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The Parade

This past weekend we celebrated River City Days in Red Wing and like all small, mid-western summer celebrations, we had a parade. We had politicians shaking hands, beautiful girls in tiaras, riding on shiny floats, waving their white gloved hands and high stepping, baton twirlers throwing sparkling wands into the sunshine. There were horses and dressed-up dogs, fire trucks and classic cars and overgrown boys called Masons in go-carts. There were clowns and kids and giant ducks. Almost every unit passed out treats of some kind, most throwing candy to the curbs for the children to grab and save in the bags they brought along for just that purpose. The weather was perfect and the parade was great. I enjoyed sitting next to a five year old friend and making sure she got her share of treats.
When the parade was over, we cleaned up the trash around where we had been sitting and strolled back to our car. After every parade I attend I can't help but remember a story a friend of mine shared with my family a few years ago. Jim is African American, about 62 years old and from small town Alabama. He has the most beautiful, spellbinding speaking voice and is a gifted story teller. However this story he tells very quietly with downcast eyes. This is Jim's story.
" I remember being a little boy and attending the 4th of July Parade. I knew that I wouldn't be able to see much of it because I had to stand in the back with all of the other "people of color" but I was excited anyway. Because I was little, I could sneak around and threw the legs of the adults in front of me and see the parade that way. I watched the candy being thrown, and the white children scrambling for it and picking it up and boy, did I want a piece. Then a miracle happened. A piece of candy skittered and bounced across the pavement and came to a stop right at my feet. I couldn't believe it, candy for me! I watched for a moment and no one else seemed to have seen it, no other children were reaching to pick it up. I couldn't believe my luck. I bent over and reached out my hand and just as it closed over the piece of candy a boot ground my hand into the pavement. A booming voice said "That ain't for you boy!" I released the candy and watched the boot crush it into dust in the pavement."
Today, in 2012, we all gasp at the end of the story and shake our heads, so relieved to know that this kind of prejudice has been vanquished and little children are no longer victims of a cruel and hurtful society. But has it been? Sure, it is no longer acceptable to treat some one differently based on race, that much is true, but little children are still suffering.
The Annie E. Casey Foundations reports the following:
- In Goodhue County 11.5% of our children live in poverty.
- In Wabasha County 10.8% of our children live in poverty.
- In Pierce County, Wisconsin the number of children living in poverty climbs to 19%.
For many of these children the parade is marching by, and unless we step in to stop it, that parade will continue to march by for generations to come.
In Red Wing the United Way is partnering with other local leaders to stop the process of leaving kids in the dust. We are excited about our initial work and will be filling you all in as it progresses. Until then,
Stop and think about those little ones and lend a hand when you can.
Thank You
Maureen Nelson
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Some of us are like a shovel brigade that follow a parade down Main Street cleaning up.
- Alan Zlatar
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Reuse Your Old Computers
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Your old computers don't belong in a storage closet, landfill or recycling center. They belong in the community, creating new opportunities to local low-income families and senior citizens.
PCs for People has refurbished over 14,000 computers since 1998. They refurbish computers for eleigible low income recipients so they can enjoy the personal, economic and educational benefits of personal computer ownership.
PC's for People will be coming to Red Wing . Working with United Way, sponsored by a grant from HBCI , they will be at United Lutheran Church September 5th, 6th and 7th. The staff at Hope Coalition is busy identifying families who will receive computers but we need your help as well.
We are currently looking for computers in working condition, (drives will be wiped clean and a new version of Windows installed) with a Pentium 4 or newer processor, - generally this means less than eight years old.
Accessories needed include keyboards, mice, power cords and monitors. Older CRT screens are accepted but must be in working condition .
uw-gwp.org or donate@pcsforpeople.org |
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Elder Abuse in America
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Elder abuse is a serious problem. Reports of abuse have increased 150% over the last decade. Older adults may become vulnerable due to isolation, physical or mental disabilities and dependence on others for assistance. This vulnerability makes them easy
targets for physical, emotional and sexual abuse, neglect, financial exploitation and fraud. Abuse always occurs when there are no witnesses.
Older seniors and those very dependent on others are the most frequent victims. Most victims of abuse are Caucasian (75%) and female (63%). Some victims live alone (35%) and some with family (27%). Elderly victims are often reluctant to report abuse because they feel ashamed, embarrassed, humiliated, afraid, and may even defend the abuser. That is because perpetrators of abuse are generally family members (28%), caregivers (17%), or friends and neighbors (7%). Victims frequently rely on the abuser for some type of care giving services at home and are afraid if the abuse is reported they will be placed in a nursing home. Some victims are actually able to convince themselves that they deserve the abuse or exploitation. Authorities estimate that the number of abuse cases that are reported represents only 25% of the cases that actually occur.
The most prevalent type of abuse referred to law enforcement is financial exploitation and fraud. The most common characteristics of victims of fraud and exploitation are that they are gregarious (need interaction), compulsive (cannot pass up a good deal), have a sense of machismo (believe they cannot be fooled), vulnerable (have experienced a recent trauma) and naïve (they want to believe everything they have been told is true). There is a compelling need to make all seniors aware of how to protect themselves from violence, abuse and exploitation. Family, friends, volunteers, caregivers and employees of financial institutions must learn to recognize the signs of elder abuse or exploitation,
the questions to ask the victim to verify that abuse has occurred, and where to go for help from law enforcement and Adult Protective Services.
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Thank You
to all of you who have donated food over the summer. You make our lives easier and children's lives so much better.
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Associated Bank
Used Book Sale to Support
Packing for the Weekend
August 20-31
Associated Bank Lobby
Hard Cover Books $2
Paperback Books $1
To donate books or for more information contact
Sue Ellen
651-385-1678
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You are invited to a Party! Bring the Whole Family!
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Friday, August 24th
5 pm to Midnight
At the Emery Farm
(Old Happ-E- Hills Farm)
W7698 210th Ave
Hager City, WI
Activities include:
Hog Roast
Petting Zoo
Happ-E- Hill Train Rides
Wagon Rides
Family Games
Silent Auction
Live Music provided by
Trigger Happy
Admission
Free Will Donation
all proceeds go to
The United Mitochondrial Disease Foundation
For more information call
651-764-4724
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DEADLINE NEARS
Blandin Leadership Program
The deadline is approaching to get your application in. August 27th is the last day to apply for this exciting opportunity! The leadership retreat is scheduled for November 5-9, 2012 at Ruttger's Sugar Lake Lodge in Grand Rapids, MN and the follow up workshops will be held on February 12-13, 2013 and May 7, 2013. If you are interested in applying for the Blandin Community Leadership program, contact the United Way office or visit the Blandin website |
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United Way Chili Cook Off
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Mark your calendars for Thursday
September 27th
Our Annual Chili Cook Off will be held at Treasure Island Casino. Lots of new fun planned with judging spots being auctioned of, more prizes then ever before and more!
Watch for more details each week right here or
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Tai Chi At Levee Park
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Saturday, Aug. 18 12-1:00pm FREE and open to the public. Call the YMCA to register 388-4724
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