February 2006 Relationship Concepts
APPEALING - Part #3
Concept
 
Your success in life and love is directly proportionate to your ability to receive. And living according to your values will have you be more APPEALING to others because your life is so APPEALING to you. Here are some ways to practice both.

  • Appearance
  • Personality
  • Passion
  • Essence
  • Able to receive
  • Life aligned with values
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Discussion
 

Able to receive
Receiving was discussed last year, but it is so important that it’s worth mentioning again (see below for link). That’s because in order to have a truly successful relationship, you have to be able to receive.

Opportunities to receive show up in many ways: a helpful gesture, interesting invitations, synchronistic events, a beautiful flower on the side of the road. Start letting little miracles in and you are on the road to greater success – in love and in many other ways.

Sometimes we are not aware that we prevent love -- and success, abundance, and life’s other precious gifts. When we protect ourselves from getting hurt, deflect compliments, reject offers for support, or say no to new experiences because they’re outside our comfort zone, we’re saying “no” to life and blocking the natural flow of prosperity and loving energy.

Start saying “yes” to life! Remember, the universe is abundant. If you’re not willing to receive, someone else is getting what was originally intended for you.

Life aligned with values
Values are activities, beliefs, interests, qualities, preferences and behaviors to which you are naturally drawn. You are your values and your values are you. When life is aligned, your heart sings, positive energy flows, and the world responds by sending more good things your way.

Some signs that you are living according to your values:

  • You love your job
  • Life is relatively conflict-free
  • Your goals and desires are more easily met
  • The different areas of your life flow together
  • Projects, activities, friends and family energize you
  • Coaching
     
    Being able to receive and living according to your values will have you be more APPEALING to others because your life is so APPEALING to you. Here are some ways to practice both.

    Able to receive

  • Practice giving to yourself. You’ll send a signal to the universe that you’re open to receiving.
  • Say yes to help even if you don’t need it.
  • Express gratitude and thanks for everything you can think of. Every day. Feel it in your heart. Often.
  • Respond to a compliment by taking a moment to “absorb” it, then smile and say, “thank you.” Notice if you have a hard time doing that.
  • Say yes to opportunities that seem interesting, even if you don’t know how they’re going to turn out. Being willing to experiment with new things is a great way to receive
  • Life aligned with values

  • Explore what’s most important to you. Email me for a Values assessment if you want help.
  • Bring your attention to areas where you’re already aligned, arrange more of your life to reflect your values.
  • Begin to distance yourself from people, activities, thoughts, projects, and jobs that drain your energy.
  • Parting Thought
     
    Attracting love may take some conscious effort at first, but the more you practice receiving and aligning your life with your values, the more likely it will become second nature. Naturally, as you become more APPEALING, you will have more
  • Fun
  • Success
  • Money
  • Love!
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