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Greetings!
Ever had the strange feeling that someone who is annoying you is actually doing you a favor?
If so, you've been listening to your higher self.
In this week's newsletter, find out why they are so incredibly valuable to you, why you actually wanted to have them in your life (gasp!), and what gifts are in store for you as a RESULT of having interacted with them.
Also, as this is the month of love, we know that women will have "love" especially on their minds. We want all of you to be able to thrill in being in love this month rather than dreading it. Because as you start to celebrate all the love that you already are and have all around you, that is exactly what you magnetize to you!
So we'll be having Manifesting Your Beloved FR*EE teleclass and live orientation every week this month and will help you make February a month of Being the Beloved regardless of whether or not you're in relationship!
February 5, 2009
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February 26, 2009 Live in Los Gatos
All my hugs and kisses,
Bella
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Why Those Who Annoy You Are KEY to Having What You Want!
You know who I'm talking about.
The exes who did you wrong, the roommate who won't clean up after themselves, the co-worker who you can't stand, the boss who you hate.
In our last issue we talked about soul mates. Did you know that some of these people are also your soul mates? Would it shock you to know that often times the people who have aggravated you the most, caused the most betrayal, rendered the most injustice are often the people who provide you the most value? These people, just like friends who you adore, also made an agreement with you. You agreed that for one another's expansion, you'd come in and frustrate one another into greatness.
Seem strange? Think about it though. This premise supports the idea that Source is complete love, not fear. As very wise and intelligent beings, we knew that this place of dualistic experience held the promise of incredible expansion, not just through gumdrops and rainbows, but through things we may not like.
Think about all the people who have been your strongest detractors, who have pushed you to get clear about what you want through what you don't want, the critical teachers, the abusive lovers, the annoying co-workers. I have had quite a few relationships with exes who were definitively unkind and narcissistic. They always put their needs above others, they were insensitive, at times demeaning or even cruel.
Wouldn't you know that without having experiences with them, I would never have learned what my own needs were? For every disparaging remark, I was given a choice of believing in the lie, or aligning with the truth of who I really was.
I could either choose connection to Source and the bliss, confidence and self-esteem it brings or succumb to caring about whatever hateful thought someone was having.
I would never have been able to love myself with such strength if it had not been for all these wonderful scoundrels. And I definitely would not have been able to manifest a Beloved whose tenderness and strength is made all the more magnificent by having witnessed brutality and disconnection.
Now, don't get me wrong, you don't have to continue racking up distasteful experiences in order to have good ones (you did that enough in your childhood and teens). And at the same time, know that there will always be contrast in everything in the Universe. It is the key catalyst for LIFE. But when you learn that you always have choice, that you can always view something you don't like as something that calls forth the birthing of something you do like, you shorten the time spent in discomfort or dislike and start to receive more of what you want faster and with more joy along the way!
Would you like to know the key?
REJOICE! When you can appreciate even the most heinous of experiences for the birthing of a desire, or new found clarity, you are no longer in resistance. And when you are no longer in resistance, you've come into alignment with your Higher Self, and then all the goodies start to pour in. So take a moment and give true thanks for all the exes who have helped you to define who you are today. It'll work wonders!
All my love,
Bella
Bella
Shing is a Spiritual Love Coach who helps people who believe in the Law
of Attraction to Manifest their Beloveds by understanding first and
foremost how to be that for themselves.
She
publishes the monthly "Beloved Training" Ezine where you'll get Tips,
Resources, and Inspiration on how to be the Beloved all the time. Get
your Free subscription at: www.manifestingyourbeloved.com
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email us at: bella@manifestingyourbeloved.com
phone: 831-427-3490
visit us on the web at: www.manifestingyourbeloved.com
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Elizabeth & Chase Engaged!
"The Manifesting my Beloved 2 Day Intensive helped me shift my thinking about my beloved; it cleared all doubts in me that he existed. I walked away from the course with a deep sense: "Of course he exists and it's a matter of me preparing the space for him to come." Within months of taking the course, I was drifting into sleep when I had the feeling that my beloved had just returned to the United States. On the fourth date with my beloved, I told him about the feeling. We discovered it was the same night he had returned from a long stay in India. It was him, the one I had been waiting for. Thank you Bella for providing a venue for such sweet surrender to the love that is awaiting all of us."- Elizabeth Cunningham
Click HERE FOR MORE INFO on the MANIFESTING YOUR BELOVED 2 DAY INTENSIVE
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