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November 2007/Vol. 3, #8

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Nancy Passow

in this issue
  • Book of the Month . . . Alexander and the Wonderful, Marvelous, Excellent, Terrific Ninety Days
  • Thank You!
  • Decision Paralysis
  • Perspective

  • Thank You!

    Thank you for a wonderful year.  It had its ups and downs, but you have been there for me, whether you knew it or not.

    Thank you for being a client (or thinking about being a client); thank you for being a supplier; thank you for being a friend; thank you for serving on a board with me; thank you for supporting my causes (ALS, breast cancer, literacy).

    And thank you for just being you!


    Decision Paralysis

    In the November 2007, issue of Fast Company, Dan and Chip Heath (authors of Made to Stick: Why Some Ideas Survive and Others Die) discuss "decision paralysis".  The more choices you're faced with, the harder it is to choose.  Remember when Howard Johnson's was famous for their 28 flavors of ice cream?  And then Baskin-Robbins came along with 31 flavors?  And there would be someone agonizing over all of the choices and finally picking  . . . . vanilla!  Too many choices. 

    The Heaths mention a company working on its mission and goals.  To their surprise, the company was looking at eleven core values.  Their response, ". . . values are supposed to guide behavior, and you can't even remember 11 values, much less use them to make decisions. . . Practically speaking, having 11 values is equivalent to having no values."  When you're presenting new ideas to a client, keep it simple.  The more choices you provide, the harder it's going to be for the client to pick one.


    Perspective

    On the new Alicia Keys CD, "As I Am", (which my son was nice enough to buy for me), there's a lovely song called "Like You'll Never See Me Again", in which she sings about "kiss me like you'll never see me again", "hold me like you'll never see me again".  It's a beautiful, romantic song -- but tinged with sadness, because it's really a good bye kiss.  How much better it would be to say "kiss me like it's the first time" -- with all the anticipation and happiness associated with doing something for the first time.

    So, my words of wisdom are: treat things like it's the first time -- savor and enjoy the moment.


    Book of the Month . . . Alexander and the Wonderful, Marvelous, Excellent, Terrific Ninety Days

    Somewhere along the way you've read Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day by Judith Viorst.  Would you believe that not only is Alexander grown-up, he's married and has three children of his own?  In this delightful book, Judith treats us to "an almost completely honest account of what happened to our family when our youngest son, his wife, their baby, their toddler, and their five-year old came to live with us for three months."  We learn how she coped when chaos competed with her love of order, neatness, and schedules.   With that hectic time of year approaching, read this little book, and be reminded how humor will get you through almost anything.

    Quote of the Month: "What is not started will never get finished."

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