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Next Kindred Spirit Network Meeting!
The next meeting is set for
7.30pm WEDNESDAY 10th FEBRUARY
at a venue to be confirmed.
Pencil it into your diary if you'd like to come along for more inspirational chat and discussions!
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Newsletter Archive!
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Greetings!
Just as we all thought 2010 couldn't be more difficult that 2009, the universe throws us a climatic curveball and decides that the country should freeze under a blanket of snow and ice. Businesses are hit again, individuals can't move around and worse still, some lose their lives as a result of the intense weather.
Seems cruel doesn't it? All we wanted was for 2010 to wipe clean the difficulties of 2009 and here we are struggling to even get 2010 underway. But is there a lesson for us hidden away in the shivering and sliding that we are having to endure? Perhaps there is....
Like many lessons, sometimes life pushes us to the limit to get us to change. When the universe wants us to shift our thoughts, tweak our life direction or behave differently, it does have a tendency to "box us in" and stop us from moving for a while. It takes major life changing events to get us to make life changing events too. So is this climatic shift a way of getting us all to think differently?
For those that have seen the film "Day After Tomorrow" where a huge super storm caused by climate change threatens the northern hemisphere, the weather patterns currently being experienced in the entire northern hemisphere show remarkable similarities to this fictional film. So perhaps the human race won't change its habits until real pain is felt - economically and politically.
But my point is once again that when things are very difficult, there are lessons to learn. "In the seed of every difficulty is the seed of equal or greater benefit". So as we struggle to get the new year going amongst the snow and the ice, and we are perhaps kept at home, let us use this time effectively. Let us spend time thinking and planning rather than "doing". Let us consider what is important to us this year in our personal and professional lives and then we'll discover that this cold snap could turn out to be the moment when we warm up our dreams, goals and plans.
And of course remember that every difficulty needs perspective. It may be cold, it may be tricky to use our cars, it may be frustrating for our progress. But around every corner in every part of the world, there are far greater difficulties being encountered and overcome than we face with a little snow and ice.
So enjoy the opportunity to slow down, think and contemplate. It's good to do so from time to time.
I hope you enjoy this issue of The Kindred Spirit Network newsletter and look forward to spending more time together in 2010.
In love and life
Paul x x P.S. Look out for details of the next get together on the left of the page as the date has changed!
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Honour

"I don't understand" said Julian. "He promised that he would pay me what he owed me and now he is refusing to honour that promise"
Paul looked at Julian and saw the pain in his eyes. Paul knew that Julian was an honourable man and just how much how much it was hurting him.
"That's why he'll never succeed in business Julian, honour is something that he doesn't understand," said Paul.
Julian looked a Paul and knew he was right. "I know Paul, but it still hurts to think I have given him so much for him to break his promise to me".
As Julian walked away with his shoulders hunched low and the worry etched on his face, Paul wondered about his friend. He was an honourable man that didn't shirk from his commitments, so why was he being hurt by another that didn't seem to care about the feelings or situations of others. And in that moment, Paul realised that he actually pitied the dishonourable man as Julian was the finer, stronger and more rounded character. Julian had taken the blow and moved on, his honour and reputation in tact. The dishonourable man would one day feel the universal backlash that was certain to come...
****** Honour is a basic principle which underlies
all success.
It is clear that to be a successful human being you
must first honour yourself. You can't honour anything or anyone without the
deepest respect and honour of yourself. To succeed as a human being, you
must also honour your loved ones, your friends and your family. In business and at work, it's crucial to honour your employees, suppliers and customers. In fact, honour plays a significant role in all our
actions and as with all great things in life, it occurs in very simple
ways but it's not always an easy path. But the
rewards for living a life of honour are huge. How? Your inner
feelings of self-worth and self-esteem will rise to a whole new
level; Your growing reputation will help you attract the most
outstanding people in all the important areas of your life; Your
business will attract customers who respect you at the very highest level and
become raving fans for life; You'll become a magnet which will enable
you to attract the backing and support you'll need or want; And you'll enjoy your relationships with partners, children and grandchildren who will
respect and honour you. So do you feel the harder road of living a life of honour is worth pursuing or is it simply easier to let others down and focus on your own needs when the going gets tough? Being honourable is a key factor that will determine the
level of success you achieve in business and in life. The ever watching universe sees our choices. Julian and Paul knew it and chose well...
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Being a Kindred Spirit in 2010
In 2009, a small group of like minded people met together to talk about life, its challenges and the place for synchronicity and intuition in our lives.
There were less than 15 people at the first meeting. Since then, the newsletter has grown to a circulation of 85 people with 30 people attending the last meeting.
So what will 2010 bring and what purpose does the Kindred Spirit Network serve?
When the group first got together, it was simply an opportunity for a group of like minded, self employed business owners to meet up and network without the expectation to put on the smiley face and say "business was great" (when it wasn't) and to have no expectation of gaining business as a result of the meeting. Since then, others that may not be business owners have enjoyed the newsletter and come along to the meeting - some out of curiosity, and some because they enjoy the atmosphere and "vibe" of the evening. This has created a vibrant mix of different people with different backgrounds and different approaches to life.
So as we progress into 2010, the objective is still the same. A n occasional, simple get together of people - from whatever walk of life, to share our challenges and simply be a support network group for each other on this busy journey called life.
And a fortnightly newsletter that will hopefully give you food for thought, stimulate your mind and warm your heart.
Here's to being a Kindred Spirit and all that this will bring in 2010.
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See the Blessings in Disguise
Take stock of those who were negative forces in your past. Search for ways in which their actions might have been blessings in disguise. Abandonment, abuse and disloyalty can be valuable teachers when you see that you experienced them for a greater good.
Selected from "Inspiration" by Dr Wayne W. Dyer.
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Books that Inspire Me
Mitch Albom's 'The Five People You Meet In Heaven' tells the tale of
Eddie, the fairground maintainance man and his story begins on his 83rd
birthday.......his last day on earth.
To help him put his lifetime into perspective he is met in heaven
by 5 people from his past, some he knows - some he doesn't, but they
all hold information that will help Eddie make sense of his life and
understand what led him to arrive in heaven on the day he did.
The message seems to be that whether we are aware of it or not,
everything happens for a reason but more importantly, even trivial
things can shape a person and that every encounter, occurance or event
is tightly woven into the fabric of our lives.
It is a very quick read, at just over 100 pages, and can be read in one
sitting with a poignant ending that will bring a tear to your eye.
Click on the image above if you would like to purchase the book from Amazon
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Mystical Moments
The night before, I'd had a conversation with a good friend that needed to change direction in life and was considering a role in the not-for-profit sector, possibly for a charity. 24 hours later, my first conversation in the morning was with another friend that had just sent out a list of letters to the chief executives of a number of UK based charities. And he had all the names and addresses..
Amazing how just when you need something very specific, the solution appears. Mystical? Maybe. Bloomin' useful? Definitely!
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