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| Unitarian Universalist Church of Tampa | July 2012 |
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Rev. Dr. Sara Zimmerman, Minister
Roger Grugel, 2011 - 2012 Ministerial Intern
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Come and join Buildings & Grounds Work Day,
July 14th,
9-11 a.m.
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Calendar
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DOMELIGHT Deadline for Submissions: 17th of each month
Length of Articles:
300-350 words
Submit via email to: domelight@uutampa.org
DL Editorial Board:
Harriet Blymiller
Mary Francis
Ron Hammerle
Christine Smith
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Our congregation is affiliated with the Unitarian Universalist Association an organization of more than 1,000 congregations in the U.S. and Canada. Our national headquarters is in Boston, Massachusetts. |
Board of Trustees
Effective on September 1, 2011 Newly elected members are: Pat Benedict Bill Blymiller Lee Bonta
(Be sure to give a big thank you to departing members: Nicole Drelles Russ Kirby Elise Richardson)
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Minister's Musings
Hello Everyone, Conscientious people live longer and are better lovers. Okay, I made up the better lovers part, although I do believe it to be true. The conscientious-people-live-longer part is true, according to one of those PBS doctors who helps the stations fund raise.
"Conscientious" means, according to Merriam-Webster's online dictionary: conscionable, ethical, honest, honorable, just , moral, principled, and scrupulous. Opposite meanings are cutthroat, dishonest, dishonorable, immoral, unconscionable, unethical, unjust, unprincipled, and unscrupulous.
I know a whole lot of Unitarian Universalists who are going to live a long, long time. "Conscientious" describes all of the volunteers who devote many hours a week to UUCT and do so because they are hard- working examples of the UU principles lived to their fullest.
As we go to press in mid-June, the Director of Religious Education Search Committee plans to interview its final candidates. In May and June, the Committee made a thorough search for candidates and scrupulously ranked them. Thank you to Ed Benedict, chair, and members Liz Bleau, Nicole Drelles, Candy Gale, Diana Stevens, and Youth Representative Emily Gainforth.
Many other committees and individuals currently work conscientiously to keep UUCT in excellent condition. As volunteers working mostly behind the scenes, you work without pay and with little fanfare. Did you realize that Tempie Taudte now chairs the Care Committee? She and I have been meeting to define the duties of this Committee and expand its membership prior to my leaving on a six-month sabbatical September 1.
And then there's Tom Krumreich with his own conscientious efforts to make us greener. Tom has successfully pointed the way to making us better recyclers. Jeannette Manning now chairs the Membership Committee and is visibly working to make visitors feel welcome on Sunday mornings following the services. Three pianists have consciously committed to accompanying our singing on Sunday mornings until John Hernandez returns on September 9. Thank you Carol Baker, Dan Miller, and Jae Polcyn.
Our Intern Minister Roger Grugel works without pay for us at UUCT while also working at Tampa General Hospital as a full-time resident Chaplain. Let us not forget the conscientious assistance that he provides on Sunday mornings, and most recently, at a member's wedding. Roger will be with us part-time until the end of August.
I realize there are about 130 more members and others associated with our congregation that I could thank! If I haven't mentioned your name, know that I appreciate you very much and that I think you are an angel. Or at least you will live a very long life! Before I sign off - a word about Katie Culbert, our departing DRE. Katie -- Good luck at Meadville Lombard Theological School where you are going full-time to pursue your Master of Divinity and eventually ordained UU ministry. I know that you are a conscientious, 4.0 student and expect you will do well. Have fun!
Blessings and Good Wishes, Rev. Sara
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 Intern's Column
Submitted by Roger Grugel
On October 2, 2006, near Nickel Mines, Pennsylvania, Charles Carl Roberts took ten children hostage at an Amish school. Roberts took the girls hostage because he was angry at God for the death of his daughter. Roberts told the children: "I'm angry with God and I need to punish some Christian girls to get even with Him." Later that morning Roberts shot all the children, killing 5 of them, before killing himself.
The Nickel Mines shooting is a remarkable story. It's remarkable because the Amish parents of the children did not seek vengeance against the killer. Instead, within a few hours after the shooting the Amish community was reaching out to the killer's wife, expressing their sorrow over her husband's death and saying they forgave him. Forgiveness is often misunderstood. Forgiveness is not about pretending a wrong did not occur; it's not forgetting what happened; it's not about condoning or excusing. Forgiveness means recognizing that what was done was wrong and should not be repeated. And, reconciliation is not part of forgiveness. Reconciliation requires a renewal of trust and in many cases that is impossible.
Forgiveness is about choice: We can be consumed by our anger against the person who hurt us or we can forgive; thereby releasing ourselves from the burden of our anger, and lead happier, healthier lives.
Forgiveness is difficult, and perhaps it's so difficult because we practice it so infrequently. To be able to forgive, forgiveness must be integrated into our everyday life and woven into the fabric of our faith. Perhaps if we practiced by forgiving the "little" grievances we would be able to forgive the "big" grievances when they come into our lives.
The Amish make forgiveness a central tenant of their faith along with love, humility, compassion, submission, and acceptance. As one author has noted, Amish forgiveness is not like a toy you buy and assemble at home. Amish forgiveness is a precious heirloom woven together over the centuries and passed down from generation to generation. May forgiveness be the heirloom that decorates the rooms of our souls, the heirloom that increases in value the longer we have it and the more we use it.
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 UUA Trustee Tidbits by Joan Lund jlund@uua.org or 813-931-9727 Since the monthly Trustee Tidbits must be written before leaving for General Assembly, columns about GA will be written in subsequent months. As always I will write a report for the District following GA. Hopefully you are already aware UUA President Peter Morales has written Congregations and Beyond, a document that talks about UU relevancy in the future; he believes our faith must begin to think of our UUA not just as bricks-and-mortar congregations but perhaps as a way to engage with other religiously grounded UU groups, in other words, to extend beyond congregations as we traditionally know them. It is known that there are about 500,000 people who say they are UUs but are not members of a congregation. Our membership numbers are slowly declining, despite sincere, ambitious growth efforts. We have always addressed the problem of attracting UU membership as solvable by finding ways to get them into congregations. How can we engage with people who share our values, want to be a part of our faith, but are not willing/ready to join a congregation? These folks may include individuals in groups who were once affiliates, UU college students, and persons who find us through groups such as Standing on the Side of Love. We know we have the successful Church of the Larger Fellowship, a no-walls congregation with approximately 3500 members. In our future President Morales envisions a variety of other structures such as small groups that may be "identity" based.
His ideas do not mean the demise of bricks-and-mortar congregations as our base but they do mean the expanded use of social media, relevant and "alive" worship experiences accessible through the internet, and more social justice witness activism and volunteerism opportunities. Rev. Morales is convinced our faith has great potential to involve more people and have a greater impact than we do now.
My suggestion: interested persons in your congregation hold a discussion centered on Congregations and Beyond. The document can be found at uua.org and by linking into its name. I know through group discussion ideas for the future of our Association will be forthcoming. Send your reactions to the paper and suggestions to Rev. Teresa Cooley, Director, Congregational Life (tcooley@uua.org). In addition I always look forward to hearing from Florida District UUs. Happy hot summer one and all!
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Religious Exploration for Children and Youth
Summer RE has begun! Children and youth aged 5 - 16 are invited to attend fun, community building activities from 11:00 - 12:00 each Sunday. Activities include gardening, arts & crafts, playground games, yoga, science experiments, movie days, and MORE! Please note, there are NO STORIES FOR ALL AGES during the summer, therefore children and youth are to be dropped off in the multipurpose building before 11 and picked up immediately after service. For additional information contact RE Committee Chair Sasha Drelles, adrelles@gmail.com.
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SABBATICAL COMMITTEE UPDATE
By Ed Benedict, Member, Sabbatical Committee
As we near the September 1, 2012 start date for Rev. Dr. Sara Zimmerman's sabbatical period, final preparations continue to fall into place. Rev. Dr. Sara has created the position of Worship Associate, a lay person who will handle the tasks our minister normally presides over during Sunday Services such as leading Welcoming Guests, Milestones: Joys and Sorrows, the Offertory, and Meditation. We now have six (6) Worship Associates, Pat Benedict, Lee Bonta, Diane Gainforth, John Powers, and Susan Zak, to perform these Sunday Services functions while our minister is away on her sabbatical. Another key element of Rev. Dr. Zimmerman's ministerial responsibilities which must be covered during the sabbatical period is the function of pastoral care. In this regard, our Care Committee Chair, Tempie Taudte, has met with Rev. Dr. Sara and together they have drafted planning procedures to insure that all care needs of the congregation will be met during our minister's sabbatical period. The Sabbatical Committee has begun planning for the second and final Sabbatical brochure, which will be published in August, 2012. This brochure is intended as the go-to-guide for answers to any remaining questions you might have about the Sabbatical, OR, as a last resort, a person to contact to get answers. If you have any questions now before the brochure is published, please contact a member of the Sabbatical Committee. Its members are: Pat Benedict (Co-Chair), Bill Blymiller (Co-Chair), Ara Rogers (member) and Ed Benedict (member) and may be contacted at sabbatical@uutampa.org.
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 Emerson Forum Needs Volunteers For Sept. 21 Program
By Ron Hammerle
Volunteers are needed to help with the first of two events sponsored by the Emerson Forum, founded as a community-centered program by UUCT.
The Forum is presently seeking a ticket manager, usher coordinator and hospitality chair. Please contact Christine Smith if you are interested (cds208@lehigh.edu).
The first program, "End Of Life Care After Terri Schiavo," will be held from 1 to 4 PM, Friday, September 21st, on the Tampa campus of the Stetson College of Law. Four nationally known speakers will present diverse perspectives on the subject. UUCT members will be notified as soon as the ticket sales process is established.
The second of the two-part series on end-of-life issues is a program entitled "What We Can Learn About Life From The Death Of A Pet." The keynote address will be given by Dr. Dani McVety, a young, local veterinarian who founded a national network of veterinary hospice practices focused on end of life care for pets. The date and venue will be announced shortly.
Timely Topic
While the Forum and its first series have been planned for more than two years, end of life care has drawn new national attention recently.
The current (June 11) issue of TIME magazine has a cover story on "How We Die." A month earlier, The Diane Rehm Show devoted an entire hour to palliative care.
Earlier this spring, national media (including the Tampa Bay Times) began widely reprinting an article by retired University of Southern California physician Ken Murray on "How Doctors Die." And late last year, Pulitzer Price-winning columnist Ellen Goodman announced the formation of The Conversation Project, a national organization devoted to advocating "every citizen's end of life wishes [being] expressed and respected."
The subject makes some people and medical organizations uneasy, but the purpose and focus of the Emerson Forum is "to address issues at the intersection of ethics and public policy." In Florida and other parts of the country, the beginning and end of life fit that criterion.
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Read a Good Book!
By Carol Baker I think some of you may be under the misunderstanding that the "Good Book Column" is only seeking high- brow literature. Not so. We're looking for any book that you enjoyed reading, be it high-brow or low-brow or in-between. As we said last month, also light summer reading, call them "guilty pleasures." So recommend away.
From Felice Richardson: "Cutting for Stone" by Dr. Abrham Verghese, is an engaging epic novel that tells the story of twin brothers and their lives and relationships. It is a truly outstanding novel, deep in historical context, which explores the circumstances of the twin's birth and adoption and their relationships with their parents, each other, and a particular woman as they develop into adulthood. The story begins with their birth and childhood in Ethiopia and ends decades later, in America, when the twins have grown and become physicians. It is a beautifully written coming of age novel, that incorporates love, trust, betrayal, commitment, emigration, faith, life, hope, death, dreams, fears, and just about every big theme you can imagine!
From Ara Rogers: The universe author Neil Gaiman in his novel, "American Gods," imagines that all the gods -- or most every one -- that humans ever conceived of are still alive on the planet. There's a showdown brewing between the new gods -- the ones our current culture worships, and the old -- for supremacy. The novel is set in today's United States of America, but it is a strange and magical world that Shadow, the hero of American Gods, inhabits. I was drawn to this novel after looking over some lists about award-winning science fiction; American Gods has won both of the big sci-fi awards, the Hugo and the Nebula.
This is a big novel about big ideas, and it drew me right in. If it is ever made into a movie, a preview where the voice over intones, "imagine a world ..." would be very apt.
From Jay Kirschheimer: In the spirit of trying to keep up with changing technology, we have different sources from which we get our literature. Jay has this link to offer of an interesting story: This is a story of a working man in Ireland who goes to Spain on Holiday with his friends. Having known my share of Irish immigrants in New York, and the fact the author was reading it, it took me back to my acquaintances in NYC and their speech patterns and attitudes about work, family and friendships.... check out this book and more at http://soundcloud.com/newyorker?utm_campaign=timeline&utm_content=http%3A%2F%2Fsoundcloud.com%2Fnewyorker&utm_medium=facebook&utm_source=soundcloud
Thanks to our contributors for this month. Remember¸ all (or almost all) recommendations are welcome! Don't forget we're still looking for "guilty pleasures" (light summer reading). There must be some out there somewhere.
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 HOPE Happenings
Hillsborough Organization for Progress and Equality
What a Celebration! Seven UUs joined with other HOPE congregations at Allen Temple AME Episcopal Church on June 11. Judy Lane, Christine Smith, Roger Grugel, Marla Frazer, Marta Pearson, Carol Partington and Linda Sayre enjoyed fellowship with other HOPE congregations, as well as music by the New Life Blues Band & The Mighty Men of Valor and delicious foods.
UUCT was again recognized for turning out 75% of our average Sunday service attendance at the April Nehemiah Action! Three congregations turned out 100% or more!
A report is to be presented to City Council on June 28th from the Tampa City Attorney regarding our request for the development of a First Source and Fair Hiring Ordinance.
At the celebration, we kicked off HOPE's 2012 Investment Drive and many people shared why HOPE is important to them and then reported their investment commitments. I shared that HOPE is important to me because it is an opportunity to live out my UU principles in the community and that is why I am investing $500. Our church turned in $2,950 towards our goal of $8,000. If you need an envelope to make your investment, they are available on the red HOPE bulletin board just outside the sanctuary. An anonymous donor will match new investors amounts of $50 or more. Remember that installments can be arranged. Your investments are greatly appreciated!
We want to especially acknowledge Marta Pearson's contribution of multiple sessions of professional de-cluttering and organization of the HOPE office! Her vision and persistence have worked a miracle on the HOPE workspace!
The Investment Drive is also the time when we talk with corporate entities about HOPE. If you are available during the day, please join us for one or more of the corporate visits. Contact Sharon, the HOPE Lead Organizer, to learn of dates as they are scheduled.
Please mark your calendars for these upcoming HOPE events:
* July 17 - 21 - DART Justice Ministry Training Conference - USF
* September 17 - Listening Process Team Training & Preparation.
* November 12 - HOPE Annual Convention
If you have questions about HOPE or our investment drive, please contact Carol Partington, 813-985-9109, Judy Lane, 813- 901-9157, or Sharon Streater at HOPE at 813-221-4673.
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GAME NIGHT
This fun evening of games and fellowship occurs on the 2nd Friday of each month, 6:30 - 9 PM in the UUCT Multi-Purpose Building. Play our games or bring your own. Snacks are provided. Our next Game Night will be held on Friday, July 13th.
Some interest in learning chess (or relearning after many years!) has been expressed. Mexican Train Dominoes is a perennial favorite. We also have Skip-Bo, Block-Us, and Scrabble sets, as well as several packs of cards, plus whatever YOU want to bring. So join us for fun and conversation, or just a great way to ease into a relaxing weekend.
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GREAT COURSES DISCUSSION GROUP
Submitted by Jeannette Manning,
The group continues its first-and-third-Monday schedule, 7 - 9 PM in the UUCT's Multi-Purpose Building. July discussions are tentatively set as follows (we usually cover two "lectures" from The Teaching Company's Great Ideas curriculum each meeting):
July 2nd "The Reappearance of Experimental Science" and "Scholasticism and the Theory of Natural Law"
July 16th "The Renaissance--Was There One?" and "Let Us Burn the Witches to Save Them."
Everyone is welcome at any time; join us when you can. Edible snacks are provided; BYO drinkable.
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STILL MUCH WORK TO BE DONE!
By: Pat Fearns
New Interweave Chair
Last month Reverend Sara addressed her concerns that we, as a congregation, "have much work to do to demonstrate our First Principle beyond our lovely campus"; with regard to the furtherance of rights and respect for all people especially members of the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender (GLBT) communities. It is for that reason that I have answered her request for a new chair of the Interweave Committee.
I have been politically and socially active in the Greater Tampa Bay area since 1992, including involvement with Equality Florida (previously the Human Rights Task Force), Crescendo: The Tampa Bay Womyn's Chorus, Tampa Bay Pride Organization and Tampa AIDS Network, just to name a few. I choose to briefly touch on my history, at this time, because I want to dedicate the rest of this article on the task at hand: doing everything in our power to further GLBT rights, respect and equality.
Much has happened within our Nation within the last several months in regards to equal opportunities and protections for members of the GLBT communities. While President Obama instructed the Justice Department to no longer defend the Constitutionality of the Defense Of Marriage Act (DOMA) in February 2011; he went a step further in May when he announced that "same-sex couples should be able to get married," and that DOMA "tried to federalize what has historically been state law," and is unconstitutional because it "violates the guarantee of equal protection implicit in the Fifth Amendment's Due Process Clause." Later that month we saw the fruits of President Obama's work to provide equal protections for the GLBT community when the first openly GLBT members of our military academies graduated after the repeal of "Don't Ask, Don't Tell."
Locally we are not progressing on the same pace as other states or countries. While same sex marriages are legal in 11 countries, they are only legal in six states: Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New York & Vermont; & the District of Columbia (Washington DC). California's same sex marriage rights were over-turned by Proposition 8, a ballot initiative to change the California constitution, in 2008. District & U.S. Circuit Appeals courts have declared the amendment unconstitutional; with a final appeal to the U.S. Supreme Court anticipated for October. However, in April Tampa Mayor Bob Buckhorn signed a law creating Tampa's first Domestic Partnership registry. And the St. Petersburg City Council followed suit in early June; led by the council's first openly gay representative, Steve Kornell.
There are two great opportunities for members of our community to make history in GLBT rights as we go to press. The Tampa Domestic Partnership Registry will be opened on Monday, June 25th @ 9 AM in downtown Tampa; at the old City Hall. To register you will not need to be a citizen of the City of Tampa; or even Florida for that matter. However, registry rights will only be applicable to facilities within the Tampa city limits. Any two people may register as domestic partners if they are 18 or older, unmarried, not blood relatives, live together and consider each other members of their immediate family. For more information about the City of Tampa's Domestic Partnership Registry visit their website at: http://www.tampagov.net/dept_City_Clerk/programs_and_services/DOMESTIC_PARTNERSHIP_REGISTRY or call: (813) 274-8397.
Additionally, members of each of Tampa Bay's Unitarian Universalist Congregations will be marching in the 10th Annual St. Pete Pride Festival on Saturday June 30th at 9 AM. The parade contingent will be assembling in the parking lots across from Georgie's Alibi (3100 3rd Ave N) starting at 7:30 AM. We hope all members of our congregation will join us in this march; or help line the parade route located in the Grand Central District, Central Avenue between 21st & 28th Streets in St. Petersburg, if you are physically unable to march. The Pride Festival runs from 9 AM-3 PM. For more information about St. Pete Pride visit their website at: http://www.stpetepride.com.
For more information about any of these events or any activities of INTERWEAVE (a GLBT educational organization of the Unitarian Universalist Church of Tampa and affiliated with Interweave Continental) please contact me at 813-653-4378 (H) or PATAFEARNS@YAHOO.COM . I look forward to your feedback and welcome your participation in INTERWEAVE. |
 Circles in the Woods CUUPS
How can there be no full moon in July? Well yes, there is a full moon on July 3rd at 2:51 pm. However, since Circles in the Woods CUUPS Full Moon Celebration is held on the Saturday closest to the full moon it will be held on June 30th - thus no Full Moon Celebration in July!However the Circles in the Woods CUUPS meeting will be held on July 1st following Sunday service in the MPB. Administrative discussion will begin at 12:45 followed by a workshop. Have you ever thought of all the reasons people use candles - for celebrations, romance, spiritual purposes, to light up your dinner table or just for relaxing. Join us for "Candle Magick" - it's simple but powerful. Join us and learn more!More information about Circles in the Woods CUUPS is available at http://www.uutampa.org/index.php/get-connected/cuups. |

LOOKING FOR HIDDEN OR NOT-SO-HIDDEN MUSICAL TALENT
The Worship Planning Committee is looking for persons, both members and friends of our congregation, who would be willing to play piano/instrument or sing during the Sunday worship service. We know our services are often more appealing if there is/are guest musician(s). We also know that we have many talented members and friends who might be willing to share their musical ability, and the congregation would enjoy hearing them. Don't be shy......we want you! Joan Lund, Chair of the WPC, is waiting to hear from you at 931-9727.
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Month of Sundays at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Tampa
Services begin at 11 a.m.
July 1: Rumi and Dante Give Advice on Finding True Love Rev. Dr. Sara Zimmerman Why did these two poets of the middle ages, one Persian, the other Italian, both equate the mystery of finding love with intuiting the Divine? Rev. Zimmerman, UU minister and in a "former life" an undergraduate teacher of comparative literature, will shed some light on the subject.
July 8: The Gift of Forgiveness and Letting Go Afsaneh Noori Afsaneh tells a story about her journey from victimhood to claiming her power through forgiveness. She invites the gathered to explore where in their lives they see themselves as victims and how they too can begin the process of changing that perception and giving themselves the gift of letting go.
July 15: Justice GA and Beyond: Bringing it Home UUCT attendees and delegates at the June 2012 General Assembly in Phoenix will present this service. Joan Lund, Gene Pizzo, Ara Rogers, Jay Hall, Tempie Taudte and David Stickell will report on the most significant issues concerning UUA congregations today.
July 22: Question Box Sermon Rev. Dr. Sara Zimmerman Rev. Zimmerman invites your questions in advance. She will answer one or more of the questions in her sermon and save the others for a Sunday in August. Sample "question box sermon" questions that UU parishioners elsewhere have asked include 1) Where did the name "transcendentalism" come from? 2) Global warming and climate change are real - what have we done about it? What more could we do? 3) What is "evil" to UUs? You are invited to submit similar questions expanded to include what you particularly want to know, or submit totally different questions. Submit your questions to Rev. Z directly at her email address: revsaraz@aol.com. Deadline: July 8.
July 29: Sepsikorospatak! Rev. Dr. Sara Zimmerman and the UUCT Partner Church Committee Come and "meet" the Rev. Erno Tordai, pastor of our partner Unitarian church in Sepsikorospatak, Transylvania, Romania. Our Partner Church Committee together with Rev. Zimmerman made a video of their Skype call with Rev. Tordai on Sunday, June 17. As part of the service on this day, we will show the video. Come and see Rev. Tordai introduce himself and hear him speak about his congregation.
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Conversations With The Board: Members of the Board of Trustees will be present for conversation after church on the 4th Sunday of the month from 12:15 to 12:45 p.m. The purpose of these conversations will be to open communication and share ideas. Come with questions and ideas, but always with an open mind.
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Let the rain kiss you. Let the rain beat upon your head with silver liquid drops. Let the rain sing you a lullaby. ~Langston Hughes
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