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Last month’s newsletter addressed the first two
aspects of what it takes to be APPEALING:
Appearance and Personality. The next two up for
discussion are Passion and Essence.
While there are many factors that cause your special someone to show up in your life (and stay!), the nine aspects of APPEALING are especially influential in creating an energy of attraction that will have you be a true “magnet” for love.
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Passion
When you’re really in love with something, you’re usually in love with just about everything, even life’s imperfections. Passion stirs the soul; it is an intense feeling of affection, devotion or love for someone or something. People who are passionate are full of energy and vitality, and that fullness somehow reaches over and touches us. When we are in their presence, we can feel their powerful enthusiasm. It is inspiring, sometimes intoxicating, and almost always APPEALING. Just in case you were wondering, there is a difference between being authentically passionate and overzealous. And not everyone is excited about the same things. So, not everyone who seems passionate may be APPEALING to you. The thing to remember is this: people are attracted to people with powerful, positive energy. That’s passion. If you want to be attractive, you need to have some. Essence Who are you really? At your core, in your heart of hearts, who are you? Essence is the real you, the truth of you, your Self. This is your soul, your inner beauty, the thing that makes you the most lovable. Life is about discovering our essence and life gets so much richer as our soul-heart grows. Sometimes, however, we are afraid to look at ourselves deeply, so our essence stays buried. Or we keep it a secret because we’re not sure we’ll be accepted or understood. We hide behind an image that keeps us safe, and it stops us from connecting fully with the other people in our lives. Yet the more we let our essence shine through, the more beautiful we become. It’s when we find the courage to delve into who we really are that our essence is given the chance to truly grow. |
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Passion and essence go hand in hand. Passion comes
from knowing what makes you happy, and knowing
what makes you happy comes from knowing your
Self. Focusing on one will definitely help you get to
the other. To keep progressing on these aspects of
your personal APPEAL, here are some things
to consider.
Passion
Essence There are plenty of ways to explore and discover who you really are. This is a life-long journey, and we’re here to help each other along the way. Stay open to your intuition and you’ll be guided to the next right thing. In the meantime, here are some options to consider:
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It’s not possible to have everyone be attracted to
you, and that’s not what we’re trying to achieve
anyway. What is important is whether or not you are
attracted to you. Being APPEALING starts
from within. When you allow Passion and Essence to
flow through, you will experience an abundance of
love, joy and success in your life.
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QUESTIONS? COMMENTS? Feel free to call or email
me about this or any other relationship concept. 770-
730-9896 or patty@pfcoaching.com
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Please join me at the following events:
SOLO TO SOULMATE - Women's Class - a
workshop for single women who are ready to create
the right relationship with the right man. You don't
have to be single any more! Next class - Three
Wednesdays, February 8, 15, and 22.
PATHWAYS TO SOULMATE - This is the coed sequel of Solo to Soulmate that you've been waiting for! A workshop for single men and women who want new tools for ensuring dating success! Inaugural class - Four Wednesdays, March 8, 15, 22, and 29. With co-instructor, John Accardi. Other workshops coming in February and March: Patty in the news: Listen for me on Sandy Springs Radio, 1620 AM! I will be featured in the Monday Morning Business Hour with Barb Giamanco on January 23rd at 10 am. |
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