• Appearance
• Personality
• Passion
• Essence
• Able to receive
• Lives values
• Integrity
• NEW
• GENEROSITY

As human beings we either grow or we die (and there are a lot of “living dead” if you know what I mean!). People who are open to new things and who continue to grow are more attractive than those who are set in their ways. Likewise, the best relationships keep evolving. So, continuing to explore, develop, and move forward are important means for having a vital life and fulfilling relationships.

Generosity
Someone who is generous is openly giving of themselves, their energy, love, time, and attention. Material possessions can be included in this list, but beware – sometimes these are used in place of, as a substitute for, true generosity. Generosity is a powerfully attractive positive energy. It must be genuine, however – if you give for the sake of getting, that’s manipulation, so be sure to watch your motives.

Some inexpensive but very rich ways to be generous are:

The interesting thing about being truly generous is that “givers get” – in some way, you usually gain by giving something of yourself.

New

• Interview some of your friends and ask – what two things do you see that I could do to improve my life right now?
• Learn a new skill – is there a class you’d love to take but have been putting off?
• Explore yourself - Attend the personal growth workshop that someone recommended and you’ve been avoiding. Just do it! If it worked for them, chances are it will benefit you in some way, too.

Generosity

• Are you giving for the pure enjoyment of giving? Or is there a motive behind your actions? Remember, people know when they’re being manipulated, whether they are fully aware of it or not.
• Are you trying to fix someone by pretending to be generous? There’s a difference between codependency and kindness.
• Are you trying to buy love or earn love by giving yourself away? True generosity requires confidence, compassion and clear boundaries. Sometimes it is hard to see the truth when this particular type of pseudo-generosity is happening because it really does feel like you’re being giving and nice. However, if you really look inside and check it out, you’ll be able to tell the difference. A big clue: if you hear yourself say, “I’m always being taken advantage of,” you probably fall into this category.

These two, combined with the other seven aspect of be APPEALING, will help you find love, keep love and grow love in your life. I want that for you and hope that this series has been helpful in doing just that.

PATHWAYS TO SOULMATE (Success through conscious courtship)
A workshop for men and women who want better relationship results and more positive dating experiences. With coinstructor, Ken Jacobsen. Next class - Three segments: Saturday 6/10, and Mondays 6/19 and 6/26.

Other workshops coming this summer:
How to Become a Relationship Magnet
Learn to use the Laws of Attraction to increase your charisma for attracting love and relationships into your life. Hosted by Atlanta's Upscale Singles on June 15 and hosted by the Marcus Jewish Community Center on June 21.
Communicate to Captivate
Improving your dating results --and experience -- through better connections and conversations. Colead: Ken Jacobsen. Hosted by the Marcus Jewish Community Center on July 31 and by Atlanta's Upscale Singles on August 1.

• 4/20 - Radical Forgiveness, Colin Tipping
• 4/27 - Conversations on Love with Ken Jacobssn
• 5/4 - Relationship Astrology with Toni Thomas and Lorelei Robbins
• 5/11 - Positive Parenting with Fontaine Kohler and Dr. Judy Wolman
• 5/18 - Dollie's Party Book - Top-rated singles events