Readers tell me they are so caught up in
daily details
that they don't have time to step back and
figure out
where they are. They feel scattered,
overwhelmed,
and tired of running in high gear. Here is a
quick
method for reconsidering WHAT goes on your To-Do
list, followed by 3 tips for getting things
OFF the list.
TO QUICKLY REGROUP:
Make a list of everything that is BOTHERING
you. Big things and little things. Don't
think much,
just write quickly.
Spend a little time with this mix of worries,
plans,
problems, and objectives. What is this list
really
telling you?
- Do you see things that are getting in the
way of
doing what you think you are supposed to be
doing?
- Do you see things that are closely
related, or
problems that are the root cause of other
problems?
- Do you see things that really aren't your
concern?
- Do you see things that worry you but that
you
either can't fix or don't really need to
fix?
With a little practice, the insights from
this mix of
items will help you quickly rethink the
content of your
To-Do list.
Now lets look at some tips to help you finish
things
and get them OFF your To-Do list:
1. I is for Information or Ideas
Needed
Some of the tasks on your list probably
deserve to be
marked with a big I:
Information or
Ideas Needed. These are tasks for
which you
do not have enough information or expertise to
handle efficiently and effectively.
These items are often at the core of your
feelings of
being overwhelmed. Even while working on
something
completely different, these are likely to be
gnawing
at the back of your mind. These tasks are
also the
ones that often hang out on your To-Do list the
longest.
The I tells you that you need to find
some
help:
- clarity of purpose,
- better instruction,
- a specific method or plan of attack,
- advice,
- someone to bounce ideas around with,
- or more extensive help.
Until you get the information you need, you
will be
playing at the edges of these tasks rather than
making real progress. It is much easier to
identify
the help you need than to solve the problem
without
help. And often, just trying to identify the
help you
need makes the problem clearer and points you
to a
solution.
2. B is for Big Block of Time
Needed
Some tasks require time to concentrate without
interruption. Mark these with a big
B. In this
day and age of multi-tasking, we are often
interrupt-
driven. Worse, we are so accustomed to being
interrupted that we constantly interrupt
ourselves.
To tackle the B problems:
- choose a time and place with fewer
demands,
- give yourself a specific time period to
work,
- turn off the email alert,
- forward the phone,
- hang out a do-not-disturb sign, and
- don't interrupt yourself until the time
period
expires or the task is complete.
3. :( is for the Tasks you Hate!
Tackling the hated tasks will be easier if you:
- tell yourself that prolonging the agony
only makes
the pain worse, and
- set a deadline and reward yourself once the
task is complete
- or, an alternative is to shame yourself into
action: "Any self-respecting ____ would be
embarrassed to admit this task is still
undone a half
hour from now!"
NOW MAKE A TO-DO PLAN
Rank tasks by importance, something you've
undoubtedly done before. Be sure your sense
of importance ties back to delighting customers,
keeping the business strong, or supporting
employees
doing one of the former.
BUT you won't necessarily DO the
tasks in order of importance. The items marked
I, B, and :( are not just
going to suddenly happen when they rise to
the top
of your priority list. Use the I's to
get the
help you need, the B's to plan
suitable blocks
of time, and the :( to set deadlines and
rewards.