Kidnexions Connection
 
October 2010
Greetings!
 
Welcome to the October edition of the Kidnexions Connection.  Our goal is to provide you with useful information about kids and money with an emphasis on making connections between what kids learn and their every day lives.
 
In This Issue
Teaching Kids Money
Teachable Money Moments
October Connection: The Allowance/Chore Debate
Teaching Kids Money 
movieclipKids and Money Quick Tips Video:  Teaching Kids to Set Financial Goals 
People who set goals have a greater chance of achieving what they want.  The good news is, we can begin to teach our kids to set goals from an early age.  Here is my next video on kids and personal financial goals.   Click here to watch the video.
 

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Teachable Money Moment 
 
The best way to teach kids financial literacy is in the context of their everyday lives. Here's this month's teachable money moment:
 
Countless studies show that parents have the greatest impact on what their kids learn about managing money.  It's important, then, that we serve as good role models.  A great way to do this is to talk to your kids about how setting goals can help us get the things we want in life.  And then share some of the financial goals you have set.  In fact, if you want your kids to have a powerful learning experience, create a new goal right alongside your child. 
 
Start by thinking of something you'd like to save for.  Maybe it's for a new lawn mower or a down payment on a car.  Or maybe you're just building up savings.  Whatever it is, describe to your child the reasons for your goal and how you plan on achieving it.  Then, help your child go through the same steps to set up his goal.
 
Together, find a picture that represents each goal and post them, along with a progress chart, someplace easily visible.  Review goal progress throughout the week, offering words of encouragement as your child works towards achieving his goal.  And don't worry about potential setbacks.  Those make great lessons for teaching persistence and staying focused. 
 
Working goals together is a great way to support each other, not to mention that it helps keep each of you accountable.  And even more important, it underscores to your child that you live what you preach. 
 
But the best part...doing things together is much more fun. 
 
October Connection: The Allowance/Chore Debate
 
I'm veering off the beaten path this month.  Instead of my usual Money Connection, I'd like to share with you my research over the past few weeks on motivation theory.  I was specifically interested in motivation theory applied to giving kids an allowance.
 
It's a big topic surrounded by lots of passion.  And that makes it a longer-than-usual piece of writing.  Because of that, I will share the introduction here, and then if you are interested in the results, I have it available below as a pdf.  As always, I welcome your comments.

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Motivation Theory Applied to the Allowance/Chore Debate

So you've got kids and you're beginning to give thought to the idea of giving them an allowance.  If you're like most people, you'll follow one of two typical allowance approaches.1   The first approach ties allowance to the completion of chores.   The second approach emphasizes allowance as practice money to teach basic money management skills.  Both approaches teach important lessons.  But is one approach more effective than the other?  Turns out, the answer is yes.

My goal is to address the two allowance approaches in a way that gets you to think beyond any personal experiences or biases you may have.  To do that, I'm going to use current research in motivation theory to determine the effectiveness of each approach.

Motivation

What motivates us?  That was the question asked by psychologist Edward L. Deci over three decades ago.   Since then, his research and collaborations with Richard M. Ryan, combined with the research of countless others, has given us a framework within which we can come to understand human motivation.  This framework, called Self-Determination Theory, developed out of the study of extrinsic and intrinsic rewards, the two forces, if you will, that move us to do something.   

Extrinsic rewards come from without.  Think stickers, grades, and candy.  The focus is the reward so once the reward is removed, the desired behavior typically disappears.   In addition, because we habituate quickly to extrinsic rewards, the reward needs to increase over time in order to maintain the desired behavior.

Intrinsic rewards come from within.  They are things like the sense of accomplishment or personal challenge that we feel as a result of doing something that we find interesting.  Intrinsically motivated people were found to be persistent, hard working, and happier when they felt they were in control of their own lives.   Self-Determination Theory attributes these findings to meeting three psychological needs:  autonomy, competence, and relatedness.   

·         Autonomy refers to our need for free choice. 

·         Competence is our desire to master things that are interesting to us. 

·         Relatedness refers to our need to be connected to others. 

The conclusion from the research is that intrinsic rewards, rewards derived from the activity itself, are more sustaining and contribute more to our personal well-being than extrinsic rewards, rewards that come from without.  In fact, extrinsic rewards were found to have a substantial undermining effect on intrinsic motivation.

Self-Determination Theory Applied to Allowances

How do two seemingly unrelated topics - Self-Determination Theory (SDT) and kids' allowance - fit together?  Since it makes sense that we would want to promote intrinsic motivation in our kids, we can use SDT to evaluate how well each of the allowance approaches promotes the three psychological needs of autonomy, competence, and relatedness.

Click here to read the entire paper as a pdf.
 
The Money Connection:  Returns next month! 
Kidnexions Blog Vignettes
Why read the vignettes?  Because the vignettes offer examples of doing money in real life settings.  And it's when you can "see" money in action that teaching it takes on a whole new meaning.
 
TEACHING FINANCIAL LITERACY:  The Mystery Charge, A Teachable Moment
As always, we love hearing from you.  Feel free to contact us with comments and suggestions!
 
Wishing you continued success as you teach your children to be saving savvy and money smart.

John and Karyn Hodgens
Kidnexions co-founders
 
The mark of an educated mind is to be able to entertain an idea without necessarily accepting it.  - Aristotle
 
Karyn Hodgens has a BA in Child Development, a Masters of Arts in Education with a Specialization in Elementary Mathematics, and a multiple subjects teaching credential.  Her passion is designing real-world lessons that resonate with kids and their interests.  Karyn is currently teaching kids how to prepare for their financial future in addition to writing about kids and money issues.    Contact Karyn at karyn@kidnexions.com
 
John Hodgens has a BS in Electrical Engineering.  He is currently a software engineer committed to designing software applications that help make teaching science and math concepts easier.   Contact John at john@kidnexions.com
 
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