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Greetings!
Have you been attracted to emotionally unavailable, or unattainable partners?
In a culture that is very achievement driven, it's common to find people working very hard to attain things. There was an experiment held once on the streets of New York where people tried to give away $20 and most people passed by the offer, suspicious or even offended.
We're trained to chase the proverbial dangling carrot.
When another reality is also true. You could say, just stand under a ripe fruit tree and open your hands.
Find out below why you may have been attracting less than attainable partners and what you can do to shift into receiving what you want in this week's article.
We also had a DELUGE of requests for our Valentine's Gift, and were unfortunately unable to work with everyone who wanted a session.
Women have often asked how else they can continue to work with us and we recognize that our intensives and retreats only happen a few times a year. So we've created a package that is much more convenient for those of you were are at a distance. CLICK HERE For more info.
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All my love,
Bella
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Ever Attract Emotionally Unavailable Partners?
You know, where you feel like you're always asking for too much? Where just their presence makes you feel needy?
Ever wonder why you do it? 90% of it comes from how you were programmed growing up. It makes sense right, think back, did you have a parent, a sibling, people in your life who was not available? Maybe they were too busy, stressed. Maybe they were taught that emotions were bad. Maybe they didn't have communication courses growing up ; )
In some cases you may have found the beauty in this, you may have learned how to amuse yourself. The only problem is that when we get back into relationship, those same dynamics will often continue to play themselves out.
So what's the cure? How do you attract someone who is available? And more importantly, would YOU be attracted to someone who is good for you?
Of course I speak from personal experience because in my 20's I realized I needed to change after I rejected a man I was dating because he was too good at listening to me. Instead, I pursued a man who wouldn't hold my hand in public for 9 months of our relationship. Looking back, I have so much compassion for my younger self because I was chemically attracted to men who would ignore me simply because that's what my DAD did.
How did I shift this pattern? Well, it's funny. When I met the next person that was remotely nicer to me, and who I found to be a good catch on paper - my friends loved him, he was well-educated, had decent relationships with his exes, I took a plunge and kissed him. Mind you it was like eating sushi for the first time.I basically closed my eyes and plunged having no idea if I'd like it or not. I didn't let chemical attraction be the basis for my exploration as this was something completely new for me. All I can say is that being kissed by a lover who is kind and attentive is a far lovelier experience than someone who isn't and that the body learns to adore this kind of attention very very quickly.
To find out more about why we block our Beloved and how to start receiving the love you deserve, attend one of our free Orientations or come and attend the Manifesting Your Beloved 2 Day Intensive coming April 4 & 5, 2009 to Marin!
All my love,
Bella
Bella
Shing is a Spiritual Love Coach who helps people who believe in the Law
of Attraction to Manifest their Beloveds by understanding first and
foremost how to be that for themselves.
She
publishes the monthly "Beloved Training" Ezine where you'll get Tips,
Resources, and Inspiration on how to be the Beloved all the time. Get
your Free subscription at: www.manifestingyourbeloved.com
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