Continue to receive the 25% discount every time you send me a new client. Good for one session per referral. AND - your friend recieves the discount on their first session, too!