Kidnexions Connection
 
September 2009
Greetings!
 
Welcome to the September edition of the Kidnexions Connection.  Our goal is to provide you with useful information about kids and money with an emphasis on making connections between what kids learn and their every day lives.
 
In This Issue
Company News
Teachable Moments
September Connection: Teaching Values
KidsSave's Blog Vignettes
Karyn Recommends
Company News 
 
KIDNEXIONS appears in LA Times: 
 
KIDNEXIONS and MetroPCS:  Karyn has been working with MetroPCS to get out the message of teaching kids money management.  Check out her latest clip.
 
applelogoMAC VERSION:   It's done!  We are excited to share KidsSave with the ever-growing Mac population.  Read our press release. 
 
LinkedIn GrpLINKEDIN:  Join our group Conversations about Kids and MoneyWe have a conversation happening right now on strategies we can use with kids to avoid some of the most pressing issues currently facing adults.  We'd LOVE to hear your thoughts!
Teachable Moments 
 
The best way to teach kids financial literacy is in the context of their everyday lives. Here's this month's teachable moment:
 
Teaching kids to be good consumers requires that we have them reflect on their purchases...before they spend the money. And an easy way to do this is to teach them the Three Money Questions:
  • Do I need it?
  • Can I afford it?
  • Does it add value to my life?


Do I need it? This gives kids practice in thinking about the difference between needs and wants. If the item is clearly not a need, and for kids this is the majority of their spending, then at least they have acknowledged that they are pursuing and willing to plunk money down for a want. Which leads us to...


Can I afford it? This one is simple - if you don't have the money, you can't afford it. This is a good opportunity to help your child create a goal and work towards it.


Does it add value to my life? This takes time to learn. Most kids will insist that they can't live without the particular item/experience and will move forward with their purchase. Revisit their decision after several days or weeks by having them reflect on whether or not their choice truly enhanced their life.


The key to the Three Money Questions is to model them with your kids. When considering a purchase, talk through the questions out loud so that your kids can "see" how decision-making happens.

September Connection:  Teaching Values
 
We impart our values to our kids through our words and our actions. Mostly our actions. Take a moment to reflect on the things you value. Integrity, compassion, honesty, persistence, courage, patience... Now think about an action that can be associated with each one. For example, returning the unpaid can of tuna you discovered in the shopping cart ~ honesty. Or volunteering to speak at the board meeting even though the thought of speaking in front of people makes you mildly ill ~ courage. :-)


Now think about the kind of values you want your kids to live by when they grow up. Since kids do most of their learning through observation (they're quite good at it!), it's important to think about the messages your behavior is sending. Are you living the values that you want to help define your kids as adults?


The Money Connection: Our values are also imparted to our kids through the way we handle our money. We teach generosity when we share with those less fortunate than us. We teach responsibility and delayed gratification when we put a little of our money aside for the future. And when we splurge every once in a while on a fancy dinner out, we teach that it's good to enjoy, as well.


Conversely, shopping impulsively teaches kids that the value of a dollar is not important. Not to mention the messages sent about lack of self-discipline. And holding too tightly onto money teaches kids that experiencing life is not important.


So take time every now and then to reflect on the choices you make on a daily basis. Because how you live life is how you live your values.
 KidsSave's Blog Vignettes
 
Karyn Recommends
 
Patti Handy, Money Coach for Teens, has written a wonderful book, How to Ditch Your Allowance and be Richer Than Your Parents. 9 Wealth Building Tools to make a Teen Rich. This book covers essential money skills, in a fun, entertaining, easy to understand format. Topics covered includes credit cards/debit cards, balancing a checkbook, saving strategies, compounding interest, credit scores, spending trackers, mindset of millionaires, giving back and much more. 


She also has a comprehensive 'Money School' in DVD format.The Prosperous Teen comes in 2 volumes, totaling 10 hours of money education. This fun and entertaining DVD set is broken down into 15 minutes sections, so the pace is easy and comfortable. Topics covered include everything in her book, plus understanding the financial markets, entrepreneurship, buying your first home, credit scores at length and so much more. To learn more visit, http://www.teenscashcoach.com/products.


Be sure to visit her website http://www.teenscashcoach.com and sign up for her F*REE weekly video series, The Money Minute for Teens.
As always, we love hearing from you.  Feel free to contact us with comments and suggestions!
 
Wishing you continued success as you teach your children to be saving savvy and money smart.

John and Karyn Hodgens
Kidnexions co-founders
 
 
Karyn Hodgens has a BA in Child Development, a Masters of Arts in Education with a Specialization in Elementary Mathematics, and a multiple subjects teaching credential.  Her passion is designing real-world lessons that resonate with kids and their interests.  Karyn is currently teaching kids how to prepare for their financial future in addition to writing about kids and money issues.    Contact Karyn at karyn@kidnexions.com
 
John Hodgens has a BS in Electrical Engineering.  He is currently a software engineer committed to designing software applications that help make teaching science and math concepts easier.   Contact John at john@kidnexions.com
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