Clear communication is the corner stone for the longevity of
any healthy relationship, including the relationship we have with our dogs.
While it can be argued that English is the common language
used throughout the world among humans, such is not the case with our dogs. Not
only does your dog not speak English, it does not speak any other verbal
language either. Therefore, when we bring a new member into our family, the responsibility
is on our shoulders to lay the foundation for healthy communication.
WHAT DID YOU SAY?
The purpose of this short article is to create a paradigm
shift of our understanding in how we can best communicate with, and teach our
dogs to produce desired results.
To make it simple, consider that our dogs have the capacity
to be multi-lingual. The following, but not limited to, can all be considered
languages of communication, Body, Verbal, Food, Toy, Collar, Whistle and Leash.
To attempt teaching, using all these languages at the same time, sets up
confusion not only for the dog, but more importantly, the owner.
At Sit Means Sit Hawaii, we initiate teaching communication without
using any verbal commands. We use our body, integrating our SMS collar and then
the leash as needed, to guide and create a desired physical movement. For most,
this approach is counter intuitive, since generally folks assume the dogs
speaks English, and then they start throwing out commands louder and faster, sending the dog into confusion all while yanking on the leash.
The classic, "yell at
the dog until he figures it out," is the shortest route to confusion and the direct route to inconsistent
compliance. This scenario is no different
than someone yelling at you in a foreign language. Confusion and frustration show up quickly, followed by fear. This does not set
a healthy stage for learning to take place for either you or your dog.
Teaching your dog a skill starts with gaining your dog's attention.
With our Sit Means Sit program there is no yelling, screaming or otherwise
"hissy fits" involved to get your dog to learn. We build a line of
communication in a planned progressive protocol. The progression is based on
each dog's capacity to demonstrate a level of comprehension to pay attention to
the owner. Once the dog understands what is expected to pay attention, then we
begin with teaching a defined skill, followed by verbal marking. The initial
skill set includes the commands "come" "sit" "place" and "free." We can teach
all these skills without a single word being spoken. Our deaf dog clients are
the easiest to grasp this approach.
By refreshing the importance of clear communication, it is
our intention to shift your paradigm to the language of mutual understanding,
so you can continue to teach your dog new skills. We would like to encourage
all of you to check your communication style, and if need be, refresh your
approach down to a whisper and go back to Sit Means Sit basics. Go ahead and dust
off the place board, pull out the long leash and challenge yourself and your dog,
to go through the corner stone drill of Come-Place-Free drill. Then progressively, add duration,
distance and distractions, do all this to enhance your relationship and level of
communication with your best four legged pal.
Treats/Food can be used to both shape behavior patterns and reward behavior patterns. When using treats to shape new skills, we use the food as a lure to create the movement pattern desired. Normally we break down the desired skill into progressive stages to instill a "success builds success" type of environment. 
